I am married and my wife has said to me on several occasions that she thinks it would be hot to see me with another guy. So far it hasn't gone in to much explicit detail other than tossing around a few what ifs during fantasy and the occasional teasing about "hey, I bet you'd like to be with him" kind of thing.
Ever since the first time she mentioned it, the idea of it drives me wild. I would consider myself pansexual really even though I've only been with women. I can admit when a guy is good looking. I'm not really attracted to guys in the sense of my head would be turned if a gorgeous guy walked by the same way it would be if a gorgeous lady walked by. But cocks are totally beautiful. I love thinking about stroking, sucking a cock and under the right circumstances, I would even consider fucking, taking or receiving. It really only wildly turns me on in the context of my wife getting turned on by it and encouraging me. The idea of sharing a cock and having her show me how to give a blowjob, being right there and pushing my head into it makes me off the charts hot.
Here's the thing. I don't know how much of it is just fantasy talk or whether to pursue it. I'm kind of afraid to let on how much it turns me on and so far have taken the casual, yeah, I'd do it if that's what you wanted approach. But fuck if it doesn't make me hotter than almost anything we've ever fantasized about. But I don't know if she's saying she likes it because she thinks I'd like it, or if she really wants to see it, or if it's just pure fantasy and should be left in that realm.
For ladies who are attached and would like to see your guy with another guy for pure pleasure, tell me how you think I should approach this? Should I just tell her how much it turns me on and that I want to pursue it? Should I just keep putting feelers out to gauge whether it's just fantasy or she wants to make it real? Or just keep riding with the fantasy and enjoy it that way as much as possible without pushing it or making it known how much it really secretly excites me?
Ever since the first time she mentioned it, the idea of it drives me wild. I would consider myself pansexual really even though I've only been with women. I can admit when a guy is good looking. I'm not really attracted to guys in the sense of my head would be turned if a gorgeous guy walked by the same way it would be if a gorgeous lady walked by. But cocks are totally beautiful. I love thinking about stroking, sucking a cock and under the right circumstances, I would even consider fucking, taking or receiving. It really only wildly turns me on in the context of my wife getting turned on by it and encouraging me. The idea of sharing a cock and having her show me how to give a blowjob, being right there and pushing my head into it makes me off the charts hot.
Here's the thing. I don't know how much of it is just fantasy talk or whether to pursue it. I'm kind of afraid to let on how much it turns me on and so far have taken the casual, yeah, I'd do it if that's what you wanted approach. But fuck if it doesn't make me hotter than almost anything we've ever fantasized about. But I don't know if she's saying she likes it because she thinks I'd like it, or if she really wants to see it, or if it's just pure fantasy and should be left in that realm.
For ladies who are attached and would like to see your guy with another guy for pure pleasure, tell me how you think I should approach this? Should I just tell her how much it turns me on and that I want to pursue it? Should I just keep putting feelers out to gauge whether it's just fantasy or she wants to make it real? Or just keep riding with the fantasy and enjoy it that way as much as possible without pushing it or making it known how much it really secretly excites me?
