R/t Master found [maybe]

[Chicklet]

weeding through the assholes on dating sites takes a while to get used to. When I first started looking on those sites, things excited me that would send me running to the hills now. Trial and error, but safely. Please don't give your number out to other people unless it's extremely protected. I hate to sound paranoid, but you can really get a lot of information from someone just by having their phone number.

Might I suggest buying a mic for your computer, and offering a yahoo voice chat to people who want to talk to you in person? It's cheaper than long distance in some instances, and would give you a safe way to chat more intimately.

Good luck Brandii. Don't let those idiots get you down

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Okay... long story shortened. <Major snip!>

But, just so you all know... this guy is history.

I haven't previously weighed in on this thread, because by the time I found it, I had nothing to add that WD, neon and numerous others (sorry, I'm too tired to look up all the names, y'all...) hadn't already said.

However, at this point, I have to say: Wonderful!

Like the others, I was scared for you from your first post in the thread, because this struck me as being very much not what you need or want. I'm glad you listened and thought, and looked inside yourself, and realized that this was a situation you didn't want to get yourself into.

 

[Life_Noir]

Okay... long story shortened.

He did ring and after realizing it was actually him on the other end, I obviously was less enthusiastic talking to him than the last time I spoke to him, which he picked up. The call was short and he said he'd talk to me online.

When he came online later on the dating site I met him on, he wanted to know what the problem was and I told him. His reply to that was "that I wasn't behaving very sub-like now." I basically told him that I was not the type of sub he needed, I need to go slow and I needed to learn the basics with someone I trust to which he kept saying he'd train me in a way as befitting a sub.

He wasn't listening to me and if I learnt anything from B, he always listened and even more than that he heard and understood even when I wasn't saying it right.

Writer Dom was correct in what he said. This guy was answering a profile I'd written with a purpose in mind... I wanted to sort the wheat from the chaff and draw the Dominant males on the site to me...

I'm thinking maybe I should wait for the right Dom to find me instead of me manipulating profiles to find him.

But, just so you all know... this guy is history.

Glad to hear the fellow is history...
Sad part is, he'll probably find someone else...Change his line of patter a bit... And succeed..
And for each one of these wankers that does succeed makes life a bit harder for the Dom/me's that aren't.

Remember.. A little patience can be a VERY good thing..

The lack of a little bit of patience can sometimes kill you.