Question for the ladies

[balguren]

Ok I was wondering ladies with all the males you have been with or the few how hung was the largest and smallest you ever had and what size made you feel the sexually best and what was the absoulte best sex you ever had place how it was done etc please (helps me try new stuff lol)Thank you ladies for your time.

 

[Dynamite]

I'll say ait again.

It's not the size. It's whether or not they know what to do w/ it.

You guys have sex all wrong. Foreplay is quite important. You gotta tongue? Then use it!!!!!

 

[ariadne_vinodeluna]

A super tiny penis deters me!

I don't mean to insult those who have small penises but are great with the tongue. But if you have such a small penis that I can't feel it when it's in there OR i can barely do anything with it in the oral sex department....then size does matter!

I speak of personal experience....beautiful guy..gorgeous...micropenis!

 

[WhiteRose]

I was with a guy once who had a very short penis, but it was thick around, and yes, he knew how to rock it. Maybe he compensated by grinding against my clit just right, but it was fine.

 

[ariadne_vinodeluna]

I guess the length might not be as vital if they are really wide..but unfortunately this guy was pencil thin and wasn't really very creative...

thanks for the info whiterose!

 

[WhiteRose]

Well, I guess being TOO small (and/or narrow) isn't much better than being too big. I see some of those guys on porn sites with 12" (or larger) cocks, and I think they'd have to tie a knot in it first before I'd let them near me. If they're too big they aren't good for much more than setting on the mantle above the fireplace.

Luckily women come in different sizes too. Just need to find the right one that fits you. Kind of like Cinderella

 

[voyergirl]

"micro" or "mamoth"

well i haven't got much experience but the one i have right now is
just over 9 inches and nice and thick and size may not be everything but GOD he can use it. being with one this good for so many years makes me think a smaller penis would never fill the void. i hope i never have to find out but if the chance does arise i will continue those kegals to keep it a tight fit for any who may enter lol

on the other hand the pencil dick you have might be nice for anal entry????

sorry i wasn't much help!

voy

 

[ariadne_vinodeluna]

*LOL* I love the imagery of having them tie it up in a knot or put on the mantel....

I love watching porn ....but one thing i can't stand is how super male oriented stereotypes some have..Like that a woman is going to want a 1 FOOTER shoving into her and having it come out of her mouth...OUCH!

NO thanks..i had a friend whose boyfriend was bigger and she was sometimes disapointed because of the pain or just because they had to work around the largeness...so she wouldn't howl with more pain...

ANOTHER thing...is it just me or does cum have like a bleach kinda of taste to it???? I mean I've tried swallowing but lately it just makes me gag! SO i don't understand how they show these girls in porns with tons of cum in their mouths or hungrily swallowing it like it tastes like chocolate! NOW if cum tasted like chocolate .....OH MAN! that would be dangerous....i would be draining....well i won't go on ...you get my drift...*LOL*

Ari

 

[ariadne_vinodeluna]

pencil penis for anal sex?

OH MY GOODNESS...i can't imagine the guy i was talking about with the pencil penis doing anal sex...okay let me telll you this story...


He's gorgeous..like a hockey player so he's bod is buff...(i no longer see him) beautiful face...and he lost his virginity to his best friend who has been totally girl oriented for the last two years...

so now he's like her roommate and i think still thinks he's going to get with her at one point though she's had a girlfriend for two years...

when i was him I was willing to have a quick sexual tryst but all he wanted was to "do other things" all except sex...I was like okay..but he had two strikes....SUPER SMALL THIN PENIS and not very good on foreplay...

to make a long story short....what i have to say about him is what a waste! and i hope someday he learns to pleasure women cuz he's going to need it to compensate for his penis....*sigh*

 

[voyergirl]

bleach???

