Questions for Dommes

[volleybella]

I havea met a lady who is a domme and i am very interested in serving her. She descibes herself as a "soft domme." What kind of questions would you recommend me asking her before we agree to begin that relationship?

thanks for any help,

kisskiss
emma

 

[Sheaf_Beast]

question

I havea met a lady who is a domme and i am very interested in serving her. She descibes herself as a "soft domme." What kind of questions would you recommend me asking her before we agree to begin that relationship?

thanks for any help,

kisskiss
emma

ask her for a negotiation form.

 

[Ebonyfire]

I always give submissives my requirements, rules, protocols, etc. first. All of this information is used to negotiate the relationship. If we come to an agreement, then we proceed. It not, I wish them well and that is that.

Eb

 

[LadyAria]

Find our her rules first in writing. Give her a list of your desires/rule. Then, each take it home and think over them. Respond to each one with:

1. Will do. (Without question)

2. Want to do.

3. Won't do ever.

4. Idenitify questionable areas (possible if better understood or restated with better definition)

5. Need to do or there is no relationship

Then, the two of you sit down and discuss if each ones 1-5 responses work for each other.