Question

[Mikjo]

Is cyber sex cheating? I am a happily married man who enjoys spending time with one special woman on the net. She and I have been talking for 9 months. Is this cheating? I don't feel that it is, but what does everyone else think?

 

[Guest]

It depends on you and your wife and how the two of you see your relationship. My boyfriend and I have both cybered with other people...we don't see it as cheating. Basically it is just a different way to masturbate. But, bottom line, you'd have to talk to your wife about it. See what she thinks...


~Tiggs~

 

[Passionnee]

I agree with Tiggs, it depends on you and your wife, what kind of relationship you have, and values.

It's like blow jobs, some say having a blow job from another woman then your wife, is not cheating on it's spouse, while some others say it is.

 

[brazenblaze]

I haven't done much of it, but I think of it as just a different form of fantasy play.

But I have to agree, a lot depends on how your wife views it, maybe you should ask her.

 

[Samuari]

I was concerned enough that one time I droped out of all the SRP threads that I was in. I had a 'heart to heart' with Madam S, and asked her to read all the SRP theards that I had posted to. Her responce was "You silly man". She did not feel hurt or threatened, but then we have been in love for 30 years, and married for nearly 26.

It was a relief to me, as Madam S is on some meds that have robbed her of her libido, which leaves me high and dry. She trys to act interested, but I know her far to well, and without her eagerness, it is has stopped being that celebration of love that I am used to; and has turned into at best a way to use her vigina to masterbate with... yech! The SRP has helped my hang onto my sanity, such as it is.

Which is a long way of agreeing with everyone else, what does your RL partner think about it? And remember, lying by ommision is still lying.

 

[ranajja]

my 2 cents, well i gotta do something will all these pennies

I have found that playing within the rules allows for an incredible amount of freedom. My main (and permanent) squeeze and I are often here together, and in various chat rooms, as well. Whatever we do, we do together, or with the other's permission and observation.

There are all kinds of foreplay, and let me tell you, writing erotica to each other has been a blast!!!

So, play together--it adds another sense/element to lovemaking--writing, describing, imagination--

 

[Mikjo]

My online partner knows that I'm married and that nothing will ever come of the online relationship in the RL.

My wife and I have an active and healthy sex life. The online relationship is just different. My wife and I have never really discussed cyber sex, but I know she spends alot of time here, that's how I found this place. She recommended the some of the stories to me. I believe that she does it too, I've just never mentioned it to her, didn't want to make her feel uncomfortable.

 

[Weird Harold]

Is cyber sex cheating? I am a happily married man who enjoys spending time with one special woman on the net. She and I have been talking for 9 months. Is this cheating? I don't feel that it is, but what does everyone else think?

I can't speak for "everyone else" but I think the fact that you asked this question means that deep down, you suspect it is cheating.

I think the fact that you've spent time with "ONE special woman" is a danger sign that you are approaching the line between fun and "cheating in your heart."

Cyber Sex can be cheating. It all depends on the emotional attachment to the person you're cybering with.