Questions & Answers I want (and need) to know

[Fly_On_Wall]

Okay completely unrelated to the fact my count down thread has made it to the last 48 hours.......

I have some questions and would like to here different opinons on each answer.

#1) Kissing (no i've never kissed anyone before so bite me)
how is it done? lol yes that sounds strange I mean pasonatly kissing not just giveing picks a normal kiss or butterfly kisses over someone's body. okay i've figured it out to a point.... start kissing tilt head sideways so noses are out of way... open mouth. (I'm stumped) yes yes I know tongues... but do what wiht them?

How do you kiss? How do you like to be kissed?

#2) Sex I said sex
yes millions of positions thousands of things to do with it.
Okay Kiss alote everywhere not just the mouth and face
even if i'm in here I can still play with her down there for added pleasrue. Best positions for a first time (or first 20 times) would be misionary, girl sitting ontop, both sitting, or standing with her wraped around me right? should probly just do it that way till we figure things out. or are there other easy positions that would be fun to try for our first dosen or so times together?
are there ways to make it easyer? anything I've missed or don't know yet and should?

#3) Oral.
Yes the starting place probly do this a few times before sex even comes into mind.
Never seen a pussy before... well pictures but that don't help.
so okay oral sex spread legs lick lick lick.... that don't sound right... don't sound fun eather.

my understanding is... outer lips, inside lips, hole, clit, g-spot, nipples (I was told before that playing with her nipples or moveing up from time to time to suck bite lick nipples or kiss lips is a good Idea during oral.

so what the hell do I do with these parts? is there anywhere you should pay more attention? how should one change thigs up about the place? hands should be involved too right?

are there any little quirks that you would sugest that you have tryed beofre and she loved, or you loved used on you?

#4) Anal..... I ment anal stimulation not anal sex.... well not just yet.

how about I leave it at those 3 questions for now.
I apreaciate the help people.
and I expect many different opinions on the answers.

Thanks

 

[Spinaroonie]

I thought you had some new video games that were taking up your time.

 

[Mistress]

Hon just go with the flow, do what feels best, and let her help guide you to what she likes. You can't be expected to know everything right off the bat, being told is one thing but actually doing it is another. If you think about it to much it will make things akward...just set a slow pace and all will work out in the end

 

[Ice Cold]

Mistress is right... there are hundred of ways to do these things... and depending on your partner, you might get a variety of different responses... the best part is the discovering for yourself what they really respond to.

Good luck

 

[Azwed]

She will know what she wants. Just pay attention to her body and listen for the clues. You seem to have a pretty good idea where to start. Don't worry you will be fine.

Oh yeah don't forget pictures.

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

lol

okay, okay fine.
that is the answer I keep getting over the last 8-9 months haha.

how about someone just explain #3 to me?

wtf do you do wiht all the different parts of the femail anatamy for oral sex?

concentrate on one or a few areas? spread it out equily amongst them all?

that is where i'm baffeld the most?
and then i've seen guys sucking differet parts in pics or biting and licking
so what parts do you do what to?

 

[Guest]

Every woman is different. We all enjoy different things. And, since the body is also unique, there's no umbrella answer to fit all. I recommend soft touches, gentle licking, and listening to how your lover breathes. Have her show you where she likes to be touched. Listen to how she responds to how you do this or that. Trust your instincts. And, have fun!

 

[Azwed]

lol

okay, okay fine.
that is the answer I keep getting over the last 8-9 months haha.

how about someone just explain #3 to me?

wtf do you do wiht all the different parts of the femail anatamy for oral sex?

concentrate on one or a few areas? spread it out equily amongst them all?

that is where i'm baffeld the most?
and then i've seen guys sucking differet parts in pics or biting and licking
so what parts do you do what to?

Ok well first find out of she likes oral sex. Yes I know it is shocking but I have met girls who don't like oral sex. I am assuming you have talked about this though.


This is what I like to do. First start by licking at the inside of her thighs slowly working your way towards her pussy. Nibble a little bit on the skin here and there. Once you reach her pussy use the tip of your tougne to lick up one lip across the center touching the clit and back down the other. Now work your way up the other thigh kissing and sucking and nibbling.


Your fingers are hard so be careful when using them on the clit since it is sensative and fragile. You may want to try and expose it some if you need to see it to find it with your tounge and then just go to town on it. Use the tip on it hard and flick it vibrate your tounge on it. Use the flat middle part of the tounge to press down hard and lap at it. Make some swirling motions too.


This is when you need to start paying attention to her body. Try and listen as best you can to see what she likes. You may want to ask her to tell you what is good and what isn't just in case you don't know her signals well yet.

Lightly using the teeth can be good as well. Something I like to do is put one finger inside her and find her g-spot. Should not be that hard to find it is about a third of the way inside the pussy on the upper wall if she is laying down on her back.

