I am a married guy in a sexless marriage (common theme here), I am looking for a real life lover. I love to flirt and I am usually pretty good at it, but it goes no further than that. I am trying to figure out how to take it to the next step.
First question: There is a woman at the gym I talk to all the time. When we talk she ALWAYS references a previous conversation so I know she is listening and paying attention. This week during a VERY long conversation I confided in her that I haven't been intimate with my wife in 8 yrs, she gave the obligatory "that sucks" type reaction. Towards the end of the conversation I blatantly hit on her and she smiled and did not react negatively. I saw her the next day and it was not weird, I thought she might have been scared off my my overshare on my sex life and the hitting on her but she did not. We talked like normal and she again referenced a previous conversation. My next move is to ask her to coffee or lunch. Any thoughts on that?
Second question: I often "eye/smile" flirt with women at Target or the grocery store or someplace like that. I am looking for advice as to how to approach them to test the waters to see if there is any interest. I cant very well walk up to them and say "Hi Im married and I see you are too, I think you're attractive are you interested in grabbing a coffee?" Can I? Any suggestions for how to approach a "flirt mate" in a way that isn't too aggressive because she may just be being nice.
Any guys with good experienced please chime in. I am looking to learn from anyone with constructive advice.
I am a fairly good looking guy and feel I look better now than at any time in my life previously. I have met several women online and had short term "relationships" with them but they are usually not local to me and I want to find someone locally and organically.
Any help/advice is appreciated.
First question: There is a woman at the gym I talk to all the time. When we talk she ALWAYS references a previous conversation so I know she is listening and paying attention. This week during a VERY long conversation I confided in her that I haven't been intimate with my wife in 8 yrs, she gave the obligatory "that sucks" type reaction. Towards the end of the conversation I blatantly hit on her and she smiled and did not react negatively. I saw her the next day and it was not weird, I thought she might have been scared off my my overshare on my sex life and the hitting on her but she did not. We talked like normal and she again referenced a previous conversation. My next move is to ask her to coffee or lunch. Any thoughts on that?
Second question: I often "eye/smile" flirt with women at Target or the grocery store or someplace like that. I am looking for advice as to how to approach them to test the waters to see if there is any interest. I cant very well walk up to them and say "Hi Im married and I see you are too, I think you're attractive are you interested in grabbing a coffee?" Can I? Any suggestions for how to approach a "flirt mate" in a way that isn't too aggressive because she may just be being nice.
Any guys with good experienced please chime in. I am looking to learn from anyone with constructive advice.
I am a fairly good looking guy and feel I look better now than at any time in my life previously. I have met several women online and had short term "relationships" with them but they are usually not local to me and I want to find someone locally and organically.
Any help/advice is appreciated.
