Question for the older women

LAperson

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when you go out to run errands, do you ever keep an eye open for hot younger men? Whenever I go out I'm always undressing older women with my eyes, and I even talk to them sometimes. But it just seems like such a far-off concept to ask them out since they're so much older than I am that I'm starting to think that maybe it's totally crazy?

I guess I'm just wondering if I have to look for a certain type of woman or go to a certain type of place to look for older women who can entertain the thought of going out with a younger man. I'm 28, btw.

any thoughts?
 
well the only thoughts i could contribute are that i'm 24 and the man that i am "seeing" meaning via internet...is 5 years younger than me. i have ALWAYS been attracted to younger men. i'm sure when i'm 30 and 40 i will have 20 year old playthings all the time...at least thats what my intentions are....to be able to have the experience to be able to teach a younger man how to truly please a woman is a very powerful thing....better than any actual paying job could be....i love doing it. and i will always love to do it. just my 2 cents worth..hehe. night doll. :rose:
 
hmmm well I'm 44, does that qualify as "older"? LOL

I most certainly have very active eyeballs when I am out. I have to confess that they are drawn like magnets to young tight male bodies..not teen types, but late 20's 30's that are yummy packages.
 
really? i was at Blockbuster tonight and there was an older woman next to me in line and she was looking at me and smiling...but I didn't really pick up on it until after I had left. Maybe it's out there but I'm just not noticing it?
 
LAperson said:
really? i was at Blockbuster tonight and there was an older woman next to me in line and she was looking at me and smiling...but I didn't really pick up on it until after I had left. Maybe it's out there but I'm just not noticing it?

oh it's there. We are running various scenarios through our heads, and regretting our lost youths....

Of course, next time a lady of interest smiles at you, smile back and offer to buy her a coffee. And call her Miss...not Ma'am LOL
 
but at what point do I make my move? it's such a taboo experiece someone has to break the ice..i guess I just don't know how to do that.
 
LAperson said:
when you go out to run errands, do you ever keep an eye open for hot younger men? Whenever I go out I'm always undressing older women with my eyes, and I even talk to them sometimes. But it just seems like such a far-off concept to ask them out since they're so much older than I am that I'm starting to think that maybe it's totally crazy?

I guess I'm just wondering if I have to look for a certain type of woman or go to a certain type of place to look for older women who can entertain the thought of going out with a younger man. I'm 28, btw.

any thoughts?

Definately and I certainly qualify as *older* if you read my profile....but I always have an eye out for younger men...I have too....ones my age.....can't cut the mustard anymore...maybe lick the lid..... lmao....but then I have to revive them!!!!
mine now is 15 yrs younger:p
 
Oh older women do look at the younger male........I am 46 yrs. and my eyes like looking at the young ones.....Infact just like older man love the young girls, don't you think we are the same. Mmmm, oh yes, those nice tight asses.

I always look for the eye contract, then the smile. The youngest one I was with, was 14 years younger then me. So when you are in line again, and you get a smile, smile back and say hi.

:kiss: :rose: ;)
 
Angelofsex said:
Oh older women do look at the younger male........I am 46 yrs. and my eyes like looking at the young ones.....Infact just like older man love the young girls, don't you think we are the same. Mmmm, oh yes, those nice tight asses.

I always look for the eye contract, then the smile. The youngest one I was with, was 14 years younger then me. So when you are in line again, and you get a smile, smile back and say hi.

:kiss: :rose: ;)

Got you beat in the age department..lol the first man I was w/after 16 yrs was 20 yrs younger..and some lovers are 30 or more...sooooooooo yes smile smile smile...who knows;)
 
wildrose70 said:


Got you beat in the age department..lol the first man I was w/after 16 yrs was 20 yrs younger..and some lovers are 30 or more...sooooooooo yes smile smile smile...who knows;)

Rose,you do have me beat with 30 yrs but then I have a few years to go till I could have that much younger and legal ;).......I can't say the age but he is more then 25 year younger......If I say it I will get in trouble......that is why I didn't mention him........Kind of lie about his age......:devil: Kind of close to 30 yrs younger:eek:
 
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oh it's there. We are running various scenarios through our heads, and regretting our lost youths....

Of course, next time a lady of interest smiles at you, smile back and offer to buy her a coffee. And call her Miss...not Ma'am LOL

LOL!... well put!

I was born and raised right here in the deep south. All my life, I've done the Sir and Ma'am thing, and now suddenly I are one!

I hate it when a good looking guy calls me "ma'am"!

