Question for the married members...
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Not all the ladies here had to run all over the net to remove their pics.....is that what you call flirting. Give it a rest brat......just ignore the trolls.........
Silverlily
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1. Almost three years, but we've been together over six
2. duh
3. Hell no, he flirts too. In fact, often we'll see someone we both want to flirt with and compete to see who gets further.
2. duh
3. Hell no, he flirts too. In fact, often we'll see someone we both want to flirt with and compete to see who gets further.
april-wine
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Well since I can't help but follow you around...............
I will answer, NOPE I am not married, but I do have a significant other......I am totally commited to the relationship and her.....As for flirting, even teasing big deal.......She knows she has my heart, and that is that...............
Besides, a little hot energy pays off for her too lol....................
I will answer, NOPE I am not married, but I do have a significant other......I am totally commited to the relationship and her.....As for flirting, even teasing big deal.......She knows she has my heart, and that is that...............
Besides, a little hot energy pays off for her too lol....................
sch00lteacher
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Originally posted by *bratcat*
Do you flirt here? Yes
Apparently, the trolls seem to think that because you are married, that you are not allowed to flirt.
First...how long have you been married?
18 years
Do you flirt?
Sure why not?
Do you feel that it makes you immoral or cheating on your spouse to flirt here?
No.
Why or why not?
It is all in fun. And this isn't the real world. I have no plans on meeting anyone here in person. This isn't like I am sitting in a bar across from someone.
Do you flirt here? Yes
Apparently, the trolls seem to think that because you are married, that you are not allowed to flirt.
First...how long have you been married?
18 years
Do you flirt?
Sure why not?
Do you feel that it makes you immoral or cheating on your spouse to flirt here?
No.
Why or why not?
It is all in fun. And this isn't the real world. I have no plans on meeting anyone here in person. This isn't like I am sitting in a bar across from someone.
Rubyfruit
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I do flirt here and, no, I don't feel it's wrong. I've been married for 6 years.
Of course, my situation may be a bit different than the norm, in that my husband and I swing. He knows what I do on the computer and, if I'm going to have phone sex, I ask him first if he'd mind.
Ruby
Of course, my situation may be a bit different than the norm, in that my husband and I swing. He knows what I do on the computer and, if I'm going to have phone sex, I ask him first if he'd mind.
Ruby
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Do you flirt here? I plan to (I'm new)
Apparently, the trolls seem to think that because you are married, that you are not allowed to flirt.
First...how long have you been married?
17 years
Do you flirt?
I do in real life, why not here too.
Do you feel that it makes you immoral or cheating on your spouse to flirt here?
No.
Why or why not?
as sch00lteacher said "It is all in fun." And even if I did meet someone from here in person, that doesn't necessarily mean anything more than meeting.
Apparently, the trolls seem to think that because you are married, that you are not allowed to flirt.
First...how long have you been married?
17 years
Do you flirt?
I do in real life, why not here too.
Do you feel that it makes you immoral or cheating on your spouse to flirt here?
No.
Why or why not?
as sch00lteacher said "It is all in fun." And even if I did meet someone from here in person, that doesn't necessarily mean anything more than meeting.
plasticman33
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I've always been a flirt! Even in front of my wife, so it's no secret! I have always loved women!
Some folks here cannot seem to determine the difference between flirting and an actual physical relationship. Maybe it's because they are failures at both! Maybe because they are repulsive, physically and mentally, and could not attract a member of the opposite sex if their life depended on it.
There is a big difference between flirtacious inuendoe and getting together for a heavy duty sexual relationship.
No, I have never felt guilty about flirting! Why should I?
Hey *bratcat* let's get it on, sweetheart! I miss those sweet kisses, the warmth of your breath against my cheek, the feel of your breasts pressed closely against my naked chest. The overpowering desire you stir with in me. The touch of your hand, stroking me, the warmth of your arms embracing me......Mmmm, memories I'll live with forever!
Some folks here cannot seem to determine the difference between flirting and an actual physical relationship. Maybe it's because they are failures at both! Maybe because they are repulsive, physically and mentally, and could not attract a member of the opposite sex if their life depended on it.
There is a big difference between flirtacious inuendoe and getting together for a heavy duty sexual relationship.
No, I have never felt guilty about flirting! Why should I?
Hey *bratcat* let's get it on, sweetheart! I miss those sweet kisses, the warmth of your breath against my cheek, the feel of your breasts pressed closely against my naked chest. The overpowering desire you stir with in me. The touch of your hand, stroking me, the warmth of your arms embracing me......Mmmm, memories I'll live with forever!
plasticman33
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Only yours sweetheart, the sweetest sauce I've ever tasted! Mmmmmm, should I go on?
plasticman33 said:
There is??
No one told me that!! I thought I was suppose to fuck everyone I flirted with. I mean, I am so friggin stupid I can't tell the difference between r/l and online.
Damn, someone forgot to explain these online rules to me
Cassidy,
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Bratcat, the trolls and some members have problems with you because you're a hypocrite. I remember a thread you started about how pissed your were that your father was dating a 22 year old. Yet you can take time away from your husband and children by openly flirting and cybering with a MARRIED man and that's perfectly ok. I'm sure not everyone would agree that that's a wise thing to do. You seem to judge everyone else but when it comes to your own imperfections, you refuse to acknowledge they exist.
