Question

[ak2002usa]

I don't suck cock but, over the years, I've enjoyed many BJs from men. I like long slow BJs with lots of ball and rim attention. I'd say 90% of the men didnt' expect anything in return and seemed quite OK with that. With one guy I've seen recently (several times) it goes like this: one of us will e-mail the other and arrange to meet. He arrives, we chat for a few minutes, he sucks me off, we chat for a few minutes and he leaves. The only cock that sees daylight is mine. He says he just likes sucking cock. I accept that but I don't understand it. How is it that he doesn't want me to recipicate. I know I said I don't suck cock but I have but never to completion and only because I felt the relationship was so one-sided and I was feeling gulity. I post on the internet looking for cock suckers and they are lining up outside. I don't understand. Will someone please explain this to me?

 

[gagginforit]

Perhaps he just seriously, genuinly likes sucking cock and doesn't care if anything more happens. He might also like the idea of being used (not that you are using him or anything, but he might like being just there for your pleasure).

I wouldn't worry if I were you. I wish people were lined up outside my door. For anything at all would be nice.

 

[Etoile]

I have wondered about this myself sometimes. There are ads in the personals all the time for oral sex without reciprocation, footrub without reciprocation, etc. It seems to usually be men who want to offer the service but I have seen both gay and straight ads. From what I can tell they genuinely just want to service you, and that pleasure is all they want in exchange.

So I don't have an answer for you about why, but it is very common.

 

[emap]

About the only reason I can think of for these ads is they are in a relationship and she either won't or can't let them do what they want on her, hence the I'll blow you ads.

Other ones leave me a bit mystified to, but I suppose either it is something they love doing but for various reasons won't go farther in a gay sex thing. Or suppose because they get off on being 'used' for your pleasure with nothing in return.

Which is rather a D/s thing, though many won't just submit so they do these things instead for the feeling of submitting without actually.

 

[DerelictionOfSanity]

A lot of guys really get off on the idea of giving somebody else an orgasm. I think it's a male pride thing, like the guys who fell that they have to bring their partner off before they can have their own orgasm. Just a guess, really.

 

[cock_hunger]

I think I understand the thinking here. I have minimum exeprience with other guys but the experience I have has taught me I much prefer to be the one sucking cock than anything else. I am perfectly happy to see a guy with to completetion and then leave for a number of reasons.

1. I dont find guys physically attactive in the least so consider my self as a straight guy but with a huge cock sucking fetish!!

2. Because I dont find guys attractive I struggle to keep hard watching a guy suck me. I find its better to close my eyes, imagine a girl I like and just enjoy the sensation!

3. If I cum first I go completely of the idea of reciprocate

4. I enjoy sucking cock so much and get so horny that by the time the gu cums I'm usually ready to cum myself. The slightest touch can send me over the edge so if the guy wanted to reciprocate he wouldn't get much of a chance to suck before receiving a mouthfull!

5. I prefer not to cum so if the guy can manage to get it up for a 2nd time I'm still interested and get to have another go!

6. The best position for me if the guy does want to reciprocate is 69 so I can concentrate on what I am doing rather than anything else but I still find it a bit off a distraction!

I'm more than happy to see to myself afterwards!


Ak2002usa says he feels he should reciprocate because he feels guilty - I say if the guys happy just to suck you lie back and enjoy the ride!!!

If anything I feel guilty the other way round. I enjoy giving blowjobs so much that I have felt guilty that the other guy hasn't had the opportunity to give one as well!!!

As a post note - I'm fantasising more and more about receiving anal. The idea of giving does nothing for me at all - infact I find it quite a turn off and doubt I could perform!

For me its all about the receiving!!

 

[ak2002usa]

I'm not attracted to men, I just like what they can do with their mouths and cocks. When I meet with a cock sucker it's all about the act. No kissing, hand holding or tender moments. I appreciate your thoughts on this but it's still hard for me to get my brain wrapped around this.

 

[intruder52]

I am a married bi male and get my cock sucked as often as I want and as much pussy as I can handle to eat. But, I rarely get a nice cock to suck on and the reason is I am picky about who I suck. So if there is a guy that I like and trust that needs a bj and I can help him, I am all in, no need to recipricate with me. I also enjoy making out with men and all forms of foreplay with men as well as women, I suppose I am just real oral. I don't need to cum to enjoy myself but if the guy I am with will not suck me off that is ok, just let me jerk off while he watches.

 

[bi_asian_guy]

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