I have participated in threesomes with 2 men. And although it was an incredible and wonderful experience, I became quite emotionally attached to them both. It's been very very painful emotionally. So if you decide to go for it, keep a close rein on your heart. And it may be a good idea if it's with someone you don't see all the time.
Yeah, you're right about the whole emotional thing. I've heard what you talked about from other people. Luckily the two I was with were stricky friends.
Tbird .. I sent you an email about my story but Hotmail seems to be having server problems today. It's cued up ready to send though. You should get it shortly.
I've been in several FFM and FMM 3somes before, and though they were fun, I feel that for the most part they are overrated. It can be tricky on the emotions though. Be careful.
Have had the, "recommended for all," experience of a 3'somes and more'somes numerous times - in all the configurations possible except me (a male by the way) being with another dude.
We do not let emotion come to play - we play with very new acquaintances - virtual strangers. Yes we check them out very, very thoroughly before we all play. As they check us out. Believe it or not - at least in the playing circles we run in - the Jerry Springer contingent never shows up. And we do not generally reprise the fun. Onward and upward sort of thing - been there done that.
Good rules to follow - no personal friends, no work relationships etc..
Good luck to all who seek this gourmet of a sexual feast.
I would have some rules, one being that my partner was always touching me somewhere on my body (it's a security thing), and that he chooses the person and I don't see them. My reason for that is so I then DON'T become emotionally attached, because knowing myself fairly well I would in some way.
But as far as MMF or MFF I would prefer MMF but am now willing to try MFF, but again if that happened there would be rules, and that would be that I would have to know the Female, But not too well, and feel at least slightly comfortable with her. I would also have to reassured by my partner that he won't get emotionally attached to her.
Threesomes are still a Fantasy to this girl, but I'm hoping
Put me in the not yet column and unfortunatly, with my wife, probably never column. We have talked about it and like I think a lot of couples I want a MFF and she is not interested in being with another female and she really doesn't want but would consider a MMF but not sure where to find that person since we feel confortable with any of our male friends. Oh, well, make a great fantasy.