HARDKOREBJ
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why do women don`t like me for me.i just want what i have.im just simple i guess.
question?
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SlipknotNumber8
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alot of women are bitches. But you'll eventually find one, cheer up!
French Manicure
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HEY!!!!!!!!
Most women are not bitches!!! me, I'm not. I might be a horny one but I'm not a bitch over all. Plus, women are just looking for a sweet sensative guy that'll listen to them and wait to get them in the sack. But I'm looking for a guy that'll take me on the second take and dominate me and fuck my brains out! I like it hard and fast and if you can give that to me, we should get together!
Most women are not bitches!!! me, I'm not. I might be a horny one but I'm not a bitch over all. Plus, women are just looking for a sweet sensative guy that'll listen to them and wait to get them in the sack. But I'm looking for a guy that'll take me on the second take and dominate me and fuck my brains out! I like it hard and fast and if you can give that to me, we should get together!
As far as I can see French Manicure most women want the same as you, for some reason they claim they want a sensitive guy but are disapointed when they get one.
Be careful about making offers like that one day someone might take you up on it.
Julian
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Here's A Clue - I Hope...
Personally, I don't know what to say, hardkoreBJ...I really don't. You quetions is two part, (or your question & statements, really) as far as I can tell: 1. "Why don't women like me for me?" - and "I just want what I have; I'm simple I guess."
Therefore, let's do the first: "Why don't women like me for me?" That's a broad area, dealing with personal choices, hygiene, smiling, attitude, desires and your inner workings. Who are you? Are you a "tough guy"? The ass-kicker? Are you a party dude? For a 18 - 24 year old that could be fine, but for a woman in her late 20's, early 30's, she could want a guy who is all that and literate, caring, charitable, kind, with a future.
Despite the name, or where we are as this is written, sex is secondary. If you can't say "hi" without scaring a woman, be it from personal appearance, or your approach, (Hi bitch,,,how is you's twat?), you'll NEVER GET LAID.
That has to be second, first is compatibility. Are you interested in what she wants? Do youwant a date, or a fuck? Can you dance, or are you interested in cumming and making life a living, breathing porn flick?
As for the second, "I just want what I have; I am simplle I guess."...what is it you want, or that you have? Is it knowledge, wealth, happiness, joy, kindness, sincerity, warmth, pleasure, or the desire to create pleasure for your lover? If you're offering that, and maybe a dollop of security, tenderness and maybe (just maybe) love, even agape love, then you should be Valentino and John Holmes here.
Some women are bitches.
Some men are assholes.
Where do you fall into as a category: Man, or Asshole?
Figure that out, smile, write clearly, sincerely, - not just "Wow, you sound hot; I want to fuck you; can we meet so you can suck my cock?" - or anything similar.
Then you'll be fine. Find your depth; find your soul and your passion, and seek someone like you, or close to you in interest.
Good luck.
Julian
Personally, I don't know what to say, hardkoreBJ...I really don't. You quetions is two part, (or your question & statements, really) as far as I can tell: 1. "Why don't women like me for me?" - and "I just want what I have; I'm simple I guess."
Therefore, let's do the first: "Why don't women like me for me?" That's a broad area, dealing with personal choices, hygiene, smiling, attitude, desires and your inner workings. Who are you? Are you a "tough guy"? The ass-kicker? Are you a party dude? For a 18 - 24 year old that could be fine, but for a woman in her late 20's, early 30's, she could want a guy who is all that and literate, caring, charitable, kind, with a future.
Despite the name, or where we are as this is written, sex is secondary. If you can't say "hi" without scaring a woman, be it from personal appearance, or your approach, (Hi bitch,,,how is you's twat?), you'll NEVER GET LAID.
That has to be second, first is compatibility. Are you interested in what she wants? Do youwant a date, or a fuck? Can you dance, or are you interested in cumming and making life a living, breathing porn flick?
As for the second, "I just want what I have; I am simplle I guess."...what is it you want, or that you have? Is it knowledge, wealth, happiness, joy, kindness, sincerity, warmth, pleasure, or the desire to create pleasure for your lover? If you're offering that, and maybe a dollop of security, tenderness and maybe (just maybe) love, even agape love, then you should be Valentino and John Holmes here.
Some women are bitches.
Some men are assholes.
Where do you fall into as a category: Man, or Asshole?
