Question for the Ladies re- Girl talk/Penis size

[FreakyPythonz]

Ok, we know that women all talk to their friends about sex, often times much dirtier than guys talk to their guy friends! lol

Question- when a girlfriend tells you about a new guy she's been sleeping with, and mentions he is hung....do u look at him differently? Maybe secretly lust after him or daydream etc?

 

[Arianne6947]

No not really might want to see for myself but unless the situation a rises it makes no difference

 

[BongoGal]

A friend of mine once raved about her new boyfriend's ability to get it up quickly and repeatedly. In a drunken confession, she told me that because of this he was the first guy to make her come from straight fucking. I kept this in mind, and after they broke up a few months later, I dated him a few times. He really was gifted in the refractory department.

 

[JulieAnn42]

Yes, when a girl friend tells me of her date's/boyfriend's/husband's/partner's size it makes me look at him and wonder. No, I have not tried one of them out.

 

[SaucyMasquerade]

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[LIVINRFANTASIES]

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Question- when a girlfriend tells you about a new guy she's been sleeping with, and mentions he is hung....do u look at him differently? Maybe secretly lust after him or daydream etc?

Heavens no! I'm not that kind of girl. That's one of the reasons we just left Florida. There are way too many well endowed men there walking the nude beaches and resorts.

 

[SueVanDouser]

Not particularly. I don't really care about size myself though.
I do sometimes wonder if they're making it up though haha.

 

[biseattlegirl]

What good is having a Desert Eagle if you use it like Gomer Pyle? I listen to hear not about size but about how good he is as making her orgasm and his freakiness. Size is just a number

 

[SheLikes2Watch]

What good is having a Desert Eagle if you use it like Gomer Pyle? I listen to hear not about size but about how good he is as making her orgasm and his freakiness. Size is just a number

This. Now, if a friend said her man was a kinky freak or wanted it 24/7...that would get me thinking about him for sure.

 

[MaBelle3120]

I do look at him differently, because its a new piece of information about him.
However, it doesn't make me lust after him. Just because i know he's hung or good in bed, that doesn't make me want him.

 

[magicalmoments]

Thought I'd share a detail about my ex.

She routinely asked me to check out guys cocks when urinating at a public urinals and have me report back. Her targets mainly included the husband's of her friends and workmates but also her brother and her father.

 

[Porkwarrior]

From my experiences, RARELY, do women talk about penises with other women. Needing it, wanting it, can't find it, sure.

But the "DAAAYYYUUUUMMMM the guy giving it to me this week is hung like a horse" convo's rarely happen. Even on Fet. Even on Lit. It does happen, occasionally, years after...

Possibly the most awkward conversation I ever witnessed was when I was the token 'celibate' male to a coven of gay women. When one summer night bbq grill night one 'confessed' to having fucked me. And described my dick in detail, down to the veins and which way it curved. And one by one each one described how, and where, I had fucked them. Then I was asked to leave.

(FFS, NO this isn't a post about how every lesbian just needs one dick to set her straight. More about the fluidity of sexuality, and how...well chicks just be crazy, lol)

 

[Joeknoxville]

My wife and stepdaughter were "girl talking" and it progressed to a comparison of my wife's first husband (my sd's biological father) and me. Eventually my stepdaughter asked me to show her what made her mom so happy, so I did. She said that after their talk she was determined to check me out herself, and I have to admit that I'm glad that she did.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Asian_Flower]

I agree with your first comment. I have been part of conversations with my naughtier female friends that would make a sailor blush. Whilst penis size is often discussed, it is more what he was able to do with it ( or to be totally honest, what she did with it as well) than its outright size.

Secondly, it doesnt affect me in the slightest knowing about a guy. My hubby is very well hung, the biggest I certainly had ever encountered, so knowing what another guy has doesnt really appeal to me.

 

[RedSilk69]

Ok, we know that women all talk to their friends about sex, often times much dirtier than guys talk to their guy friends! lol

Question- when a girlfriend tells you about a new guy she's been sleeping with, and mentions he is hung....do u look at him differently? Maybe secretly lust after him or daydream etc?

A friend of mine recently started dating a guy who's hung like a horse, with appetites to match - but for me, it doesn't make me lust after him. As if the fact that he's dating my very vanilla and not-into-sharing friend weren't enough, politically, he's on the opposite end of the spectrum from me. Lust is not there. So I just check his jeans out

However, I always describe my paramours; I think I annoy my friends.

 

[coachdb18]

Had an interesting thing happen to me in Germany. Used to go to the saunas, which are often naked mixed gender. Americans are often surprised by this. I was speaking with a German gentleman who was in the process of leaving when three young American bikini clad Army wives opened the door, and just as quickly left, seemingly quite embarrassed. A few minutes later, they returned, one obviously being talked into it by the other two (they seemed to think I spoke German, and that their conversation was therefore safe). The conversation turned to their disbelief they were actually doing this, but each slowly 'went German' as well. I was of course sitting on a towel, and alone when they entered. Finding seats where they could see me without seeming to stare, their conversation about the naked man in their midst, much of their interesting conversation concerned my male parts. They only stayed a short time, but it sure was fun being the fly on the wall, and knowing I'd gotten them turned on.

 

[tryn2Bgood]

I think women are much more explicit in their girl talk than guys are when they get together. But really, RARELY does size matter. It is discussed sometimes, but usually not if they're in a serious relationship with their partner. But if one of us encountered an abnormally large penis...well, you can't really keep that knowledge all to yourself! Would it make me look at a guy differently if I knew that about him? Not really. Would it make me lust after him? Nope. Would it make me curious? Sure, but just in a 'Ripley's Believe It or Not' kind of way.

 

[Erodicus]

In my limited experience, I've found that women spend very little time (compared to guys) on the issue of penis size. Nevertheless, all the women I've asked have remembered which of their lovers had the biggest one, but it was just an incidental fact. For those who'd had sex with a guy who had a monster, it was often not a happy experience. Some of the guys were too rough. In other cases, the guy seemed to think that all he had to do was show it to her and she would open her legs for him and beg him for it. In every case what was much more important for the women was how creative and skilled the guy was in taking care of her needs and making her feel desirable. In one case the woman said it was the guy with the smallest cock who gave her the best time.

 

[RedSilk69]

In my limited experience, I've found that women spend very little time (compared to guys) on the issue of penis size. Nevertheless, all the women I've asked have remembered which of their lovers had the biggest one, but it was just an incidental fact. For those who'd had sex with a guy who had a monster, it was often not a happy experience. Some of the guys were too rough. In other cases, the guy seemed to think that all he had to do was show it to her and she would open her legs for him and beg him for it. In every case what was much more important for the women was how creative and skilled the guy was in taking care of her needs and making her feel desirable. In one case the woman said it was the guy with the smallest cock who gave her the best time.

So I mostly agree - but cock size is only an incidental matter within what that woman considers acceptable. When talking about guys afterwards, average-size cocks only rate a mention if used really well; very large or small cocks always get mentioned.

Cock-size-shaming (outside of a setting where that is what the owner of the cock wants) is like fat-shaming women. Yes, you might prefer someone with a different size cock or body, but that certainly doesn't mean you'd never have a great time with a man with a tiny cock or a women fatter or skinnier (or less/more booby) than you prefer - so give it a whirl. It seems to me that that sort of perspective is more widely-held among women than men, but having talked mostly with other women, my conclusions are biased