Question for the Ladies

[lavender]

 

[HeavyStick]

*designated lurker*

 

[Mellon Collie]

22-23, eh?

Does this mean I have something to look forward to?

Confirm ladies, please confirm.

 

[Guest]

Better and better and more gooder too.

Seriously, it depends on a LOT of factors. How good a lover we have, how much more open we learn to be.....yada yada.

I think it's wisdom, rather than age that contributes.

Moon

 

[RastaPope]

I know the longer I wait to bust a nut, the more I jizz.


But that's just me.

 

[Siren]

 

[lavender]

 

[HeavyStick]

at this rate,
just wait til you reach 50............you will probably blow the roof off.

or the back of someone's head.

 

[TN_Vixen]

I think it has everything to do with you growing more and more comfortable with your body and expressing your sexuality. Women are trained to think that if they enjoy sex then they are sluts, so in order to perpetuate the "good girl" ideal, it isn't kosher for us to express our enjoyment, likes, dislikes, etc., where sex is concerned.

I think as you get older, most women just throw all that shit out the window and work on their enjoyment and therefore, become much more fulfilled.

 

[kotori]

I've heard that women reach the height of their sexual potency (whatever that may mean) in their early thirties.












Men around 18. It's a long slide...

 

[BoobsNBrains]

I'm 30, and I've noticed a total change in my orgams just over the past few months. Case in point: I've begun to "gush." It doesn't just happen when I orgasm, either...when my husband hits my sweet spot, there's this HOT rush of fluid inside me, almost as if he's come...but he hasn't...it's mine!

My orgasms come easier, too...(pardon the pun)...and they're more intense and last longer than they ever have. Of course, these "new, improved" orgasms make me want to have sex all the time, which is a definite good thing. At this rate, I figure I will kill my husband by the time I'm 35. Maybe we should get a helper.

 

[lavender]

 

[Aphrodisiac]

This could also be because as we get older we are more in tune with our bodies and we are more accepting when it comes to our body image. Hence , the enjoyment of one's sexuality.

Just my opinion.

 

[HeavyStick]

when my husband hits my sweet spot

you're married..... sniff sniff

 

[BoobsNBrains]

BoobsNBrains,

I always knew I was a "bit" of a gusher. Just recently, I've discovered exactly what you have. It completely caught me by surprise.

Now, if I could just get it to happen mid-cunnilingus...that'd teach him to come in my eye! LOL

 

[BoobsNBrains]

you're married..... sniff sniff

Yes, Heavy...and you have a funky monkey. What's your point?

 

[tigerjen]

I remember being 22-23 years old and cumming pretty
hard, but now that I am 28.........the orgasms are friggin'
damn intense now........this has been happening since
at least age 25-26 for me.........and I believe it is from
daily masturbation and when the opportunity arises,
being played with by a lover..........


tigerjen

 

[Guest]

I think it has everything to do with you growing more and more comfortable with your body and expressing your sexuality. Women are trained to think that if they enjoy sex then they are sluts, so in order to perpetuate the "good girl" ideal, it isn't kosher for us to express our enjoyment, likes, dislikes, etc., where sex is concerned.

I think as you get older, most women just throw all that shit out the window and work on their enjoyment and therefore, become much more fulfilled.

yea, what she said.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I think it has everything to do with you growing more and more comfortable with your body and expressing your sexuality. Women are trained to think that if they enjoy sex then they are sluts, so in order to perpetuate the "good girl" ideal, it isn't kosher for us to express our enjoyment, likes, dislikes, etc., where sex is concerned.

I think as you get older, most women just throw all that shit out the window and work on their enjoyment and therefore, become much more fulfilled.

I agree with TN, as we get older we relax more with less inabitions. Also our lovers around our age or older have had years of practice also and that leads to them knowing what women want and being able to read us better....

At 39 mine just blow me away. I think being relaxed about myself and my husband knowing me and being totally relaxed sexualy with him makes a big differeance from when we first meet.

 

[Ishmael]

<letting my feminine side show through>

I've noticed the same. Quantity has been replaced with quality.

This has not come (no pun intended) without a price though. What used to take 5 min., now takes all night. Lovers that can stay concious that long are harder to find year by year.

Ishmael

 

[Jacqline]

I've heard that women reach the height of their sexual potency (whatever that may mean) in their early thirties.
Men around 18. It's a long slide...

There is absolutely no reason that a woman should peak at 30. Think about something: When the children are grown and a woman has matured in every way, she truly does let go of her inhibitions and totally enjoys lovemaking. Why do you think the young men are forever hitting on older women?

Jacqline

 

[Gothic Kitten]

Case in point: I've begun to "gush." It doesn't just happen when I orgasm, either...when my husband hits my sweet spot, there's this HOT rush of fluid inside me, almost as if he's come...but he hasn't...it's mine!

That actually happened to me the first time I used a toy and I was only 18. It was quite the interesting experence, to say the least.

I'm 19 now and I have noticed a change in my orgasms, both with the help of a lover and by myself. Sometimes they take longer to acheive, but it's always worth the extra effort.

 

[peachykeen]

I've heard that women reach the height of their sexual potency (whatever that may mean) in their early thirties.

Shit. I'm 33. Am I coming up on the long downslope? Shit.

 

[Iara]

Nah..I'll be 40..just keeps on getting better

 

[OralDelight71]

Hello Everyone,

Just a comment of a guy who had more lovers in thier late thirties and forties up to their fifties, and I have to say that women who are past 30 are much more powerfull lover, lasting longer, knowing what they want, when they want it and more importantly HOW!

I had some sexual with women in their late teens and early twenties and they don't seem to know what to do or expect or are too shy to express themselves, i bit like me when i was 18 and made love to a woman who was 56, Mmmm what a treat for a young man, opened my eyes really.....

Well, take care all of you,
Love and Hugs,