Question to Men about “no hands ejaculation” capability

[SearchandEnjoy]

I am attempting to write a story that includes an incident where a man is able to somehow cause his penis to go from fully flaccid slowly to a full erection and ultimately ejaculate without him (or anyone else) touching it at all. I have never known of anyone personally who can do it or claims to, but I have SEEN a video of a man on a nude beach where he is laying on his back and this occurs completely as I described above. Several nude female beachbunnies are watching him and seem to be as if they have never seen it happen before as well. IF YOU know of someone who can do this, or if YOU have experienced it yourself I would love to ask a few questions about it, please. I ask that those who have NO knowledge or experience with this NOT to bs me by pretending to. I appreciate it very much!

 

[nerobixx]

I have been able to do it listening to erotic hypnosis files, so apparently the mind/body combination is capable of doing it.

 

[Brandnewbuddy]

Flaccid to fully erect, sure. But to actually ejaculate I have to have stimulation of some kind (which doesn’t have to be a hand or person, I have once just rubbed it against my jeans the right way while driving) Not saying I could never do it but I would need some audio or visual aid. I will say there are muscles in the area I can flex and provide some stimulation so maybe I could do it that way…hmmm now I’m curious if I can do it.

 

[Carnevil9]

There are master yogis that can slow their heart rate to almost a stop, control their blood pressure, etc. I imagine with enough mind/body control, you could learn to ejaculate without physical stimulation. Although I doubt that's what the old Hindu masters had in mind.

 

[SearchandEnjoy]

Flaccid to fully erect, sure. But to actually ejaculate I have to have stimulation of some kind (which doesn’t have to be a hand or person, I have once just rubbed it against my jeans the right way while driving) Not saying I could never do it but I would need some audio or visual aid. I will say there are muscles in the area I can flex and provide some stimulation so maybe I could do it that way…hmmm now I’m curious if I can do it.

I assume that the man who did this in the nude beach video was at least mentally stimulated by the fact that there were 3 nude attractive girls (appeared to be in their 20’s) laying on their towels approximately 20 or 30 yards away. But the video only showed his lower half so I couldn’t see for sure if he was staring at them in order to achieve his end result.

 

[sixfoot4]

I am attempting to write a story that includes an incident where a man is able to somehow cause his penis to go from fully flaccid slowly to a full erection and ultimately ejaculate without him (or anyone else) touching it at all. I have never known of anyone personally who can do it or claims to, but I have SEEN a video of a man on a nude beach where he is laying on his back and this occurs completely as I described above. Several nude female beachbunnies are watching him and seem to be as if they have never seen it happen before as well. IF YOU know of someone who can do this, or if YOU have experienced it yourself I would love to ask a few questions about it, please. I ask that those who have NO knowledge or experience with this NOT to bs me by pretending to. I appreciate it very much!

Certainly, I have, when a late teen, early twenties, very horny, have certainly come without touching. Some research on xhamster etc will show many examples too. Time spent in research is seldom wasted. Do PM for more.

 

[gunhilltrain]

Certainly, I have, when a late teen, early twenties, very horny, have certainly come without touching. Some research on xhamster etc will show many examples too. Time spent in research is seldom wasted. Do PM for more.

Okay, we'll take your word your own first-hand (no pun intended) experiences. I've never been able to do it myself, although I wasn't trying.

The only thing I've seen close to that online is where a guy comes while being spanked by another man. The "shooter" apparently ejaculates while kneeling on a bed but there is no contact of his hips with the mattress. Then again, maybe it was faked a bit through clever editing.

 

[sixfoot4]

Okay, we'll take your word your own first-hand (no pun intended) experiences. I've never been able to do it myself, although I wasn't trying.

The only thing I've seen close to that online is where a guy comes while being spanked by another man. The "shooter" apparently ejaculates while kneeling on a bed but there is no contact of his hips with the mattress. Then again, maybe it was faked a bit through clever editing.

