Question from one little to another little!

[LittleMissKaitlyn]

I'm new to the dd/lg community and I was wondering what the best way to find a daddy would be? Also how do you tell if someone is a fake daddy Dom?
Thanks in advance!!

 

[whistling_toad]

I'd love to visit with you Kaitlynn. Are you available to chat?

 

[LittleMissKaitlyn]

Hi there

Yes I am

 

[CutieMouse]

I'd love to visit with you Kaitlynn. Are you available to chat?

Yes I am

Well, you've obviously discovered how easy it is to find some dude who wants free cybersex. So if the goal is cybersex, I'd suggest putting a personals ad in BDSM Personals.

Finding a partner who is into D/s from a Daddy/little standpoint really isn't much different than finding a partner, period. Relationships are still relationships, even when they're kinky.

As for "fake daddy doms"... no such thing. What someone else thinks is totally "real", you might think is fake. What you think is fake, might be someone's perfect daddy dom.

Will you meet people and realize you aren't compatible? Yep. They might not find you compatible, either. But it doesn't make either of you "fake".

If you want to get involved in your local community, you might join fetlife.com and look for events in your area.

 

[LittleMissKaitlyn]

Thanks! The only reason I say fake daddy Dom is because I was talking to a guy who claimed to be a daddy Dom and then all of a sudden wanted to switch to a sub. When I talked to him about it he said he didn't want to be Dom. He wanted me to be a mommy Dom :/

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Thanks! The only reason I say fake daddy Dom is because I was talking to a guy who claimed to be a daddy Dom and then all of a sudden wanted to switch to a sub. When I talked to him about it he said he didn't want to be Dom. He wanted me to be a mommy Dom :/

Maybe he was discovering himself as well That does sound odd.

One first step in a relationship might be to Google checklists. I know there are BDSM checklists, not so sure about DDlg checklists, as I have never looked. But if not, then a BDSM checklist should at least move you into good discussions about what your expectations are, and help avoid wasting time and emotion on someone who is incompatible. I wish you luck

 

[LittleMissKaitlyn]

Thank you!!

 

[Xxharleyquinnxx]

Always be careful with your heart! I'm speaking from experience as a little. I've had amazing daddies and some really awful ones. Just be careful. It's hard giving all your trust and heart to someone and having it just crushed. I don't have a daddy now and I'm still happy just make sure you find your happiness even without a daddy!!