quirky bondage fetishist

[Krinaia]

quirky female bondage fetishist in Columbia, South Carolina

For now I am NOT labeling myself submissive as I have decided to give myself a shot at switching should the occasion arise. This does not however mean I am at all interested in domination as I love to bottom when it comes to bondage and a relationship wherein I dominate doesn't leave much room for me to get tied up. Nor does this mean I'm willing to exclude dominant males from my search as I very much want to continue exploring my submissiveness - I do however at this point have a preference for experienced dominants.

I am also a little bicurious, so your sex doesn't really matter.

As to my locality - I'm about to graduate and have not yet found a job so until I do, I'm without a locality. This doesn't mean I'm willing to relocate however, it just means I am about to move away from Indiana - thank god. Where I move depends entirely upon what career opportunities I am being offered.

Also, if you can't talk about anything but sex or bdsm, don't bother contacting me because I want be able to connect with anyone I play with on more levels than those that are primal. So here are my interests: I love to watch films, I like to read particularly - science fiction and fantasy, I enjoy being outside - picnicing hiking and camping are favorites, I love playing cards and board games, and I love dining out and seeing shows and visitng art museums and historical sites. I also enjoy a good flea market adventure. Things I'd like to take up someday: kayaking, woodworking and international travel.

A few more limits - please, don't bother offering to teach me, it offends me when someone right off the bat assumes I'm a newbie that needs instructing. I have several experienced and knowledgable friends in the lifestyle to turn to and though it's never bad to have a few more, this kind of friendship comes with time and not by someone making assumptions and offering advice where it hasn't been asked. And please leave me alone if you are over the age of 36/37... that is the limit of the age difference of someone I willing to explore bdsm with.

If you're wanting to learn anything more, please pm me or respond in this thread, I sometimes get grumpy by random ims when I may be working or in a public area and you won't get the time and consideration you deserve.

 

[Etoile]

If you happen to end up coming to DC, I'll take you kayaking sometime.

 

[Krinaia]

If you happen to end up coming to DC, I'll take you kayaking sometime.

I can't afford DC - at least not for a few more years... right now I'm looking at the Carolinas. I know how to canoe, my family used to own one and I took some classes - but I never got to graduate to kayaking. The thing I always hated about canoeing was sitting so high, I felt like I was going to tip - which funnily enough, we did all the time anyhow. My brother and I loved to tip it over, come up underneath it in the air pocket and make lots of hooting noises, then we'd tip it back over and row around in it filled with water which is a much better workout i might add. So with kayaking - I'm not scared of tipping or anything, but I'm scared a lil of getting my legs stuck. And I think I'd want a lot of practice of calm lakes before I gave any rapids a go.

 

[Etoile]

Oh, I don't do any whitewater kayaking myself! There are nice rapids around DC, it's true, but there is plenty of good flatwater too. You'd probably want to start out in a recreational kayak with a nice big open cockpit - no risk or getting your legs caught there. Or heck, you could even try out a sit-on-top first!

 

[Krinaia]

Oh, I don't do any whitewater kayaking myself! There are nice rapids around DC, it's true, but there is plenty of good flatwater too. You'd probably want to start out in a recreational kayak with a nice big open cockpit - no risk or getting your legs caught there. Or heck, you could even try out a sit-on-top first!

Yah it'll probably be at leas ta year or two before I have that kind of expendable income - first I need new glasses, a couch, maybe an arm chair, a real kitchen table, a coffee table, and let's see and a tivo okay kidding on that last one.

do you have to wear a wet-suit? Or is that only for special water conditions?

 

[Etoile]

Yah it'll probably be at leas ta year or two before I have that kind of expendable income - first I need new glasses, a couch, maybe an arm chair, a real kitchen table, a coffee table, and let's see and a tivo okay kidding on that last one.

do you have to wear a wet-suit? Or is that only for special water conditions?

Oh, a wetsuit is definitely only for special water conditions. I only wear one in the last few months of the season. (I don't have a drysuit, so I'm not a year-round paddler.) You can go kayaking in T-shirt and shorts (and a PFD) here.

 

[Krinaia]

awesome, i doubt i'd like wearing a wetsuit and i pretty much dislike being cold


so how much you wanna bet that if i posted any image with a kinky title, that my hits would momentarily triple on this thread?

