Quick question for you men

[Rosiegirl19]

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How many times a day could you participate in making the beast with two backs, doing the deed, the horizontal tango, the sex?
How many times a day would you consider 'normal'?

Hypothetically speaking, if I was in a relationship with someone and we were on average hitting 3 times a day, sometimes 4. But almost a year into it he's only ready for it twice a day now, is that foreshadowing a possibly diminishing sex drive in the future for him?

I know some articles say that women's sex drive slows down once in a committed relationship for a long time (hard time believing that'll happen to me. I almost feel addicted) , but I was wondering if that happens to men too?

 

[Shimp]

That so depends on the age..how much each person works and the added stress that comes with that. Also driving takes a big toll on drive...if you have a long commute home it drains you. When young we were 6-7 times aweek then it tapered off. We would have weekend scrumpfest where we would go at it as much as possible for the weekend, which was 3 or more a day.

 

[afriquemystique]

I'm looking for complete honesty here! So, if you're proud of your answer, go ahead and answer on the board...if you're a little bashful, shoot me a PM

How many times a day could you participate in making the beast with two backs, doing the deed, the horizontal tango, the sex?
How many times a day would you consider 'normal'?

Hypothetically speaking, if I was in a relationship with someone and we were on average hitting 3 times a day, sometimes 4. But almost a year into it he's only ready for it twice a day now, is that foreshadowing a possibly diminishing sex drive in the future for him?

I know some articles say that women's sex drive slows down once in a committed relationship for a long time (hard time believing that'll happen to me. I almost feel addicted) , but I was wondering if that happens to men too?

Read up on dopamine levels and desires... This helps to explain it.

Personally, if I had three or four fantastic lovers, my sex drive would be far more than just with the one person. However, some people have seen TLC's My Five Wives. That'll put you off....

 

[pussycraver54]

Also after a year of three to four times a day try to find new ways to make it exciting,

Btw If I had the time four or five would be no proplem.

 

[just4friends]

Do you mean..

He cums three times a day... Or you have three love making sessions a day?
If my wife likes quickies here and there I could manage more than two, but I don't know if that would be good for her
Keep adding spice !

 

[xJust4Fun6x]

congrats!

Congrats on 3-4 times a day. Not many people have time for that so enjoy it while you can! My wife and I average around 3-4 times a week, but that is due to a busy schedule. Weekends could be twice a day.

Obviously the more excited he is, the more times it will happen. If things get repetitive, frequency will go down. I agree with the other posters that you need yo spice it up to keep up your rate.

Enjoy! Pm me if you want to discuss further! Don't over think this and just enjoy!

 

[Rosiegirl19]

Shimp: thank you for the input, I'm going chalk it up to being tired after work. Also, "scrumpfest" is now being added to my sex euphemism list.

Ronster: I'm 21, he's 22. Which should explain the insatiable sex drive.

Mystique: He regularly exercises and has a great diet, his dopamine levels probably aren't the culprit. Maybe you haven't met the right woman if you need four different lovers. Or maybe you like a little variety, who am I to judge

 

[Rosiegirl19]

Congrats on 3-4 times a day. Not many people have time for that so enjoy it while you can! My wife and I average around 3-4 times a week, but that is due to a busy schedule. Weekends could be twice a day.

Obviously the more excited he is, the more times it will happen. If things get repetitive, frequency will go down. I agree with the other posters that you need yo spice it up to keep up your rate.

Enjoy! Pm me if you want to discuss further! Don't over think this and just enjoy!

Wow, your reply was probably the most genuine one I've read (albeit only a few people answered lol). I almost feel close to you now! :hug: thanks for the input. Like you, it could be due to the busy schedule and fatigue after work.

"Don't over think this and just enjoy!" Done! Thanks

He cums three times a day... Or you have three love making sessions a day?
If my wife likes quickies here and there I could manage more than two, but I don't know if that would be good for her
Keep adding spice !

Mmm...he cums 2 times a day now. Sometimes three.
Hooray for quickies! I'm taking your advice, spice spice baby.

ALSO...On the other post I have no clue how I put that downward thumb on there. It was an accident.

 

[LooseLace]

How many times a day could you participate in making the beast with two backs, doing the deed, the horizontal tango, the sex?

I would just like to compliment you on this sentence.

