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wellhunginktown

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i have a question i always seem to have a problem getting girls to talk to me in real life. i am divorced and i have noticed that since i had been married i am not as confident as a person, can women sense when guys aren't that confident of their looks. i would just like some insight of things to do if i just go up to some random girl because i think she is good looking because lately i have been shot down so much and it is starting to really bum me out any suggestions would be great thank u
 
wellhunginktown said:
i have a question i always seem to have a problem getting girls to talk to me in real life. i am divorced and i have noticed that since i had been married i am not as confident as a person, can women sense when guys aren't that confident of their looks. i would just like some insight of things to do if i just go up to some random girl because i think she is good looking because lately i have been shot down so much and it is starting to really bum me out any suggestions would be great thank u

married and divorced already at 22?? I feel for ya hun.
huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuugs
 
well thank u for that hug, makes me feel better, i see that u aren't that far from me tell me a little about u
 
well...

Well babe, yeah... in our own little subconcious way, we can tell when a guy isn't all that confident in himself. Obviously you need a boost in that area... which is a problem since the low confidence level feeds on itself. Girls can tell when it's low, and you get shot down, no? Which brings the already low level of confidence to an even lower state.
I'm sure you already realized all this, and you need to know how to fix it. The only advice I can give, is stop worrying about what the girls think of you, because if you're not worried, then we won't be either. And once you find that point of confidence, it's all a piece of cake from there.
I don't think I helped you much, but I tried! MUAH BABE! Good luck. :rose:
 
thank u for that, i go out but i swear i can't have a good time, i keep trying though i never thought i would see myself as a downer cause i was always so upbeat, i hope one day i can find a way to be the life of the party again, i think once i find a nice girl that lifts my spirits back up i should be ok, maybe someone on here could be that, anyways thanks for the advice i do appreciate it keep it coming i like ppl responding to my topics :)
 
I have learned that sometimes i get the most attention from women is when i am not tring at all. When i am just drinking and having fun with my friends. Last weekend i was playing pool not paying attention to my surrounding and a hot chick came over with a beer for me and we just started talking.

Don't try to hard and you will not be as worried and will have fun.
 
Tell you what boosted my condifence 1000%. This summer I had a 4 week sex adventure with a 19 yo girl. I am 37. Oh man...what a body she has....I ought to post pics sometime.


PS - I am in an open marriage so it was cool with the Mrs.
 
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