EEEWWWWW!!!!!!

i think it depends on what he takes in his body.
tell him to drink more water and eat more fruits!

or hell maybe eat more chocolate!!!!


voy

 

[MidnightAngel]

I've been with men who were quite small and one who was very large. The very small ones I will "pass" on at this point in my life, thank you......Sorry guys, but it just doesn't do it for me. ( I'm speaking *strictly* about sex -- now, If I cared about the person, it wouldn't matter. )

The largest one was 11 inches. We dated on-and-off for a LONG time. When I was young(high school age), it did hurt; I guess 'cause neither of us really knew what we were doing. In later years, with more experience, it was GREAT! I don't think that's "too big"; not if the man knows what he's doing and can get you excited. (Which he did.....Very Well! ).

As for a man's cum tasting bad? I guess it's possible.....but I've never found any yet that I didn't LOVE!

 

[ariadne_vinodeluna]

Changing the taste of cum

Are you telling me there's ways to change the taste of cum???

Voy...if it's just drinking more water then He did that a lot...He was a water junkie...and his cum didn't have the total taste of bleach to the point that you could wash whites whiter with it..but it had that taste partly in it..

If anyone's has hard facts to prove that certain things can make cum taste different, please let me know!

Though don't bother to tell me about 50 dollar pills that will make the cum taste like pineapple, (saw the ad in playboy)...that just seems like a bunch of bullsh*t...

 

[Guest]

change of post answer

i think there's a thread about this either in "How To" or "personals", but yes, what you eat/drink WILL change the composition (SLIGHTLY) of the carrier material. Alcohol, such as wine or spirits, will give it a slightly sweeter taste, as will some juices. Conversely, high protein / steroids / overindulgence in some mineral suppliments will make the carrier more bitter or even metallic tasting...

 

[WhiteRose]

Re: Changing the taste of cum

Are you telling me there's ways to change the taste of cum???

Fruit or ice cream usually works if eaten an hour or two before. I've never had any problems, but I deep throat and swallow, so I don't usually have much sitting on my tongue. I've never had any that tasted bad, but it's very true that what you eat affects your bodily odors, so it only makes sense that it also affects your "flavors".

 

[ariadne_vinodeluna]

White rose ...my sexual guru?

Gosh i'm learning so much from you White rose!

Can you become my sexual guru?

okay i never thought that deep throating would really take away the necessity of worrying about what the cum tastes like...

BUT then this question comes up--->How does one deep throat and not choke?

*L* is there a method or technique?

if so please share, I think it would be an interesting skill to learn!


Ari

 

[blackmagicwoman]

Ok,
Yes, what you eat does affect YOUR tase and a man's. The thing about fruit (and vegetables) I understand to be true and also the thing about high protein. My old best friend was an oral sex god (gave me my first "O" , thanx Jase) and he told me that vegetarian women taste better. I don't know how true that is, I don't have much data to compare . As far as the size goes, of course it matters to a degree. I personally wouldn't let a 12 inch cock even poke around a little bit in there. It is very sacred place and I don't need some ding dong with a huge prick messing my girlyness up(the biggest for me was 9 in. and that got a little tiring after a couple of rounds) At the same time I want to be able to feel it and I have been with a couple who have been less than stellar in the size department (I don't know, 4?, 5?, really tiny). To the piont where I didn't know whether it was "in" or not. A happy medium is where it's at for me, that way we can have sex all night and I won't be hurting the next day. Best sex I have ever had...I don't have a specific time. Definitely a specific person (who is the most fabulous oral sex giver too) but not a specific time. Maybe on his car in an alley in Beverly Hills in the middle of the day, very yummy ! I'll never forget that one. The steam shower was awesome too, though but it got a little uncomfortable on our knees .

BMW

 

[slinkystar]

Well, the smallest was so small I couldn't even feel it, but I don't think he could really get it up cuz he was completely wasted. The largest was probably 8" and actually, that was too large for me. My husband is about 6 to 6.5" and he's just perfect for me. I think it all depends on the woman. Everyone is built differently and even though women can pretty much accomidate any size, its the woman's preference that determines what feels good.

I don't think men should be worried about their size, it is their technique that really matters.

 

[voyergirl]

size

damn am i enjoying this thread!

okay about the deep throating thing with larger penis' don't sweat it if you can't get it all the way in there. just do you best and try not to gag. it takes away the fun for you if you have to concentrate on not throwing up, and God forbid you do throw up trying to impress him. it would scar the guy for LIFE!!! lmao!!!