 

[rustywilliams]

Hypothetically speaking, if I was in a relationship with someone and we were on average hitting 3 times a day, sometimes 4. But almost a year into it he's only ready for it twice a day now, is that foreshadowing a possibly diminishing sex drive in the future for him?

I'm trying to make sense out of this paragraph.
"Hypothetically speaking"? That would mean this is an imaginary situation.
"if I was in a relationship..." In a computer program "if" must be followed by "then", for good reason. As it is, the sentence is incomplete.

3 or 4 times a day on average for a whole year?
What about periods?
Sounds like rubbish to me, anyway.

 

[MacGuffinn]

Do it til you can't, and then when it's less, do it as much as you can.

(It's on my coffee mug. Or beer coozie, I forget.)

 

[Rosiegirl19]

I'm trying to make sense out of this paragraph.
"Hypothetically speaking"? That would mean this is an imaginary situation.
"if I was in a relationship..." In a computer program "if" must be followed by "then", for good reason. As it is, the sentence is incomplete.

3 or 4 times a day on average for a whole year?
What about periods?
Sounds like rubbish to me, anyway.

No no you were right, I meant what I said. This is a hypothetical situation, a fake boyfriend, an imaginary relationship. In truth? I'm not real either....im actually a brain incased inside of this jar filled with amniotic fluid...connected to a computer located in Hong Kong.

BUT if this was a real situation id have to say 2-3 times a day average, MINUS period days because I feel yucky. I hope you find someone to share the same experience with Rusty, it's wonderful

 

[WickedAlchemy]

I've pulled a triple on a few rare occasions, but the last was never as gratifying as the others.

 

[NorthernGinger]

Hard to find an average for us, as life gets super crazy with work schedules, kids, general life stuff... We are pretty "spicy" and often go for several hours at a time. He has great stamina and a short refractory period, maybe cums 2, 3 or even 4 times.

I will say there are days when twice a day is a challenge, more due to other circumstances than decrease in drive, and sometimes on nights like that we end up fucking hard in the middle of the night.

I am 42, he is 37 - I'm a pretty happy camper!

 

[georgerb]

Age of both partners and work/life has a lot to do with it, from my perspective. I think all of us remember us as "better" than we were.

 

[morgoiv]

I'm looking for complete honesty here! So, if you're proud of your answer, go ahead and answer on the board...if you're a little bashful, shoot me a PM

How many times a day could you participate in making the beast with two backs, doing the deed, the horizontal tango, the sex?
How many times a day would you consider 'normal'?

Hypothetically speaking, if I was in a relationship with someone and we were on average hitting 3 times a day, sometimes 4. But almost a year into it he's only ready for it twice a day now, is that foreshadowing a possibly diminishing sex drive in the future for him?

I know some articles say that women's sex drive slows down once in a committed relationship for a long time (hard time believing that'll happen to me. I almost feel addicted) , but I was wondering if that happens to men too?

4 times a day, my better half however once a fortbight, bad times.

 

[Asshungry]

I don't think its so much a lack of sex drive, but rather the possibility that it has become boring and routine. At 55 I don't perform as I did when I was younger but with the proper motivation I don't think 3-4 a day is out of the question. My problem is finding the time for that and having something new and stimulating.

 

[thejabber27]

I'm usually good around three times a day, a week or two every couple of months it'll jump up to like five times. But I also last a while so I'm fine with two or three times a day.

 

[longtimehubby]

Ah, to be young again. Personal best? Four in one night. Now, at age 53 with extra stress, etc., lucky to have it four times a month.

Such is life.

 

[longtimehubby]

Thought it was the horizontal bop.

 

[echologue]

Sex? A million little glances a day. Little touches just to let her know I'm there and thinking of her. Unexpected hugs in dark places. Kisses on the cheek in the sunshine. all this much more important than the number of time, or how many humps the beast has.

 

[TheoSin]

I would just like to compliment you on this sentence.

Shakespeare on Lit?! o fie!

 

[Makitsu_Trinity]

I would just like to compliment you on this sentence.

I would like to second this statement. Hahaha!

 

[wideeyedgrin]

When we were young, mid-twenties, and getting to know each other, 4 to 5 times a day was possible, but 2 times in a row at night and again in the mornig was the norm. With marriage, kids jobs and getting older, once a day was the norm, unless we were home without the kids, then sex and nap and more sex was possible into our forties.

 

[Bigman57]

57 yo, 21 years of marriage. I don't think in terms of number of times a day but number of days between