Figure that out, smile, write clearly, sincerely, - not just "Wow, you sound hot; I want to fuck you; can we meet so you can suck my cock?" - or anything similar.
Then you'll be fine. Find your depth; find your soul and your passion, and seek someone like you, or close to you in interest.
Good luck.
Julian
French Manicure
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Hey sad man
I've had some one take me up for that offer and boy was it good!!! You wanna be next????
I've had some one take me up for that offer and boy was it good!!! You wanna be next????
Rambling Rose
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Re: taking a deep breath and jumping in...
Wow, you sound hot; I want to fuck you; can we meet so I can suck your cock?
Julian said:
Wow, you sound hot; I want to fuck you; can we meet so I can suck your cock?
BlondGirl
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HK,
My response to your question is a question of my own.
Where do you meet women? The best way to meet someone is to get a life. Seriously.
An easy way is to take a class--this is time of year for it. Night classes seem to be taken by more serious people than day classes (The professional student types who are living off daddy still tend to take day classes and real adults tend to take the evening and weekend classes--this is just my opinion from my own experience though.)
Take a walk every day--preferably in the same place. If there is a park that is popular for walkers, that is a great place. As the women become more familiar and comfortable with you, you (or they) can make the efforts to strike up a conversation. Plus daily exercise is always a good idea. (You might want to avoid mall walking though--that tends to attract the Geritol crowd.)
The computer is a great place to say hello, but not such a great place to build an entire relationship--I look at it as a social place, not a serious place. (It is great for keeping contacts with your lover though. My favorite lover lives across 3 state lines and the e-mail cuts costs in our communication.)
Smile. Meet womens' eyes and smile at them. Be friendly. Never miss a chance to hold a door for a lady--even if she is a granny--other women see how you treat the granny and it could win you some Brownie points.
When you are talking with a women, allow her to talk too. She will tell you a lot about herself--in her manner, how she lets you communicate, if she lets you talk at all, etc. Be interrested.
Develop hobbies. I love a man who can and WILL play chess with me. That is a bonus. I am a terrible Chess player, but I still like to play. The more things you have some experience with, the more likely you can relate to your dream girl.
Good luck.
My response to your question is a question of my own.
Where do you meet women? The best way to meet someone is to get a life. Seriously.
An easy way is to take a class--this is time of year for it. Night classes seem to be taken by more serious people than day classes (The professional student types who are living off daddy still tend to take day classes and real adults tend to take the evening and weekend classes--this is just my opinion from my own experience though.)
Take a walk every day--preferably in the same place. If there is a park that is popular for walkers, that is a great place. As the women become more familiar and comfortable with you, you (or they) can make the efforts to strike up a conversation. Plus daily exercise is always a good idea. (You might want to avoid mall walking though--that tends to attract the Geritol crowd.)
The computer is a great place to say hello, but not such a great place to build an entire relationship--I look at it as a social place, not a serious place. (It is great for keeping contacts with your lover though. My favorite lover lives across 3 state lines and the e-mail cuts costs in our communication.)
Smile. Meet womens' eyes and smile at them. Be friendly. Never miss a chance to hold a door for a lady--even if she is a granny--other women see how you treat the granny and it could win you some Brownie points.
When you are talking with a women, allow her to talk too. She will tell you a lot about herself--in her manner, how she lets you communicate, if she lets you talk at all, etc. Be interrested.
Develop hobbies. I love a man who can and WILL play chess with me. That is a bonus. I am a terrible Chess player, but I still like to play. The more things you have some experience with, the more likely you can relate to your dream girl.
Good luck.
Julian
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Sinking Into Your Head!
Dude,
You have seen the best advice here! Are you taking any of it? Honestly? Or are you hoping the next lonely little hottie looks like Pamela Lee & is slightly Bi?
Maybe a name change wouldn't hurt..(ha, ha!) But, e honest with yourself, find those things that are good that are INTERNAL and not just external.
And remember: "You can't win all the time but you can't lose forever."
Good luck HardKoreBJ....
Julian
Dude,
You have seen the best advice here! Are you taking any of it? Honestly? Or are you hoping the next lonely little hottie looks like Pamela Lee & is slightly Bi?
Maybe a name change wouldn't hurt..(ha, ha!) But, e honest with yourself, find those things that are good that are INTERNAL and not just external.
And remember: "You can't win all the time but you can't lose forever."
Good luck HardKoreBJ....
Julian