And hey BMW lol i have a 9er and DAMN girl I LOVE IT! he has been the only one in me so i guess i am like a custom fit glove for his dick lmao. i have never thought of myself as a piece of custom work before lol. besides keep the kegals going and your vag muscles will stay tight enough to keep even a 6 incher happy

and about the flavor? i have tasted myself, i think every woman should. and i have to say i love my own flavor, at times it makes me want to taste other women. but i LOVE fruit, don't smoke, don't drink alcholol, and eat quite healthy. i guess if your right about "you are what you eat" i better find another woman who has the same eating habits so i also like her flavor lol

voy

 

[WhiteRose]

Deep throating

BUT then this question comes up--->How does one deep throat and not choke?
*L* is there a method or technique?

Hrm, practicing deep breathing through your nose before you attempt deep throating really helps. It'll also help to relax you (and your throat muscles) so you aren't really THINKING about swallowing him while you're doing it. If you try too hard, you're just making your muscles tense up.

I've never had a problem with gagging or anything, but I've always been very orally inclined. I tend to lose myself in it. It's such an erotic thing for me, and I sometimes have my own orgasm just performing that one act, even without touching myself.

Back when I started going down on guys in high school, there was no one around for me to ask about sexual technique. I was the first of my close friends to get involved with guys, and there was no way on earth I could ask my mother. She still whispers the word "period". The very first time I did it, it was such a natural extension of stroking him. We just happened to be in a convenient place for him to lie back, and it wasn't even a conscious decision on my part, I just did it. (Course the first time, I got ALL confused because it was called a "blow job" hehe and he was confused as to what I was doing.)

But I just couldn't get enough of it, and from that first experience I've always deep throated and swallowed. I don't think about it sliding down my throat, I just love the way it fills my mouth and slides against my tongue, and I want it all And I love the taste.

The only little problem I've ever had is the loose pubic hair thing once or twice, and that can easily be taken care of by combing your fingers through his hairs several times before going down on him and while you're stroking him. The loose hairs fall off before you go down on him and don't end up in your mouth.

 

[funwdi]

size

I agree that size doesn't always matter, because it's the clit that needs the most stimulation for a woman to orgasm. Penetration has to be more than in and out, if you know what I mean, because different women have different points inside of them that need stimulation. In fact, the further you go inside of a woman, the less nerves and blood vessels. BUT, some women like it harder, and there is always something to be said about a good banging! As for size...I guess GIRTH matters more than length, to tell you the truth. Don't forget the foreplay, which is the most important. Sexual tension is terrific, and a good long buildup to the ultimate fuck is the best.

 

[Tangie]

Size definitely matters but it helps if the guy knows the tricks of the trade too. My worst experience with size was a guy who not only had a pencil dick but would NOT slow down, even when I worked up the nerve to ask ask him to.

My first had a short (4" or 5" if I remember correctly) but thick penis and that was wonderful. He really knew how to use it and it was easy for me to perform oral sex on him so I didn't mind it. My best college experience was with a guy who was totally comfortable about sex and would do just about anything. He was the 2nd guy I met who actually loved eating pussy...there was a trend starting here.

My current is wonderful. He's about 10" and plenty thick. I don't always like to give him full blow jobs because of his size but we do a lot of 69ing and that gives me the advantage of having more control. Sometimes the length can be uncomfortable in certain positions, especially if he's being rough and really ramming it in there but we've been together long enough that he knows my noises and if he's paying attention, he'll back down a bit. Otherwise, I gently pull away and get into a different position.

P.S. Hi there! This is my first post!

 

[voyergirl]

hello!!!

welcome tangie!

your sex sounds kinda like mine so i know you have a good one there! welcome to the boards. and wow just think you've doubled your size as far a penis's go! just think of a 5 incher in there now lol

voy
ps... does he also have a large tongue? mine does and his favorite part of sex is using it!!!!!!!!!!!

i am so spoiled!!!

hehehe