Question:

[Afterglow_lj]

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[BonoVox99]

If we had a relationship, I'd let you introduce anything.



Seriously, just tell the truth I guess.

 

[chael]

Start it out as playful. It may be a bit devious, but "just happen" to have it sitting by the bed one day, take a few snapshots of each other during a playful (yet sexual) moment. See how things progress from there.

If your partner is comfortable with it, just keep pressing along to find out where, or if, things get uncomfortable.

Now, how would you bring up post them on lit? That is a tough one.

Good luck gorgeous! Hopefully we will get to see more of you here, and maybe with a new friend. Or at least a new photographer.

Cheers!

 

[jbab]

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[degrease]

to be honest most guys would find it a turn on

 

[Tigressnrg]

How new is the relationship? The reason i ask, is because when my b/f and i first started dating we were long distance, and used the cam to chat back and forth. I would take pics for him and send them to him, and then as things progressed, he actually approached the idea with me. He wanted me to post on a site called see u see me.. i dont think it exists anymore.. it is a real turn on for him it seems, knowing that people are looking at and appreciating me...
i declined, as i wasnt sure that i wanted any number of strangers looking at me... i didnt see how it could be a turnon for him...

then recently i saw a tv show, where the girl had her cam on and it didnt seem so threatening, and i approached the subject again... sometimes it jsut takes a different perspective, or sometimes even time.... but needless to say.. it really has ended up being a turn on for the both of us

Good luck.. i hope it all works out for you
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[Dom4]

How do you introduce a camera into a new relatinship?

Any suggestions?

Thanks

You might try having him take a few innocent photos of you. Then give your naughty school girl grin and undo a blouse button or two, or lift your skirt a bit higher. I am sure he will snap another photo (assuming his blood is red..LOL). And then another button, or the skirt even higher. I am sure he will get the hint and go from there.

Good luck.

 

[lancewannabe]

Re: Re: Question:

Originally posted by Dom4
You might try having him take a few innocent photos of you. Then give your naughty school girl grin and undo a blouse button or two, or lift your skirt a bit higher. I am sure he will snap another photo (assuming his blood is red..LOL). And then another button, or the skirt even higher. I am sure he will get the hint and go from there.

Good luck.

I'll second what Dom said. Any red blooded male would be off his gourd to pass up taking sexy photos of your body.

 

[Afterglow_lj]

Thanks for all of your suggestions!

 

[larksfoot]

Hoo-ray for the new relationship

as for introducing a camera wellll... start with portraits and slowly ... oh so slowly ... get cute ... coy ... sexy .. dirty and ravanous ... oh ... or is this my fantasy?

good luck girl!

 

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[abbey_kyle]

Start it out as playful. It may be a bit devious, but "just happen" to have it sitting by the bed one day, take a few snapshots of each other during a playful (yet sexual) moment.

I think this is a bad, bad move. This, to me, is a huge presumption and down right sneaky. I suggest talking about it first. Have you even asked? You may be surprised how much you can learn when you ask questions and open up communication as opposed to being "devious".

just my two cents.

 

[ReadyOne]

A digital camera (or instant/Polaroid) goes without saying, I hope. With digital you see the picture immediatly, nobody else (developer) does, and the photo can be deleted afterwords. It's the "afterwards" ability which I think allowed my SO to have some pictures taken of her.

 

[Noor]

I think the first step is to ask. I believe in being open and above board. If I found someone snuck a camera into my bed, they would be out the door.

I prefer to be asked, be allowed to think about it and make my own decision without any pressure.

 

[College_geek]

I think the first step is to ask. I believe in being open and above board. If I found someone snuck a camera into my bed, they would be out the door.

I prefer to be asked, be allowed to think about it and make my own decision without any pressure.

I agree with Noor. Communication can be the solution to many problems. If yes, you take the pictures and have fun with it. If no, you move on and have fun in other ways.

 

[Guest]

Damn it woman, I told you I didn't mind the camera, why you askin all these people??? LOL j/k

 

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[8223michaelm]

As long as this means you won't STOP posting pictures.....

 

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