Search for 'Hands free' plenty on xhamster sex.com

https://xhamster.com/videos/hands-free-cumshot-and-cum-again-double-cum-video-xhnceUw

://www.sex.com/pin/63096438-hands-free-cumshot-2/

 

[Rob_Royale]

Search for 'Hands free' plenty on xhamster sex.com

https://xhamster.com/videos/hands-free-cumshot-and-cum-again-double-cum-video-xhnceUw

://www.sex.com/pin/63096438-hands-free-cumshot-2/

Wow, that guy has taken kegels to a black belt level.

 

[tnhardon]

As others mentioned, it is very easy to get an erection without touching your penis or having it touched. That’s how it happens most of the time. Ejaculation, though, generally requires stimulation of the penis. The only time I’ve ever experienced ejaculation without stimulation was during a wet dream. Had a sexual dream and woke up cumming in my underwear. It was a very surreal experience.

 

[DarkSollat]

I once got so fired up reading smut that I'm sure that if I put a mental effort to it I'd cum.

 

[tattookink]

On our first Christmas together, I made my ex lay down on the floor. I Looked sexy as cause I was wearing lingerie, and I sat on his face and made him eat my pussy for ages. I Wouldn't touch him, wouldn't let him touch himself. Then I made him eat my ass as well, and that made him blow without even having to touch him.

 

[ZfrkS62]

Iirc, in that video he's essentially doing kegels, making his cock twitch. While hands free, it does create stimulation when it moves against his lower abdomen. He might also have an issue with premature ejaculation which would probably help that scenario.

This is not to say it's impossible. I can recall a video on xhamster where a guy is able to tweak his nipples to the point of ejaculation as well, so any kind of stimulation when aroused enough could lead up to it. Might help if your character has been barred from getting off for about 3 weeks prior to his encounter.

 

[Britva415]

I assume that the man who did this in the nude beach video was at least mentally stimulated by the fact that there were 3 nude attractive girls (appeared to be in their 20’s) laying on their towels approximately 20 or 30 yards away. But the video only showed his lower half so I couldn’t see for sure if he was staring at them in order to achieve his end result.

Still counts as "no hands" though, don't it?

 

[Britva415]

Iirc, in that video he's essentially doing kegels, making his cock twitch. While hands free, it does create stimulation when it moves against his lower abdomen. He might also have an issue with premature ejaculation which would probably help that scenario.

Kegels alone won't do it. As a matter of fact, they can kill the progress. It works best when you get so wound up that you find yourself having little involuntary twitches of kegel spasm - or sometimes very big ones. These spasms are basically what get you off. Deliberately squeezing down there can numb the good sensations and bring a halt to the progress toward orgasm.

I am attempting to write a story that includes an incident where a man is able to somehow cause his penis to go from fully flaccid slowly to a full erection and ultimately ejaculate without him (or anyone else) touching it at all.

There's nothing supernatural about it. I can't do it yet, but I'm practicing!

Basically - for the purposes of the story, if you are looking for details about how it feels to the person doing it, or how it works, or what they do to bring it off, it all has to do with the nervous system and with sensing and voluntarily controlling the various muscles in the pelvis.

Contracting them is only part of it. What's harder and more important is voluntarily relaxing them, specific ones at specific times according to specific sensations which are occurring. The sensations I'm talking about are mostly felt in the various different little muscles in the pelvis and the inguinal tract, both the outside of it and the inside of it. Some sensations come from nerve endings in the skin and the spongy tissue of the penis, but the reason those nerve endings are firing at all without any contact stimulation is because of what's happening with the muscles in different parts of the pelvis.

The contraction of a muscle has the tendency to block sensory nerve activity. The relaxation of a muscle has the tendency to enhance sensation. The tricky bit is that sensations have a tendency to trigger muscle contractions, so, a huge part of this is having the nervous system control and the willpower to refuse to allow those muscles to spasm and reflexively squeeze when something down there feels real good.

I'm going to describe it as "energy," which sounds woo-woo but is really just a shorthand for talking about the sense of things moving inside you. And all sorts of things move. Blood, lymph, interstitial fluid, muscle fibers, tendons and ligaments and other connective tissues, the impulses of the nerves themselves. Some of my stories talk about feeling "sex energy" and even deliberately controlling it or willing it to flow in certain ways.

