Questions ?

[maleorfemale]

Can anyone help me out-this is all very new to me,after living for
40 years I found out out I am a bisexaul man.
Can someone please tell me what is a top and what is a bottom?
My wife and I have been looking for more people into the same things as us-mmf 3somes or even a mmmf 4some,we have more offers then we can handle-we want to take things very slow-
we have a super great marrige and don't want to mess things
up.
I feel like I want to go to town-I want it all-and am glad she is
here to slow me down. I just want some more cock,but I know she is right and I need to put the brakes on so I don't get myself
in trouble,I have never cheated on my wife-we have been together for 24 years-and I don't plan on doing so now-but the thought has been there,and I told her how I feel and what I have been feeling is this all normal,I know I am not the first person to feel like this.Any help would be great.
Thanks
Mike

 

[Ms_Lilith]

WHOA! Slow down.

1) a top is the man that likes to penetrate, a bottom is the man that like to be penetrated, in the most simple terms. There are other definitions in BDSM circles, but I think this is what you're looking for.

2) Go slow, like your wife says. She's willing to do these things for you, so go at her pace, because hers seems more levelheaded at the moment. No offence.