Rub the g-spot with one finger and you should be able to do this pretty hard as well. Get your face down on her pussy and lick her lips and slide your tougne inside her as much as you can. While you are doing all of this open your mouth wide and try and put your upper lip on her clit. You can put pressure there with the lip and rub the clit up and down at the same time. Perhaps brush your teeth agianst the clit too.

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

oh i'm not scared to ask questions.

if i'm curious or don't know something.... I ask no matter how stupid i comes out... this thread for example

so I asure you i'll be asking her questions If anything happens between the two of us.

 

[Spinaroonie]

When - you - are - done - don't - say - "I'm - gonna - go - play - playstation - now"

 

[Azwed]

When - you - are - done - don't - say - "I'm - gonna - go - play - playstation - now"

Hey you smartass shut your hole whoreson.

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

When - you - are - done - don't - say - "I'm - gonna - go - play - playstation - now"

COMPUTER GAMES

lol. and i'm not dumb I doubt i'm going to play games next week at all

 

[Laurel]

When - you - are - done - don't - say - "I'm - gonna - go - play - playstation - now"

And if you do, make sure you have a 2-player game so she doesn't feel left out.

 

[Azwed]

And if you do, make sure you have a 2-player game so she doesn't feel left out.

Oh and don't forget the rumble pack

 

[weed]

Weed's fanning herself

Good coaching from Azwed, if I might say.

Fly, it sounds like you should just go slow. Even before sex, perhaps even before kissing, try soft caresses ....arms....legs....slowly.....watch her, talk to her, let her see how you feel about her....once you get started you'll find your own pace together.

Enjoy

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

Re: Weed's fanning herself

once you get started you'll find your own pace together.

Enjoy

lol....

this I keep hearing... this I already know. and have always known.

most everything comes naturaly. but there is no problem with trying to be ready so you know what might be on it's way.


strange.. but I'm starting to think if a non virgin male poste a thread... how do you like your pussy licked there would be thousands of answeres from the ladys but I get answers of, let it happen haha.

go read again I did ask (well in my own words I said quirks) How do you like your pussy licked.. and how do you like to be kissed.


no i'm not mad I infact ind it a dat funny.

 

[fgarvb1]

The main thing is to relax and enjoy. These things have their own way of working out.

About question#3. if you find you like giving oral sex your going to be like a kitten trying to get at it's second bowl of milk.

As for myself the first time with a new woman i start at one end and taste and explore my way to the other, than head for that sweet pussy. Not to fast now, there is a time to please, but often the time to tease comes first. She will let you when she has had enough teasing!

I haven't received any complaints yet.

 

[weed]

I like it many ways....especially the kissing.....I like it when we give little pecks that turn into closed lip kisses....more of a gentle pulling at lips with lips....say his on my upper and mine on his lower...then we switch (uppers and lowers, that is)

eventually (no rush) the tongues slip out....seeking, testing at first...tongues have a wonderful sense of touch....see how things feel with your tongue as you explore....the tongues start to enter the others mouth....sometimes taking turns....sometimes at the same time.....as the kiss continues the tongues get deeper... but it's still good to take a break once in a while and go back to nibbling on the lips....

although it may start out as a very simple lip to lip thing a good lasting kiss will become a whole body thing....pressed together....hands slowly roaming.....pulling and loosening clothes

before you know it those nibbles and lips will be roaming also

And you can take Azwed's advice

 

[weed]

..... Not to fast now, there is a time to please, but often the time to tease comes first.

very good point

 

[fgarvb1]

 

[Azwed]

I try to make oral sex an art form. The taste, smell, texture and sound of licking pussy is like no other experience on earth. I could do it for hours or untill the woman passed out from exahustion.

I mean once you get down there and you get her juices all over you and feel them on your skin it is amazing. The smell and the taste invigorate me like nothing else. I just want to lap up her cum untill there is nothing left to swallow.

OH and the sounds my god the sounds. The wonderful perfect sounds that a woman makes during oral sex are like a symphony. I feel like I am playing a very finely tuned instrument.

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

thanks

but anyone else want to put in some input it would be greatly apreaciated....

don't mean I"m going to listen to it but it will be somre to think of.

 

[Private Vasquez]

Not too much tongue in the kissing...it's just not necessary. Of course, there are those who like the tongue down their throat...not I.
Lots of tongue in the oral pleasure (as one would hopefully guess)...and fingers.
Personally, I enjoy a nice nipple rubbing while kissing...on top of the shirt, not in it. In the shirt has it's merits...but for some reason, through the shirt works really nicely for me.

 

[Spinaroonie]

I could do it for hours or untill the woman passed out from exahustion.

Why would you have to stop then?

 

[perks]

flybaby, I gave a directorial in another thread, on different parts of pleasing a woman, kissing was part of it, so I'll go look it up for you. brb