Sexual stamina is one of the applications in my stories, another one is simply describing the thrilling sexual sensations in terms of "energy." Which I think readers can relate to, since a lot happens during sex which people don't know the details of: What specific tissues are moving or being stimulated? What are the dozens of different muscles involved with the stimulatory twitches and the orgasmic spasms we all feel? How does the mind influence whether arousal floods or ebbs or peaks? How do stimuli cause the nervous system to react, and how does the nervous system then cascade signals back through to our bits and pieces which yield even more sensations? I didn't think it mattered for the purpose of my stories to explain at these levels of detail, but I think readers can relate to feeling... SOMETHING... and recognizing it in what I've written.

I guess the short way of explaining this is that people can learn to develop a fine enough sense of all of these elements, that we can then exert some voluntary control over what happens. It's a huge spectrum. For some people, it's just the difference between being able to orgasm at all or not. For others, it's the ability to prolong an orgasm, or delay it. For some, it translates to the ability to sense the energies in their partner's nervous system and flesh, and show them a goddamn good time as a result of this skill. Sometimes it's orgasming without ejaculation. Sometimes it's the ability to edge for a long time. Sometimes it's learning to get off with a really novel and subtle stimulation, like prostate massage or electrostim. Sometimes it's just the ability to allow erection to rise without having to bat it around like Pete Davidson to get it to wake up. Sometimes it's being able to reach orgasm without straining to get off.

These are all a bunch of different ways which awareness of our bodies and energy can have different effects. Learning to get aroused, get progressively more excited, and even orgasm without direct touch stimulation is along this same spectrum, just farther than most people can imagine going.

Does this help, @SearchandEnjoy ?

 

[curl4ever]

I have done this a few times. It was very intense and enjoyable but required some practice to develop the necessary muscle control. For me, it involved three separate phases: pushing in the right way to get an erection going, then Kegels to get fully hard, and finally prostate contractions until orgasm.

 

[ZfrkS62]

Kegels alone won't do it. As a matter of fact, they can kill the progress. It works best when you get so wound up that you find yourself having little involuntary twitches of kegel spasm - or sometimes very big ones. These spasms are basically what get you off. Deliberately squeezing down there can numb the good sensations and bring a halt to the progress toward orgasm.

That's good to know. I've only very very recently started playing with this myself and wasn't even aware each muscle could be activated in that region. Hopefully it cums to fruition before long.

 

[Britva415]

That's good to know. I've only very very recently started playing with this myself and wasn't even aware each muscle could be activated in that region. Hopefully it cums to fruition before long.

Here's what to look for:

That feeling of wanting to kegel, involuntarily. When this happens, do not squeeze! Will yourself to let that flood of sensation go wherever it will go, without clamping down on it!

A good way to begin with this particular exercise is to get aroused and excited and stimulate yourself as usual, until you're close to getting off. At this point, what some people do is kegel specifically in order to delay orgasm, or prolong it, or maybe to get themselves all the way there, or make it more powerful. But if you instead avoid the kegel and willfully block it from happening involuntarily, you'll discover completely new sensations, or at least a completely new level of intensity.

It will tend to have the effect of staving the climax off, too, which sounds paradoxical - aren't we trying to get off no-handsed? But it's actually awesome and a step in the direction of learning to escalate sensation and arousal without hands or touch.

You all know what I'm talking about, whether you know it or not: We get sexually-stimulating, or sexually-stimulated, sensations all the time without direct touch stimulation. It's a shiver or the feelings that come with a spontaneous boner rising on its own. Maybe that doesn't actually happen very often anymore for those of us who aren't teenagers anymore, but you've felt it. It's the warm tingles, the fluttery feeling behind the pubic bone which happen when we see something arousing. These and other feelings which happen without actually touching our junk, or someone else touching, are what I'm talking about.

I couldn't edge before discovering this. I'd squeeze in order to try to get close to coming before backing off from that peak, but that gives the unwanted effect of shutting arousal down. By allowing the thrilling flood of sensation to occur without squeezing down on it, one of two things might happen: It might become so intense that you just come. Or, if you can ride that wave without coming, you'll experience an intense sensation, remain aroused, and probably get even more aroused.

What I just described is all with stimulation. It's a stepping stone toward being able to escalate arousal without direct touch stimulation.