Kat
 
I had a very hunky waiter call me Miss the other night, and almost Skipped out of the restaurant :D
 
younger men

I am 31 will be 32 in October, and the last boyfriend I had was 23. I did date one other younger guy who was 21. I love hard tight bodies, age doesn't really matter to me, its just a number, and it seems older men, just really can't keep up. No pun intended. Well maybe a little :kiss:
 
TO: LAperson

I have dated several women older than me. Some have been between 5 and 12 years older. I find older women to be sexy and forward about what they want after they know you are interested.

Just starting a simple conversation can lead to many things over time.

In general I find older women are more open and aware of what they want in bed and from a lover along with wanting it more often.

Have fun and good luck!
 
Good question, LA Person. Hope I'm not an old man remembering wonderful youth, but I had four relationships with ladies 20 to 25 years older when I was in my late 20s and into my 30s. Some continued for a decade or more. Forget the young ones, older ladies are the best. I can make a couple of suggestions.
First of all, TRUST. Some of these ladies have wallet photos of grandkids and an image of such to preserve, but under those "granny' gowns, there are some wonderful women.
Second, go with the flow. This isn't a singles bar. They love attention and subtle flirting. And I mean flirting with a capital F. I'm in my 50s now and thoroughly enjoy flirting with young and old women. It's a game that you learn with experience. We all become masters of it. It may not mean anything, so be careful about making a move. Let them open the door.
Lastly, if you've had the experience of standing in front of a Monet painting and observing every subtle brush stroke and line, you'll realize why art is what you feel when "the total effect is greater than the sum of the parts". I cannot sufficiently express the excitement that an older woman offers to you. Good luck to you and hope this helps a little.
 
LAperson said:
when you go out to run errands, do you ever keep an eye open for hot younger men? Whenever I go out I'm always undressing older women with my eyes, and I even talk to them sometimes. But it just seems like such a far-off concept to ask them out since they're so much older than I am that I'm starting to think that maybe it's totally crazy?

I guess I'm just wondering if I have to look for a certain type of woman or go to a certain type of place to look for older women who can entertain the thought of going out with a younger man. I'm 28, btw.

any thoughts?

It seems that everybody is telling you how good it is but not what you need to do.....Older women are no different than younger women. If you find that one is flirting with you, or smiles back at you when you smile.....then say hi and try to strart up a conversation.
Go to your personals....Where Im from there are a whole bunch of older women looking for younger men. Also there are a couple of chat rooms on yahoo and aol that cater to men looking for older women and the women are in there. so good luck....
Didnt see what city you are in,,,,maybe I have a friend that might be interested......I used to always look for younger guys....but right now im very happy with the younger guy that Im with....

:kiss: :rose: :kiss:
 
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sxylegs said:


It seems that everybody is telling you how good it is but not what you need to do.....Older women are no different than younger women. If you find that one is flirting with you, or smiles back at you when you smile.....then say hi and try to strart up a conversation.
Go to your personals....Where Im from there are a whole bunch of older women looking for younger men. Also there are a couple of chat rooms on yahoo and aol that cater to men looking for older women and the women are in there. so good luck....
Didnt see what city you are in,,,,maybe I have a friend that might be interested......I used to always look for younger guys....but right now im very happy with the younger guy that Im with....

:kiss: :rose: :kiss:

I'm in Los Angeles...you have a friend, really?

As far as the striking up a conversation thing goes, I've done that before actually but I'm just never sure if the woman is being cordial or is thinking what I'm thinking. I guess it's a classic male dilemma :)
 
Older Women are Sexy

--In general I find older women are more open and aware of what they want in bed and from a lover along with wanting it more often. ----
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Right!! Older women give off a certain sexuality. They are direct, open, confident, attractive, and know what they want. I enjoy giving pleasure to those ladies that cant seem to get regular satisfaction in the bedroom. While most of my friends would prefer the younger girls, im partial to the ladies that are my age (42) or older. Always have.

So smiling back is the key? Any other tips for meeting the "older ladies" Go to Blockbusters?????

Beco
 
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LAperson said:


I'm in Los Angeles...you have a friend, really?

As far as the striking up a conversation thing goes, I've done that before actually but I'm just never sure if the woman is being cordial or is thinking what I'm thinking. I guess it's a classic male dilemma :)

Hi ....
Just dont be obnoxious......and look into their eyes.....flirt and smile.....if they give all the same things back....ask them for coffee or lunch.....the go to dinner.....the rest is yours..

Good Luck
 
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