Question for the couples with bi males...

[Wrights007]

I’ve been a bi male for about 10 years now. I’m a nice guy, handsome, outgoing and very friendly. I have a GF who is a little more sheltered but she is a very energetic girl once she gets to know someone.

I told her about my bisexuality a couple years ago. I’m fortunate enough to have a GF who supports exploring sexuality. We’ve played with toys, role played, watched videos, etc… We talked about threesome and we never really had a strategy when it comes to finding someone. WE recently decided to try looking for a person we could befriend and see where it goes.

We life just outside of Philadelphia and we have seemingly limited resources for Bi people. We are just wondering how others do it. We’re looking for more of a one and done thing but we also want to be able to trust the guy.

Plus I’ve told her to pick whomever. I’m more after the actual sexual portion of the act. I’m a bottom and like to perform oral to both sexes so my interests are in the pants so to speak.

So my question is what have others out there done to find good, trustworthy people? Is it clubs? Online dating? Craigslist or some other posting service? We are just trying to take the most intelligent approach to our little sexual encounter. while being careful at the same time.

Thanks everyone for reading and I look forward to your replies.

 

[M's girl]

Hi Wrights,

welcome to Lit. I think you'll have more chance on the GLBT board... posting your question there....

Ciao! M's

 

[ShoreToPlease]

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[pedroh]

shore

you there shore- check your pms

 

[onit4fun]

hey wright count me in on this pm me some detais

 

[BEACHBONS]

I started sucking cock about 2 years ago. I'm 49 now. I'm not sure what put me over the edge, but, I'm sure watching all that hard cock pumping away at lovely ladies in porn helped a little. I, too, wanted an MMF encounter. I tried the AFF route with no replies over the course of a year. I tried other "dating" sites, still no luck. Craigslist, nope. I then stumbled across http://squirt.org/ while cruising the internet.

I found alot of the guys there were just like me; hot for cock only with a fine lady involved. I made a few posts and chatted with a few members. Some were honest some were not, just like trolling a bar on Saturday night. I figured I had to take the plunge and I set up my first meet with a married bi guy. I won't bore you with the details here , but, it went great and I discovered that I DO like to suck cock and nothing else.

From that time forward I looked for guys who just wanted their dicks sucked. Again, most were honest and most encounters worked out great. There were a few that when I met them it was obvious that I probably didn't want to go forward with them. That's OK, just explain your feelings, shake hands, and part company. No hard feelings.

I still wanted the MMF encounter. Since I also visit with female escorts occasionally, I asked around if any of them brought along a bi male friend. After several months of searching I found a great escort who brought her boyfriend with her. JACKPOT! This couple showed me exactly what I was looking for. To each his own, of course, but I'll never go back to MM. That extra person in the mix in the form of a beautiful woman sure makes life great.

In your case, you are on the inside looking out. You have a lady who is obviously interested in your proclivities. You WILL find a willing male partner, they are everywhere. Just make sure that you screen them very carefully; meet them in public for the first time; know what you and you lady's limits are and that your new partner respects them. Be choosy because in this lifstyle you hold all the chips. You have a willing female partner.

Best of luck to both of you.

 

[laidir22]

You probably won't ever know the person is trustworthy until you take the time to get to know them. Unfortunately, that won't happen with Craigslist. I have only tried to answer couple ads twice (because I would like to be with a drama-free couple) and once they were looking for a "donation" which I am not willing to do since I have no problems getting single girls for free. That didn't give me a good impression of craigslist and I haven't tried it since.

 

[theedebster]

Craigslist

You probably won't ever know the person is trustworthy until you take the time to get to know them. Unfortunately, that won't happen with Craigslist. I have only tried to answer couple ads twice (because I would like to be with a drama-free couple) and once they were looking for a "donation" which I am not willing to do since I have no problems getting single girls for free. That didn't give me a good impression of craigslist and I haven't tried it since.

It's interesting your experience with Craigslist. I had one or two good expereinces with CL and many more bad ones. I guess if your willing to put up with all the imposters to find the one or two good ones it's worth the effort.
My hubby and I have met couples through social groups. You have to do a lot of searching.

 

[BigGuyPA44]

I’ve been a bi male for about 10 years now. I’m a nice guy, handsome, outgoing and very friendly. I have a GF who is a little more sheltered but she is a very energetic girl once she gets to know someone.

I told her about my bisexuality a couple years ago. I’m fortunate enough to have a GF who supports exploring sexuality. We’ve played with toys, role played, watched videos, etc… We talked about threesome and we never really had a strategy when it comes to finding someone. WE recently decided to try looking for a person we could befriend and see where it goes.

We life just outside of Philadelphia and we have seemingly limited resources for Bi people. We are just wondering how others do it. We’re looking for more of a one and done thing but we also want to be able to trust the guy.

Plus I’ve told her to pick whomever. I’m more after the actual sexual portion of the act. I’m a bottom and like to perform oral to both sexes so my interests are in the pants so to speak.

So my question is what have others out there done to find good, trustworthy people? Is it clubs? Online dating? Craigslist or some other posting service? We are just trying to take the most intelligent approach to our little sexual encounter. while being careful at the same time.

Thanks everyone for reading and I look forward to your replies.

You are a lucky man to have a woman like her. There are lots of married bi guys out here...turn on your PMs and I bet you can find a few worth exploring.

 

[robbie_boy1]

join a swinger site. many have bi males that are into 3somes etc..this place is great but you could wait forever..if you want to suck cock and leave mom at home there is a great site to find single men or coupled that like the added extra. Mild to wild, your choice. good luck to you and yours.
My wife is much like your girl

 

[lindahotstuff]

We have tried all the swingers sites, swinger clubs, etc. We find the most successful ways to make contact with likeminded people are either through an ad in our local newspaper, or by going to pubs and just talking to people. The latter is the most successful because whilst placing and answering ads has great anticipation, there are so many timewasters it can be depressing. Wear something sexy, engage in risque conversation, do some light touching. It is the best way in which we meet new friends - male, female and couples.