What I've been working on is learning to discriminate individual muscles because when most of us Kegel, we're really contracting several different ones. Not all of them are the ones which tamp down the sensation and the arousal and the erection.

When we kegel, the dick gets harder temporarily, because the bulbospongiosum is squeezed by a particular pair of muscles. These are not the same muscles which control the blood flow into the erection. It's like squeezing one side of a balloon and seeing the other side puff out because of the added pressure. It's not the same thing as blowing up the balloon at all.

There is a pair of much smaller muscles, nearly impossible to sense directly, even with practice, which are the ones which - by relaxing - allow the blood to flow in and flood the erection. This is blowing up the balloon. Kegels have the tendency of contracting these muscles, which doesn't by itself soften the boner, but can result in wilting over time because they don't fully un-relax again. And like I said before, too, the kegel also has the effect of numbing sensations too.

I have a hypothesis, I'm not sure if this has been studied or if it's correct, but since orgasm is basically a hard, long, involuntary kegel, the function of which (in people with testicles) is to expel semen, my hypothesis is that kegelling also has, to at least a minor degree, the tendency to trigger the parasympathetic nervous system process, the same one which kicks in after orgasming and causes our excitement and arousal to just evaporate. So it's counterproductive to maintaining peak arousal.

I also have an experience, which is that by not allowing myself to kegel, voluntarily or involuntarily, semen volume is a lot more forceful and greater in volume when I do finally come. At this point there is a big kegel flex - my body either does it involuntarily or else I'll just go ahead and flex it when I know it's time. Again, I think it's likely that kegelling while building up to it has the tendency to diminish the nervous system processes which cause all the various fluids and substances in semen to flow before shooting, and so avoiding this squeezing allows more fluids and probably sperm too to flow and build up in the pipes inside before getting expelled. And I'm positive kegelling generally diminishes the intensity of the sensations leading to orgasm - except for the instant when I'm doing it. But as soon as I let the kegel go, stuff is just a little numb compared to before. Doing a bunch of them in a row can add up to a dud session.

It can intensify the orgasm when it happens, so there is a right time for a kegel squeeze, but the build-up isn't it, if we want to have a huge cumshot, a super powerful orgasm, intense feelings while building up, and that sense of the orgasm having a life of its own. You know what I mean? It's the difference between getting off because we pushed ourselves to reach it and get over the top, versus when that orgasm just won't stay down whether we're ready or not.

I'm sure you can see that there's some overlap with what I just described and premature ejaculation. I've never once experienced that, if anything I've had the opposite problem, more of a difficulty reaching orgasm at times. This is part of why I'm experimenting with this stuff, plus the fact that there's another practice I have which is all about sensations and control and nervous system regulation, so, sure, I'm investigating the sexual applications of that.

 

[tingtong2]

I am attempting to write a story that includes an incident where a man is able to somehow cause his penis to go from fully flaccid slowly to a full erection and ultimately ejaculate without him (or anyone else) touching it at all. I have never known of anyone personally who can do it or claims to, but I have SEEN a video of a man on a nude beach where he is laying on his back and this occurs completely as I described above. Several nude female beachbunnies are watching him and seem to be as if they have never seen it happen before as well. IF YOU know of someone who can do this, or if YOU have experienced it yourself I would love to ask a few questions about it, please. I ask that those who have NO knowledge or experience with this NOT to bs me by pretending to. I appreciate it very much!

First , you might want to explain , that as a woman, if you were to observe this, what kind of reaction would it evoke in you and how would that reaction form psychologically ? Would it be disgust or erotic and explain why ? It is well know that seminal fluid is very salty and very acidic and if you have experienced tasting it with your husband (comfortably married) and what you feel about it in your mouth. Fictional stories treat is as if it is honey - quite the contrary.

 

[CurtGiles46]

Of course this happens all the time in wet dreams.

There are also people who have anxiety orgasms, they are put into a nervous or scary situation and they will go from not aroused to multiple orgasms within a short period of time.

 

[yowser]

Sharon looked at me blankly. "Kegels? What might these be? Some kind of Jewish food from back in New York?"

From Suzanne Comes Again.

 

[lc69hunter]

The first time I went down on a woman (still a teenager), I spontaneously came while eating her.