Question for the married ladies....

[Mr_Neb]

...and for the long-time committed as well.

Here is the scenario.....

Sometime in your relationship, you thought it would be sexy to have some of those sexy but not graphic boudoir pictures taken and so you did and gave them to your mate. You both had a chuckle over them but after a time, they ended up on the top shelf of the closet.

One day, you come home and enter your bedroom only to find your husband, completely naked, taking "matters into his own hands" as they say. He has been using pictures of you for his motivation. He's got your pictures strewn about the bed, one of them in one hand and his other hand has...well you get the idea.

Here's the question.....

Would you find this exciting and complimentary or would you feel hurt and disappointed? There is no real "right" answer obviously. Just curious.

Mr. Neb

 

[Guest]

My husband and I have been together 11 years and I would take it as the highest compliment to find him getting off on pictures of me. It would mean that he still found me desirable and that I played a part in his fantasies.

After so many years of marriage women have a tendency to see themselves as non-sexual and what better way to revive your sexuality then to see your husband with pictures of you instead of the latest copy of Penthouse.

 

[Jeff726]

Exactly, Freya. It shouldn't matter if it was pictures or secret videos as long as it was of YOU that your spouse was getting his jollies with. If my gf was using some likeness of me other than my body to get off on, I wouldn't mind at all because it was me she was doing with, so to speak.

 

[Isabella Thorne]

not a biggie

ohhhh pleeeeeeease Mr. Neb .. my b/f does it all the time ... it's no big deal ..

hey what if she was well pleasuring herself while looking at pics of you .. would that bother you hon?

 

[Lasher]

If you really want to make it interesting...

A better question, Mr. Neb, woulda been - "What if she walks in the room and finds him masturbating while looking at pictures of HIMSELF!!"

That's something to get people thinking. You're question was too easy.

Hehe...

 

[Isabella Thorne]

But it's only a pic, dear

yea definitely .. or worse yet pics of vegetables .. or sheep .. or .. LMAO

 

[Endlessly]

I actually would not be surprised if I walked in on my ex getting off on pictures of himself. He can't even sleep in the nude because the thought of his own naked body turns him on too much.

 

[Mr_Neb]

Hey, don't get me wrong here. The scenario came up a few years ago. A friend of mine had one of those books that has 1 zillion suggestions to spice up your marraige. One of them was to have the husband stage that scene as a surprise for his wife.

I have no problem with the concept personally. It's funny though, outside of this more sexually enlightened BB, you would be surprised that most women would NOT want to walk in on their husbands like that. In my very informal survey, I'd say over all, it's 50-50.

If I walked in on my wife, seeing her getting off on my pictures or some other memorabilia, I would be neked in a New York minute and pounce on that bed. She would not finish alone!

 

[Isabella Thorne]

oh Mr. Nib .. or may I call you Nibby ...

and here I was joking around like a naughty girl .. yes that's it .. i was a naughty girl .. naughty ..

sexually enlightened? that sounds nice. sounds like you have been asking that question a lot around the net ... how come dear? what's this about an informal survey?

 

[Lasher]

Ummm....

how come dear? what's this about an informal survey?

Maybe his Tux is at the cleaners?? *AHEM*

(sorry, couldn't pass that one up)

 

[Siren]

Re: If you really want to make it interesting...

 

[dancinvixen]

Ohhh I would definitely jump in and ask if he needed a "hand" <g> I would find it incredibly sexy as he loves to watch as I pleasure myself. SO turn about is fair play.

 

[Lethal_beauty_27]

i wouldnt be mad at all. I would think WOW hes using a pic of me to get himself off not a dirty mag of a stranger.If you did this i would jump on the bed and say AHHHHH honey, and let you use the real thing.

 

[MyssCynn]

To find my husband mastrubating to a picture of me would make me feel loved and cherished. It would be the ultimate compliment. What woman wouldn't want to know that her husband thinks she is sexy?

 

[Skitten]

I think it would be fine if it were my picture and I would ask if I could join in with him, but no who would get mad if you are securewhy should it bother you.

 

[BareMandy]

Mr Neb,

I KNOW for a fact that a number of guys is getting off on quite raunchy pic´s they´ve taken from me (sometimes even when they´re talking to me by phone) and to me that´s a big turn-on again !