Question for Women

[jack30341]

I want to write authentic scenes from a female perspective.

What does it feel like when a woman has a man of a size she really isn't accustomed to? If he's well-endowed or very well-endowed, what does it feel like on entry and during intercourse?

Besides the obvious general descriptions---'filled me' or stretched me'.

 

[jack30341]

any help at all?

bump

 

[miaction69]

ocasionally...FEAR

 

[miaction69]

the thing is - size doesn't really matter...if ur into that person...and IMPORTANT ****u know that person is into u (head fucked ova u) then we can take any size and love it...except...I've had huge....and I remember going down on huge cock and thinking....fuck how the hell is that ever gonna fit in any part of my body!!!! it did of course...but I was tense...waiting for the sharp stab at the thrust IN - it made sex 'not ideal' and I was more reserved at wanting to pay out other sex games with this guy - I guess too big made me inhibited...I much prefer uninhibited...and I like a little rough play so huge pretty much wipes that out.

 

[jack30341]

how so?

what have you said when you felt that?

did he do something to ease that?

 

[AimeeLamis]

From my experience a well endowed man has to be very patient and take his time acclimating the woman to his size. The woman must be well lubricated, naturally or with lube. From my experience if he eases in slowly the feeling can be wonderful. If he knows how to talk to me and I've been stimulated with proper foreplay, I find myself begging him to bottom out in me and fill me up. Size only matters if a man is skilled and knows how to handle his endowment. If he's like a bull in a China shop he may as well have a 2 inch penis.

 

[ai3165]

Ouch!

I've encountered "too large" twice in my life. Stripping away emotions, and level of arousal, the best i can describe is pain. It felt like my ribs were being hit with every thrust. Ripping, tearing, stretching, cramping. Not plesant. I'd think i was getting used to it, just to find that there was still another 2 inches that wanted in, and it just wasn't going to happen. Eventually you will run out of bed from inching forward to minimize the impact, and once you're pushed up against the head board there's no where to go and only pain to endure. The only thing left to do is pray that it ends soon. I've learned my lesson now that if you look too big, you are, and you should probably just put your pants back on and go home. Hope at least some of this helps with your story.

 

[PertPerth]

Pain...tearing of skin....it's not sexy in my experience.

 

[ButtAnalMan]

I've encountered "too large" twice in my life. Stripping away emotions, and level of arousal, the best i can describe is pain. It felt like my ribs were being hit with every thrust. Ripping, tearing, stretching, cramping. Not plesant. I'd think i was getting used to it, just to find that there was still another 2 inches that wanted in, and it just wasn't going to happen. Eventually you will run out of bed from inching forward to minimize the impact, and once you're pushed up against the head board there's no where to go and only pain to endure. The only thing left to do is pray that it ends soon. I've learned my lesson now that if you look too big, you are, and you should probably just put your pants back on and go home. Hope at least some of this helps with your story.

Hi, sorry for you and thanks for sharing your experience...

 

[infinity706]

I've encountered "too large" twice in my life. Stripping away emotions, and level of arousal, the best i can describe is pain. It felt like my ribs were being hit with every thrust. Ripping, tearing, stretching, cramping. Not plesant. I'd think i was getting used to it, just to find that there was still another 2 inches that wanted in, and it just wasn't going to happen. Eventually you will run out of bed from inching forward to minimize the impact, and once you're pushed up against the head board there's no where to go and only pain to endure. The only thing left to do is pray that it ends soon. I've learned my lesson now that if you look too big, you are, and you should probably just put your pants back on and go home. Hope at least some of this helps with your story.

Pain...tearing of skin....it's not sexy in my experience.

Well, if you ever have the "too big" problem again, try and exercise a little restraint. Unless it's bigger than the opening in your pelvis, you can handle it, but not right away. You have to talk about it, though, and set temporary limits while you work on slowly stretching out your vaginal opening over time, not let anyone pound you to the point of injury. If it already fits in your pussy, though, you can let him go at you gently and finish him off some other way, though. After a few weeks to a couple months of regular sex it should fit just fine. Of course, if it's just a hookup or something, just give him a handjob or maybe a blowjob if it's not too big for your mouth. The only real problem with huge cocks is if they come attached to a guy that isn't really worth fucking anyway.