Question from a sub

[virgin boy]

Hello, I'm a new, 19 y o male sub here and I wanted to clear something up. I am interested in D/s (online, for the moment), but I am looking for the passionate and more mental side of D/s rather than pain and humiliation. What is the best way to find someone compatible, and also while in the chatroom, let someone know of my feelings towards D/s? If this seems like a naive question, please excuse me - I am new to this. My little experience is from having spent time in Lit Chat! Thank you . . .

 

[RawHumor]

NaughtyChat.com used to have a pretty good dungeon. You could fill out a profile and/or pick a username that indicates your sub side... after that, it's just a matter of finding the right dom(me) for you. It's not always easy, especially since there tends to not be too many dommes, but you can find them around. I'm sure there's lots of other sites around too, I just haven't been to that many.