Question for the ladies

[Eros_1337]

Say you just had sex with a guy. For, like hours. You're exhausted, and you need a break. So, you go into the kitchen and your girlfriend begins to finger fuck you. Would you be too tired, or would you simply just go with it? Can you be too tired to be on the receiving end of a helping hand?

I know men can be too tired. After while it just doesn't want to rise anymore. But it works differently on women so....

 

[RedheadedHaze]

Say you just had sex with a guy. For, like hours. You're exhausted, and you need a break. So, you go into the kitchen and your girlfriend begins to finger fuck you. Would you be too tired, or would you simply just go with it? Can you be too tired to be on the receiving end of a helping hand?

I know men can be too tired. After while it just doesn't want to rise anymore. But it works differently on women so....

Too tired? Hardly.

While I might need a break from the M/F thing, a woman approaching me is a whole other ball game. She comes w/ her own set of turn ons, eroticism, etc. and would appeal to a whole dif't side of my sexual nature.

Unfortunately for guys, you do have that breaking point where you just can't participate any more until you've had recovery time. As a woman, I don't have that issue, though I'm sure for some women, they also might hit a plateau and just can't orgasm anymore.

Anyway, generalizations aside, I'd be down. Especially knowing, that at that point, I'd already have wheels in motion wondering how I could work her into a 3way w/ my guy. Always gotta have a game plan.

 

[Eilan]

I'm trying to figure out how I'd ever be in the situation described in that post.

 

[silverwhisper]

eros: i can see being too tired, depending on the specific choreography of your experience with the guy. but i'm more inclined to think that some body parts might be overstimulated and need a break. i mean, i love going down on my wife and could do it for hours--but eventually, she's gonna kick me away b/c after an orgasm, she needs me to move on to something else b/c it's too sensitive.

so if your gf was fingering you after hours of intercourse specifically, i can see being too sore or tired, sure.

although like eilan, i'm trying to figure out how the situation you described exists.

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[m468h]

I'm trying to figure out how I'd ever be in the situation described in that post.

Same.

 

[RedheadedHaze]

I don't think the point of the whole thing was to wonder how the situation developed as much as it was about whether or not you can go from being exhausted from continual sex with a guy to being aroused and "in the mood" so to speak w/ a woman.

At least, that's my take on it. Perhaps I misread/misinterpreted intent?

 

[CaRaMeLPoleDoll]

I'm trying to figure out how I'd ever be in the situation described in that post.

I agree with Eilan... i would probably never have this situation come to light...
BUT
to answer the question i think it would be a huge turn on... i'd be spent but considering the differences between being with a guy as apposed to a girl... i'd like to think my body would get a second wind.

 

[DominaDoll]

Never!

I'm never too exhausted for sex. Bring it on.

Seriously. I have had all night sessions that lasts til dawn and beyond with more than one lover present. My spouse and I spent a whole day having sex with little breaks one time, a kind of marathon event. I have had orgies where you sit down for a bit, and then you get back into it because it looks so fun, and you don't want to miss anything, again, these lasted for hours and hours. Just remember to keep hydrated

And, one time, I ended up walking for days like I had be riding a horse, but it was worth it!

 

[Reba67]

I'm trying to figure out how I'd ever be in the situation described in that post.

Same here.

But, irrelevant, let's move onto the theretical random person in my kitchen waiting for me. When I'm at a point where I need a break sexually, I need a break. Don't touch me.

 

[kimbernee]

I'm not bi-sexual so I can't relate to that part of it. I do have the capacity for multiple orgasms and yet I do get sore/bored eventually. Changing the type of stimulation can give me new life. Even a short break can give me new life, depending on what is sore and how sore. I can see how a completely different gender would work. It's also possible that the first partner just wasn't doing the job and she bailed to a more reliable orgasm.