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Thanks for the input duly noted, anyone else? And maybe ladies tell me what peaks your interest I am wanting to find some friends and chat partners, maybe I'm to shy who knows
I personally like to rp. I love a good nerd too![]()
Totally agree with you and Raw.. its almost comical some of the messages I get.. "whats up baby" or something along those lines I would say 50% of the time.
Be conversational without being over confident (although I know some women do like confidence) Im more along the lines with you in that I would take a good role play over a fake porno any day of the week as a way to pleasure myself. Most guys I don't think understand that. If you are smart, witty and can hold your own with a good erotic chat then you have my attention any day of the week![]()
Thanks for the input duly noted, anyone else? And maybe ladies tell me what peaks your interest I am wanting to find some friends and chat partners, maybe I'm to shy who knows
I tended to respond to ads that were honest but not desperate. Any ad with the words horny, fuck, ass, etc were discarded.
If it would work being whispered in an ear at a bar, don't do it here.
Tell a little bit about yourself. Why are you here? What's your objective? Quick chat, long term OL relationship, writing partner etc.
And for heavens sake, please do not in the first two exchanges ask for pics or bra size. You might as well hold up a billboard saying 'shallow man looking for tits', personality doesn't matter. It's a pretty quick turn off for most women.
I speculate that women generally come here out of loneliness. Men tend to come here more often for quick mind fuck. Generally speaking of course.
Again, just my .02 cents.
Good luck!
You're stymied from the start by the male-female ratios, but, for what it's worth....
As mentioned by others, a lazy PM isn't going to do it. "How's your day" is too easily ignored (or answered with "Fine, thanks, bye..."). Say what interested you in the person you're PMing, what made you want to know more... Say a little about you... Be witty, make me laugh, make me feel there's more to know...
And remember we're all different - I'm sure there's a massive range in the interests and desires amongst the women of Lit, you just have to find the ones who share yours..
Good luck, and good hunting...