Ok so my friend told me that he's never masturbated so I told him to try it and he said he would. The next day he said he couldn't at all. How do I get him to give it a try? I usually just get a good image or video and let loose but idk that didn't work for him. I love masturbating so it bugs me that he can't.
Quick question about masturbating
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SweetErika
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I think you should figure out why what your friend does in terms of pleasing himself privately (or not) is so upsetting to you. Masturbating is generally a private thing and individual choice, so his habits are none of your business unless he makes it such by, say, asking for your advice. Would you be really upset if you LOVED soccer, but he had no interest in it and preferred golf? This is the same thing. You can enjoy yourself a healthy amount, and if he wants to do the same, he'll figure out how to explore his body and cock. Tiny tots figure out how to play with their bits, so I'm confident your [presumably] ADULT friend will figure it out if he'd like to as well.
You might want to consider that your friend may have been sent very negative messages about masturbation and/or traumatized in some way(s) as a child that affects his ability to masturbate now. He may even be asexual and have no desire to masturbate. Some people are.
Your takeaway here should be that you should support your friend in whatever he wishes to do (as long as it's not hurting him or others), and his masturbation habits should have ZERO impact on your friendship.
You might want to consider that your friend may have been sent very negative messages about masturbation and/or traumatized in some way(s) as a child that affects his ability to masturbate now. He may even be asexual and have no desire to masturbate. Some people are.
Your takeaway here should be that you should support your friend in whatever he wishes to do (as long as it's not hurting him or others), and his masturbation habits should have ZERO impact on your friendship.
subwannabe
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How old are you? Your post reeks of someone under 18. I assume you are a young male. Why the hell would you give a shit if another young male can masturbate or not? Sorry, but I'm out of my element here.
