Question for the asseaters

[naughtycakes]

I'm wondering, why eat it if you're not going to fuck it? I always thought guys licked out your butthole to pave the way for their cocks, but I guess that's not always the case.

I've been seeing this guy for quite a while - it's a casual thing, we're lovers, not in an exclusive relationship - and his biggest turn on is eating me out, both pussy and ass, especially ass. But after months and months of this, he hasn't even stuck a finger in there.

I'm not adverse to anal sex, though I don't have a lot of experience with it. It's a huge turn-on in theory, but I'm only interested in having my poop shute filled by somebody who really wants to do it and has skillz.

So, input, please!

 

[BKD140]

Speaking from experience it usually follows a standard sequence:

Tongue
Finger(s)
Cock

Licking usually provides adequate lubrication and gets everything relaxed and ready for the next part.

 

[sithpac]

thats interesting....in my case at least i've tongued around there to, as you said, pave the way...while it is a huge turn on to eat out a pussy and ass it's my end goal to fill it was well...perhaps making a few "suggestions" to him while he's down there such as grabbing his head and moving it back and forth to fuck yourself with his tongue would help him get the idea...

 

[Justme16432000]

Speaking from experience it usually follows a standard sequence:

Tongue
Finger(s)
Cock

Licking usually provides adequate lubrication and gets everything relaxed and ready for the next part.

I would have to agree, there is usually a typical chain of events to determine your partners willingness.

 

[WickedLittleBoy]

Sometimes it's just an insatiable need, a mad hunger to eat her out, pussy and ass, and penetration isn't the goal, isn't even of interest to us. Sometimes it's just about tickling her ass with a tongue, eating her ass as an extension of eating her pussy for no other reason than to get her all squishy and squirmy and dripping with desire. Sometimes it's just about her pleasure; we know she likes a tongue in her ass and we're happy to oblige her. And sometimes we're just waiting for the subtle signal of, "Quit fuckin' teasing me and shove that cock in my ass - NOW!"

 

[BetterLuver]

I'm wondering, why eat it if you're not going to fuck it? I always thought guys licked out your butthole to pave the way for their cocks, but I guess that's not always the case.

I've been seeing this guy for quite a while - it's a casual thing, we're lovers, not in an exclusive relationship - and his biggest turn on is eating me out, both pussy and ass, especially ass. But after months and months of this, he hasn't even stuck a finger in there.

I'm not adverse to anal sex, though I don't have a lot of experience with it. It's a huge turn-on in theory, but I'm only interested in having my poop shute filled by somebody who really wants to do it and has skillz.

So, input, please!

Very interesting, as i love to eat a girls ass too.. but fingering her ass is STILL my favorite while fucking her pussy. I do love anal sex a lot, the access is the sexiest thing.. Her letting me do what i want. However that is very strange that he will eat it, and not do anything else to it.

Have you told him to finger you there??.. just curious.

 

[twister947]

Tell him what you want, fer crissakes! Make the next move...

 

[naughtycakes]

I asked him already, after having given him all the nonverbal cues with my body language. We were talking about sex, fooling around, and I asked him why he didn't stick a finger in there, he just shrugged and told me he wasn't into it.

I wasn't going to give him a 50-point quizz.

 

[Harber]

So I guess "input, please!" was literal, right? ;-)

As Vincent Hanna once said... "Cause she's got a great ass! And you got your head all the way up it! Ferocious, aren't I? When I think of asses - a woman's ass - something comes out of me".

I can't think of a very apt saying right now, but it'd be something along the lines of; 'don't sit in the saddle - if you're not gonna ride'. See? That was rubbish.. Point being, you should just tell him if he's not going to do something more productive down there after all that eatin', don't damn well go near your ass. Frankly, I think it's a little weird that he likes it enough to lick it, but not to finger or fuck it.

 

[naughtycakes]

So I guess "input, please!" was literal, right? ;-)

As Vincent Hanna once said... "Cause she's got a great ass! And you got your head all the way up it! Ferocious, aren't I? When I think of asses - a woman's ass - something comes out of me".

I can't think of a very apt saying right now, but it'd be something along the lines of; 'don't sit in the saddle - if you're not gonna ride'. See? That was rubbish.. Point being, you should just tell him if he's not going to do something more productive down there after all that eatin', don't damn well go near your ass. Frankly, I think it's a little weird that he likes it enough to lick it, but not to finger or fuck it.

Dood, I'm not complaining, I love it when he licks out my ass. It just bothers me on a different level, it disrupts my sense of sexual logic or something.

We had dinner together yesterday followed by a heated session and it was really, really good. It's just that when I did ask him, he was evasive and inarticulate about it. He's not really much of a talker when it comes to sex. So I figured maybe some asseaters here on Lit might be able to shed some light on it.

Obviously it's a fetish. I know he watches asseating videos to get off and there's been a few times when after a whole bunch of sex, he pulls out and goes back to eating my ass and cums into his hand. I don't know, I guess I was hoping for somebody a bit more articulate to pipe in.