 

[Krinaia]

oh and since i have a sig line for the first time ever.... i'd like to explain more in depth the statelessness thing - seems on my taxes, for taxes purposes that the state i have residency in won't claim me for college related reasons and the state i actually resided in won't claim me for college related reasons - so i am technically without state, odd? Very.

Also, i'm in that transitional phase of graduating in 30/31 days so.... Soon to call Indiana a part of my past, soon to call the not-my-room-anymore room in my parent's house a temporary nesting ground until i find a job... sigh.

And I've spent the entire evening researching firms in the Carolinas and have and will be sending out dozens of resume and cover letters. Cities that will interest me when i exhaust the carolinas: cincy, st. louis, richmond virgina, pittsburgh, philly, perhaps knoxville, perhaps not, phoenix, and possibly portland. In pretty much that order.

So if you're in those areas - within reasonable driving distance, who knows, i maybe will be coming to a theatre near you.

 

[Nyte_BlackRose]

oh and since i have a sig line for the first time ever.... i'd like to explain more in depth the statelessness thing - seems on my taxes, for taxes purposes that the state i have residency in won't claim me for college related reasons and the state i actually resided in won't claim me for college related reasons - so i am technically without state, odd? Very.

Also, i'm in that transitional phase of graduating in 30/31 days so.... Soon to call Indiana a part of my past, soon to call the not-my-room-anymore room in my parent's house a temporary nesting ground until i find a job... sigh.

And I've spent the entire evening researching firms in the Carolinas and have and will be sending out dozens of resume and cover letters. Cities that will interest me when i exhaust the carolinas: cincy, st. louis, richmond virgina, pittsburgh, philly, perhaps knoxville, perhaps not, phoenix, and possibly portland. In pretty much that order.

So if you're in those areas - within reasonable driving distance, who knows, i maybe will be coming to a theatre near you.

Richmond isn't all that far from DC, like about an hour or so drive. I don't think You'll end up anyplace close enough to me, but heck, another fun person to talk to is always welcome. I am about an hour from DC btw, north then west, in Hagerstown, MD

 

[Krinaia]

Maryland has a high cost of living in the cities that interest me there. Too high for an in-debt college student. I mean I need a couch and am willing to buy one from Goodwill instead of a new one from the store - but then I want to be able to afford slip-covering the thing.

Why the cape and the pirate-like outfit in the other photo? Not that I particularly mind pirates, maybe they're kind of sexy - but I'm not sure I always understand those who enjoy costumery.

 

[Krinaia]

No answer? Did I come off insulting - didn't mean to. I just never have understood the costume fetishists. DOn't get me wrong, it might be fun to do the French Maid thing but I recently was introduced to the fuzzy thing with people dressing up in mascottype outfits - that was different. And being a barmaid might be fun... so I guess I could do the RenFaire thing MAYBE... I just am not sure I understand it's appeal to those to for whom it is a fetish.

 

[Etoile]

Hey, have you checked out Freecycle.org? You might be able to ask for something like a couch on your local list.

 

[mslv4Her]

Cities that will interest me when i exhaust the carolinas: cincy.....

So if you're in those areas - within reasonable driving distance, who knows, i maybe will be coming to a theatre near you.

Well, i'm in Dayton....less than an hour from Cincy....and who knows, you might want to look at Dayton as well.

If you do get to that area and decide you're wanting to be a bit more dominant, i'd be more than willing to help you out!!!!

 

[Krinaia]

Hey, have you checked out Freecycle.org? You might be able to ask for something like a couch on your local list.

Well currently I'm getting ready to get rid of a couch and I'm afraid that my hope is to soon start buying NICE furniture, as in classy pieces with sleek modern lines or funky pieces that stand out which I love - and not some banged up hand me down originally bought at Kmart. The designer in me wants to live in a pretty space with pretty furniture, pretty colors and matched decor. You know, not a green and navy plaid couch and rusty orange armchairs with a black laquer coffee table completed by a blonde veneer covered particle board entertainment center. That's all well and good for a college girl with bad taste but I'm going to be a professional architect an dmy home should reflect that! <sigh>


I haven't yet given up on the Carolinas so Dayton maybe in the future - but it's a bit more Northern than I'm hoping for. I hate winter. I had snow. I want the shortest possible snow session ever. A week of it, just enough to make me appreciate the spring flowers - that would be perfect But Dayton is okay, I'm afriad my only memories of it are being 19 or 20 and driving there to go "clubbing" which meant line dancing at some country western bar - and me wearing flip flops, jeans and a punk-like tshirt. I felt out of place. I'm not sure if Dayton is very country western or if that is just a misconception because of my one drunken college trip there.

