Chris_Michael
2B or Not 2B
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What are your thoughts about men in general these days? I've come across some interesting stats recently and I'm sure this reflects on the dating scene. And it definitely would cross over into the world of Lit. Here are some pieces of info.
Since 1960, we reached a record low in marriage rates in 2012 - 72% to 51%. In 2009 to 2010, that stat dropped 5% alone. Now, that % is below 50%
29% of young adult men desire marriage, which is described as "amazingly low" by the article.
There's no stat here, but the article claims that women no longer need men as a source of support. I personally find this to be true. As a matter of fact, I am in one of the only fields where there is no gender pay gap. Actually, women make 5% more than men in pharmacist positions. (Source not listed but I can find it if someone needs it. I'm just on my cell phone in bed. lol)
Sex is available to men and women without any kind of commitment relative to previous decades. Even if a man can't get laid, there's porn. So, there's no need to be married.
Speaking of porn, according to this article, men actually prefer porn than the real thing! There's no study here but I can see how it would be easier to just use porn than it is to meet people, schedule dates, put in effort, and take risks.
Finally, marriage is a huge risk for both men and women. In such a society where student loan debt can be six figures, that risk may not be worth it.
What it all boils down to is "Does the benefit outweight the risk?" For both men and women, I say no. I wouldn't blame women for not marrying. And aside from raising children, I see no necessity to marry.
I'm curious, though. As a woman, what are your thoughts about it? Are guys today just not real men like they used to be? Are men weaker?
Me personally? I'm a piece of shit. I play videogames all day. To place the responsibility of a wife and child in my life would be a desaster. So, I'll save you some time and concede that I'm an anomaly, piece of crap, worthless, no-life, beta turd ball who couldn't get laid even if he har a million dollars to pay a prostitute.
Link: http://blog.adw.org/2015/10/men-are...-than-ever-a-reflection-on-a-serious-problem/
Since 1960, we reached a record low in marriage rates in 2012 - 72% to 51%. In 2009 to 2010, that stat dropped 5% alone. Now, that % is below 50%
29% of young adult men desire marriage, which is described as "amazingly low" by the article.
There's no stat here, but the article claims that women no longer need men as a source of support. I personally find this to be true. As a matter of fact, I am in one of the only fields where there is no gender pay gap. Actually, women make 5% more than men in pharmacist positions. (Source not listed but I can find it if someone needs it. I'm just on my cell phone in bed. lol)
Sex is available to men and women without any kind of commitment relative to previous decades. Even if a man can't get laid, there's porn. So, there's no need to be married.
Speaking of porn, according to this article, men actually prefer porn than the real thing! There's no study here but I can see how it would be easier to just use porn than it is to meet people, schedule dates, put in effort, and take risks.
Finally, marriage is a huge risk for both men and women. In such a society where student loan debt can be six figures, that risk may not be worth it.
What it all boils down to is "Does the benefit outweight the risk?" For both men and women, I say no. I wouldn't blame women for not marrying. And aside from raising children, I see no necessity to marry.
I'm curious, though. As a woman, what are your thoughts about it? Are guys today just not real men like they used to be? Are men weaker?
Me personally? I'm a piece of shit. I play videogames all day. To place the responsibility of a wife and child in my life would be a desaster. So, I'll save you some time and concede that I'm an anomaly, piece of crap, worthless, no-life, beta turd ball who couldn't get laid even if he har a million dollars to pay a prostitute.
Link: http://blog.adw.org/2015/10/men-are...-than-ever-a-reflection-on-a-serious-problem/