 

[BiTodd]

Maybe the reason he does it, is that he believes it is the way to turn you the most. I know from experience that some women cum hard from a good pussy eating and rimming combined. If he thinks that it realy is the way to get your motor running then he is trying to pllease you to please himself. (Selfish bastard ha ha.)
I betcha, he was with someone else previously that let him know that was their fav thing. Your probably gonna have to tell him that it only makes sense to you to go further on occasion. Don't just ask him why he doesn't do it. Tell bim it would really turn you on if he did it. Be assertive( ass being the main part of the word). Let me know how this progress i get hot just considering it.

 

[mrtomthumb]

maybe what is between your naughtycakes is a delicious butthole...

just a thought.

also fucking an ass especially for the first time can be ...work.

maybe if you fingered your ass for him while he watched he wouldnt be able to help himself.

 

[Cumthroat]

Fuck what you eat.

I'm wondering, why eat it if you're not going to fuck it? I always thought guys licked out your butthole to pave the way for their cocks, but I guess that's not always the case.

I've been seeing this guy for quite a while - it's a casual thing, we're lovers, not in an exclusive relationship - and his biggest turn on is eating me out, both pussy and ass, especially ass. But after months and months of this, he hasn't even stuck a finger in there.

I'm not adverse to anal sex, though I don't have a lot of experience with it. It's a huge turn-on in theory, but I'm only interested in having my poop shute filled by somebody who really wants to do it and has skillz.

So, input, please!

I guess this thread isn't for me then because I will fuck what I eat and eat what I fuck. I would love to tongue you in your ass and then run my rod up your ass and fuck the daylight out of you until I explode my load inside of you. Then get down on knees behind you and suck and lick your ass very passionately until I consume every drop of cum. The smell of ass and ass-scented tasting cum is wonderful.

 

[pcarp]

I love licking tits, pussy and ass. I have sucked on her toes a time or two also (her favorite was right after I shot my cum all over them, but I digress) and I'll finger any hole she has, but when it comes to penetration, I love to feel her hot wet pussy. Every once in a while she will ask me to fuck her ass and I will, but if the choice is up to me ......

 

[naughtycakes]

maybe what is between your naughtycakes is a delicious butthole...

just a thought.

also fucking an ass especially for the first time can be ...work.

maybe if you fingered your ass for him while he watched he wouldnt be able to help himself.

This.

And that's the thing, unless a guy really wants it and doesn't see it as work, or is willing to take the time and effort, why do it?

Also, I tried that, kinda prodded my finger in there, not very far because I have long nails, and he licked around it.

I think everybody's wired in a very specific way sexually, and this reaffirms it. Asseating to him is a fetish like spanking, foot worship, latex, ropes or whatever the flavor. Why he doesn't wanna penetrate the hole he's so hot to trot to tongue, I will never really know. But it's safe to guess that it's just the wiring.

 

[mrtomthumb]

This.

And that's the thing, unless a guy really wants it and doesn't see it as work, or is willing to take the time and effort, why do it?

Also, I tried that, kinda prodded my finger in there, not very far because I have long nails, and he licked around it.

I think everybody's wired in a very specific way sexually, and this reaffirms it. Asseating to him is a fetish like spanking, foot worship, latex, ropes or whatever the flavor. Why he doesn't wanna penetrate the hole he's so hot to trot to tongue, I will never really know. But it's safe to guess that it's just the wiring.

that was just an example of what could be going on...

me and my wife enjoy anal sex giving and receiving..she loves the idea of being fucked in the ass and gets off sometimes before I get all the way inside..

and sometimes it is just uncomfortable for her and me.

a finger is almost always the happy medium.

I love feeling her asshole clamp around my finger as she orgasms.

love it!

also maybe it is a fetish for him..

he will get there I bet, with time.

good luck.

 

[partsecond]

that was just an example of what could be going on...

me and my wife enjoy anal sex giving and receiving..she loves the idea of being fucked in the ass and gets off sometimes before I get all the way inside..

and sometimes it is just uncomfortable for her and me.

a finger is almost always the happy medium.

I love feeling her asshole clamp around my finger as she orgasms.

love it!

also maybe it is a fetish for him..

he will get there I bet, with time.

good luck.

He might not know more about it. I find I love licking, fingering and fucking ass becouse I like it.

So, maybe he doesn't like it done to himself, so he doesn't know that you would like it.

Like someone mentioned above, you have to educate him. But, be nice, he is licking your hole. That is a great start.

 

[klippert]

I'm wondering, why eat it if you're not going to fuck it? I always thought guys licked out your butthole to pave the way for their cocks, but I guess that's not always the case.

I've been seeing this guy for quite a while - it's a casual thing, we're lovers, not in an exclusive relationship - and his biggest turn on is eating me out, both pussy and ass, especially ass. But after months and months of this, he hasn't even stuck a finger in there.

I'm not adverse to anal sex, though I don't have a lot of experience with it. It's a huge turn-on in theory, but I'm only interested in having my poop shute filled by somebody who really wants to do it and has skillz.

So, input, please!

I guess you need to ask him or next time tell him too finger you and see where it leads.....
He sounds a bit like me, an uncontrollable oral fetish, and topped off by rimming. On the other hand, I agree. Generally when I'm licking your ass....My intention, when my tongue finally goes numb or you ask me to stop. Is too, rub my cock-head around your back hole.....waiting for an invite for some hot anal penetration.....
I believe those skillz cum from someone who has enjoyed some form of anal stimulation themselves...They will know where and when too push and not to push....and they will understand that Zing sinsation