Also, you've posted on more than one occasion how unhappy you are in your marriage. If you are truly that unhappy, you should do something about it rather than escape into the imaginary world of cybersex with platicman33 and KidRock.
Also, you've posted on more than one occasion how unhappy you are in your marriage. If you are truly that unhappy, you should do something about it rather than escape into the imaginary world of cybersex with platicman33 and KidRock.
plasticman33
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juicylips said:
There is??
No one told me that!! I thought I was suppose to fuck everyone I flirted with. I mean, I am so friggin stupid I can't tell the difference between r/l and online.
Damn, someone forgot to explain these online rules to me
Cassidy,
rearranging her little black book...
Heh, heh, heh.......LMAO
weathered2
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*bratcat* said:
First...how long have you been married?
31 years, no affairs.
Do you flirt?
All the time.
Do you feel that it makes you immoral or cheating on your spouse to flirt here?
No, because I flirt often in real life and especially around her friends. I sort of act horny with my wife and her buddies equally. She seems to like it. I think it's because she's secure in the knowledge that I'm hers and hers alone and sort of enjoys it when I tease them a little and try to help make them more envious of the attention she gets.
Calamity Jane
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I've been married for 7 years... and yeah, i flirt online.
I don't consider it cheating... there's no physical contact.
I don't consider it cheating... there's no physical contact.
Southern37
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First...how long have you been married? like 100yrs i think. ..actually married for 14yrs..omg... and dated for like 5 before that.
Do you flirt? oh yea.
Do you feel that it makes you immoral or cheating on your spouse to flirt here? yes it does, but what can you do? I flirt all the time..real life and here. I would give you all the PC bullshit about its not real life...and im not meeting and all that crap but the reality is ...i met este and fell in love. Didnt mean to, but did. My wife and i have the worst relationship you can imagine, discuss divorce regularly and fight in between divorce discussions. I would meet este in a heartbeat..and will at some point.
Do you flirt? oh yea.
Do you feel that it makes you immoral or cheating on your spouse to flirt here? yes it does, but what can you do? I flirt all the time..real life and here. I would give you all the PC bullshit about its not real life...and im not meeting and all that crap but the reality is ...i met este and fell in love. Didnt mean to, but did. My wife and i have the worst relationship you can imagine, discuss divorce regularly and fight in between divorce discussions. I would meet este in a heartbeat..and will at some point.
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Nobody Special
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*bratcat* said:
a few weeks
YES!!!!... wait NO!!! I don't (hastely changing mind since the wife is now behind me with one of my Iron skillets)
No it is not immoral or cheating.. but..... somtimes the significant other can feel neglected when they don't get the same amount of attention...
If Talking and making some one feel special is wrong, then I guess that we are all wrong for doing so in flirting or just talking in general..
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BC,
Don't have to explain yourself, hon. It is your business.
What I find so fucking ironic is that the people who are cybering are probably not who most people think. If you are going by what you see on the boards, there is alot more that happens behind closed doors. So for someone to make snap judgements based on posts is insane.
Cassidy
*bratcat* said:
BC,
Don't have to explain yourself, hon. It is your business.
What I find so fucking ironic is that the people who are cybering are probably not who most people think. If you are going by what you see on the boards, there is alot more that happens behind closed doors. So for someone to make snap judgements based on posts is insane.
Cassidy
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We all know about the state of your private life because you've shared it more than once. What about the Koala thing? You say you've never had cybersex with Platicman or KidRock, yet they say different and you admitted the KidRock thing. Hell, you even sent him pictures. So don't say it's not about you.
You use your threads to justify your actions. You complain about your husband not trusting you, and yet you're calling other guys, cybering other guys, sending out pictures to other guys.
I do think that is immoral if your marriage is all of a sudden wonderful.
You use your threads to justify your actions. You complain about your husband not trusting you, and yet you're calling other guys, cybering other guys, sending out pictures to other guys.
I do think that is immoral if your marriage is all of a sudden wonderful.
Rubyfruit
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Re: would I be less of a hypocrite...
I'm not sure who that was directed at, but I took offense because I do claim to be happy in my marriage and I do cyber/phone occassionally.
I was just about to jump to your defense bratcat. Not that you need anybody to do that for you, but because I can't stand when people judge others unfairly. Now it seems that you've sunk to the same level as your troll though.
*bratcat* said:if I ran around proclaiming how happy I am in my marriage, but continued to flirt and have cyber/phone sex like some of the other members here...those ohsoperfectinnocent *cough*bullshit*cough members?
sorry, I know that was nasty and bitchy...but hell, why should that stop me?
I'm not sure who that was directed at, but I took offense because I do claim to be happy in my marriage and I do cyber/phone occassionally.
I was just about to jump to your defense bratcat. Not that you need anybody to do that for you, but because I can't stand when people judge others unfairly. Now it seems that you've sunk to the same level as your troll though.
