Question?

[Luna_Wolf72]

As everyone probably knows by now, I have a huge jones for a female here at Lit ( a couple of you have all ready made Her acquaintance on the *Spotlight* thread) My question is: What is the best way to prepare for a first meeting if you have never before met someone who first caught your attention in cyber space?

I know that this is not something that either of U/us are rushing into. She has a hectic schedule just as I do. But what types of things can i do to make the meeting (when it happens) go more smoothly and be safe for everyone involved?

Thanks in advance for your help....

 

[Queersetti]

Relax.

Don't overplan. The temptation will probably be to fill every minute of your time with something exciting. But then you lose the opportunity to really get to know each other.

An event or activity that you share an interest in is a good centerpiece for the visit. A concert, a trip to a museum, even a shopping excursion. Don't make it the main purpose of the visit, but build around it.

And most of all remember that you are special, and that, if she is worthy of you, she will recognize that, and relish the time she spends with you. So don't front or try to make any kind of an impression other than your own natural self.

You are charming, you are intelligent, you are beautiful, you are sexy. I think you'll do just fine.

 

[april-wine]

Thanks for asking a great question pet....My girl and I will be hooking up in October, and while we are excited, it is kinda scarey....I think the biggest thing is not to place to much pressure on each other....Let things flow naturally, and one or two activities is good but too much takes time away from really getting to know each other....


Remember slow and easy....

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

Thanks Setti and April....She sez almost the exact same things as both of you..."Don't worry sweetheart, we will be fine" is what it boils down to. Yet, I like her immensely and do not want to mis-step.
'Setti, can i please keep you for my own personal cheering section...talking to you always makes me feel sooo GOOD!!!

 

[april-wine]

I know exactly how you are feeling....

 

[SweetCherry]

I know exactly how you are feeling....

Baby, you're so not gonna mis-step anything. You know what I've told you from day 1. We're gonna be fine.

 

[Queersetti]

Thanks Setti and April....She sez almost the exact same things as both of you..."Don't worry sweetheart, we will be fine" is what it boils down to. Yet, I like her immensely and do not want to mis-step.
'Setti, can i please keep you for my own personal cheering section...talking to you always makes me feel sooo GOOD!!!

You sure can, my little mocha delight!

I am always on your side.