 

[Krinaia]

I just realized how very whiny I sounded in that last post - but let me explain it by saying that I just spent four hours either stamping wedding invitations or stringing beads onto wires to create the centers of the 600 or so crepe flowers we're making for centerpieces - for my best friend's wedding. Monotonous work and my fingers are black and a few of my nails which I'd been letting grow out a bit, will have to go I bet. Too much ink.

Bleh

 

[Nyte_BlackRose]

Maryland has a high cost of living in the cities that interest me there. Too high for an in-debt college student. I mean I need a couch and am willing to buy one from Goodwill instead of a new one from the store - but then I want to be able to afford slip-covering the thing.

Why the cape and the pirate-like outfit in the other photo? Not that I particularly mind pirates, maybe they're kind of sexy - but I'm not sure I always understand those who enjoy costumery.

I do go to renfairs and thus why I have the clothes, they were worn at the time for a photoshoot so a friend could work on her portfolio. And no, you didn't come off badly, I have just been busy with a new job and a bit absent minded. The french maid outfit sounds fun indeed

Yes, most of MD has a high cost of living, though here in Hagerstown, it isn't bad, and if you have a car, it is within commuting distance of most of the major employment centers.

 

[Krinaia]

I do go to renfairs and thus why I have the clothes, they were worn at the time for a photoshoot so a friend could work on her portfolio. And no, you didn't come off badly, I have just been busy with a new job and a bit absent minded. The french maid outfit sounds fun indeed

Yes, most of MD has a high cost of living, though here in Hagerstown, it isn't bad, and if you have a car, it is within commuting distance of most of the major employment centers.

I've never been to a Renfaire thing... It sounds fun though I suppose. I really enjoy folk and fairy tales. Not sure I want to pretend to be part of one but I enjoy watching preformances and such.

Commuting sucks - Major reason I refuse to even consider applying for anything in L.A. I like my car but I don't want to spend more than an hour in it daily. It wouldn't be so bad if I could ride a tram as I could read but time behind the wheel feels like moments stolen from my life you know. Time when I could be doing something better. Which reminds me, I need to stop playing and get to work on my resumes so I can clean the apartment and work on thesis before tonights B-q. Rock out.

 

[Nyte_BlackRose]

I've never been to a Renfaire thing... It sounds fun though I suppose. I really enjoy folk and fairy tales. Not sure I want to pretend to be part of one but I enjoy watching preformances and such.

Commuting sucks - Major reason I refuse to even consider applying for anything in L.A. I like my car but I don't want to spend more than an hour in it daily. It wouldn't be so bad if I could ride a tram as I could read but time behind the wheel feels like moments stolen from my life you know. Time when I could be doing something better. Which reminds me, I need to stop playing and get to work on my resumes so I can clean the apartment and work on thesis before tonights B-q. Rock out.

Makes sense. Richmond is nice though, pretty area, weather isn't too bad, and it's not far from lots of cool stuff. Have fun at your barbeque

 

[Etoile]

I recently was introduced to the fuzzy thing with people dressing up in mascottype outfits - that was different.

I think you mean furry.

 

[Krinaia]

I think you mean furry.

furry and fuzzy are nearly the same thing

 

[Etoile]

furry and fuzzy are nearly the same thing

True, but if you Google for "furry" the first several results are about the subculture/kink/fetish of furries. Googling for "fuzzy" gets you something totally unrelated.

 

[Krinaia]

I am now, by the way, offically a college graduate.

woohoo

 

[Dstorage]

Well congrats to the new grad!

Now the fun really starts!

Actually, I'm not being sarcastic. You now have total control over your life, whether you like the thought or not....

It's pretty cool if you think about it though.

Congrats again!

 

[Krinaia]

This also means I am currently in Kentucky - Lexington.... and waiting for an offer - first choice is a firm in Coulmbia, South Carolina and the second is in Greenville of SC.... so if you're in those cities, I may soon be joining yah in warmer weather. All I can say is thta being where there were palm trees again was something of a relief.

 

[Krinaia]

Uhm, so I just took the job offer in Columbia... so I am now a quirky bondage fetishist in Columbia, SC and looking to meet friends and lovers in the area.