question for the lesbian women

[rainy191]

if you and your partner wanted children, would you consider letting a guy get either or both of you pregnant?

 

[neonflux]

if you and your partner wanted children, would you consider letting a guy get either or both of you pregnant?

Of course, if I knew the man well and liked him. As long as the relationship was good and the boundaries were well-established beforehand, this would give your child not two parents, but three (and perhaps 4 if he were gay and also coupled). I know several such families and it has worked out well for the children and the parents. Neon

 

[rainy191]

question

i would enjoy making arangements to get one or both partners pregnant

 

[neonflux]

Oh heavens!

With your obvious charm, wit and intelligence, why wouldn't we welcome a child from your seed. *bats eyelashes* Only, my partner and I seem to have permanently lost our turkey baster and, well, you know, unfortunately, real cocks just aren't our thing. *sigh*

~ Neon

 

[Etoile]

i would enjoy making arangements to get one or both partners pregnant

You just want to fuck a lesbian. I don't think you'll have much success with this approach.

 

[DarkBee]

You just want to fuck a lesbian. I don't think you'll have much success with this approach.

WHAHAHA! Priceless!

 

[SuzieGreen717]

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[neonflux]

You just want to fuck a lesbian. I don't think you'll have much success with this approach.

ROFLMAO - Positively dangerous! I just spit coffee all over my keyboard! p.s., thank you

 

[neonflux]

I would be more worried about financial and legal repercussions down the road if you use a friend as a partner. You might be friends today, but what about 10 years from now. What happens when the friendship disolves and he demands legal and/or financial rights? I don't think you want to go there. If you're really considering this, go the normal route, via an anonymous donor. It might not be what you want now, but the important thing is the child's future welfare and life at stake. It's no longer a game once you bring another life into the world.

On a more serious note (the OP was clearly not), first, am not looking to get pregnant. Your concerns, certainly important to consider, one might have in any parental relationship, including with one's partner. The expectations would need to be worked out ahead of time, and definitely within the framework of a legal document. Yes, any legal document can be challenged.

I have seen this type of family arrangement work very well, and more than once - it can give the children in the equation additional security. Not only that, it facilitates their learning about their full biological heritage at that time (around puberty) when answering such questions becomes so important for establishing identity.

Neon

 

[Powertone]

the redefining of "family" sure is up for grabs now,isn't it...ain't science and fertilization sumthin?

 

[curiouslez84]

if you and your partner wanted children, would you consider letting a guy get either or both of you pregnant?

I'd go to a sperm bank if I wanted to go through the pain of having children...I think Brianna would probably do the same. I know she likes kids and we'll probably adopt a few years from now, but right now I don't really want kids and she's willing to wait to adopt for me.