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symbolicflame

symbolicflame

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I do not want to ask on the board at this time, but if you are a true real submissive would you please message me for the question. Thank you.:rose:
 
I am just wanting to ask a question of one that does the life in real time one that has experiences. That lives the life and not only through the computer as it is a real life situation that I am dealing with and not one that can be easily answered.:rose:

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symbolicflame said:
I am just wanting to ask a question of one that does the life in real time one that has experiences. That lives the life and not only through the computer as it is a real life situation that I am dealing with and not one that can be easily answered.:rose:

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With such a dismissing and judgmental attitude, good luck finding anyone to overlook your posts and answer.
 
There are a lot of real time submissives here. So, what's wrong with asking the question on the thread?
 
symbolicflame said:
I am just wanting to ask a question of one that does the life in real time one that has experiences. That lives the life and not only through the computer as it is a real life situation that I am dealing with and not one that can be easily answered.:rose:

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Just cos we post about and discuss our experiences on an internet discussion forum doesn't mean we don't do it in real life honey.

You get what I'm saying, yes?
 
Harmony_1985 said:
Just cos we post about and discuss our experiences on an internet discussion forum doesn't mean we don't do it in real life honey.

You get what I'm saying, yes?
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Do not call me honey, as I am probably older than yourself and you do not know me. And do not patronize me.
 
Damn y'all this might be something this person isn't totally comfy posting for the entire world to read about ya know.

PM sent.
 
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That is why I asked for real life as in 24/7. Do you live the life 24/7?
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Yes, I do.

symbolicflame said:
Do not call me honey, as I am probably older than yourself and you do not know me. And do not patronize me.
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She's not patronizing you. I call EVERYONE honey and I don't patronize people 'cause that's cruel. It's the curse of the Midwestern/Southern Belle. We do it to everybody, no matter how old they are.

You need to take a step back away from your defensiveness and calm down.
 
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Do not call me honey, as I am probably older than yourself and you do not know me. And do not patronize me.
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a) I call everyone honey, its a natural thing. Apart from Sir, I might earn myself a beating for that one.

b) What does age matter? This is a public forum where we all should be talking to each other with a level of respect no matter your age, faith, beliefs, sexuality etc etx.

c) I wasn't patronizing you and I apologise if it came across that way, I was only wanting to make sure you understood what I was saying because I often suck at saying what I mean.

Please don't take an attitude with me. I was only trying to help what may have caused some dissention amongst the ranks.

And to the 24/7 thing, while I'm not with Sir 24/7, I'm submissive 24/7. We have contact nearly every day so *shrugs*
 
symbolicflame said:
I am just wanting to ask a question of one that does the life in real time one that has experiences. That lives the life and not only through the computer as it is a real life situation that I am dealing with and not one that can be easily answered.:rose:

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You must have a REALLY low opinion of everyone here.
 
You can be a "real-life submissive" and not do it 24/7, y'know.
 
You are correct daddylilpet, and then when I do post for a question to be answered, the claws are extended and JUDGED!
 
Harmony_1985 said:
So what's my excuse? I'm English! :p
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Don't question me! I'll spank you dammit!

symbolicflame said:
You are correct daddylilpet, and then when I do post for a question to be answered, the claws are extended and JUDGED!
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When you come across as judgmental, expect the same treatment. If you come across as respectful, you'll get the same. The Golden Rule is "Treat others as you would be treated". You came here with the implied message that YOUR Kink was "holier" or "better" than someone else's kink. Do you not see how disrespectful and mean spirited that sounds? "What I do is better than what you do, so don't bother talking to me unless you're as good as me." I mean, come on now, lady, no wonder people are up in arms. The people who live their relationships over the internet...their feelings are no less real than yours. Hell, my husband travels all over the USA for business. When he's gone, does that make ME less submissive because we have to communicate online or over the phone?! If you're going to marginalize that badly, where does it end?
 
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Damn y'all this might be something this person isn't totally comfy posting for the entire world to read about ya know.

PM sent.
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I understand completely. My point was that the way the opening post was worded might have gotten a few backs up.

symbolicflame said:
You are correct daddylilpet, and then when I do post for a question to be answered, the claws are extended and JUDGED!
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I did not judge, nor was I a bitch. I was merely trying to point out that you might get some heckling/nastiness because of the way you worded the opening post.

It seems somewhat hypocritical to speak out about people being judgemental and having the claws out when you seem to be incredibly defensive towards people who are just trying to point something out to you.
 
symbolicflame said:
You are correct daddylilpet, and then when I do post for a question to be answered, the claws are extended and JUDGED!
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You berk. Have you stopped to consider the reason people are getting narked at you is because of your attitude? All you needed to do was say "Please PM me because I'm not comfortable discussing this on the boards" or words to that effect, without the attitude, and you'd get what you were after, making the insults completely unnecessary.

After being here awhile you will know that a lot are fake.
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I've been here about two months and I've been suckered once, and quite badly that once. I've reverted to being really jaded and bitter, yes, but you can't let bad experiences turn you against everybody else because down that path lies...well, bitterness. I've only gone to it so quickly because I'm a generally horrible person.

Summary: You berk.
 
satindesire said:
She's not patronizing you. I call EVERYONE honey and I don't patronize people 'cause that's cruel. It's the curse of the Midwestern/Southern Belle. We do it to everybody, no matter how old they are.
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It's not a curse. It is a fine, fine thing that the rest of this country would do well to consider emulating.
 
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