question for gay guys

sigsauerprinces

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before i ask this, let me say that i know that some straight guys like anal sex in it's various forms, but i think it's much more common in the gay world, and so it's you guys that i am coming to with my questions (if you don't mind :) )

i've been reading a lot of gay porn lately...it's just hot to me, the idea of two really cute/hot guys together. anyhooo...most of these stories involve guys having their arse fingered (and fucked too of course), and there is always a line that goes like "he wiggled his fingers a bit further, and they brushed across John's prostate, sending white hot pleasure through his body, making him gasp".

so my question is-is it really that good, having your prostate touched? i mean, from these stories, you'd get the idea it's the most amazing feeling in the world. are there any guys here who didn't find it to be that pleasureable?

also, how exactly do you like it touched? cos (i'm a girl btw), i'd like someday to have a bf who was interested in exploring anal sex... :) been reading too much gay porn i suppose, but i fantasize about using my fingers on a guy and making him gasp, touching that place inside. does it hurt if you touch it too hard-is it sensitive like that, or is it more like the harder, the better?

sorry if my questions sound naive, i just really don't know the answers...and i have a few gay male friends, but none i feel close enough to ask "so anyways, what does it feel like to have your prostate massaged?" :cool:
 
sigsauerprinces said:
before i ask this, let me say that i know that some straight guys like anal sex in it's various forms, but i think it's much more common in the gay world, and so it's you guys that i am coming to with my questions (if you don't mind :) )

i've been reading a lot of gay porn lately...it's just hot to me, the idea of two really cute/hot guys together. anyhooo...most of these stories involve guys having their arse fingered (and fucked too of course), and there is always a line that goes like "he wiggled his fingers a bit further, and they brushed across John's prostate, sending white hot pleasure through his body, making him gasp".

so my question is-is it really that good, having your prostate touched? i mean, from these stories, you'd get the idea it's the most amazing feeling in the world. are there any guys here who didn't find it to be that pleasureable?

also, how exactly do you like it touched? cos (i'm a girl btw), i'd like someday to have a bf who was interested in exploring anal sex... :) been reading too much gay porn i suppose, but i fantasize about using my fingers on a guy and making him gasp, touching that place inside. does it hurt if you touch it too hard-is it sensitive like that, or is it more like the harder, the better?

sorry if my questions sound naive, i just really don't know the answers...and i have a few gay male friends, but none i feel close enough to ask "so anyways, what does it feel like to have your prostate massaged?" :cool:
Well, it's sometimes called the man's G-Spot, although technically it might not be. Of course there are many women also enjoy anal stimulation or anal intercourse, even if they don't have a prostate, but I think this time guys have the advantage over women on this one.
There are guys who don't enjoy it and actually find it painful or irritating, so each to his own.

The prostate gland is highly sensitive and produces most of the ejaculatory fluid when orgasm occurs. And sometimes it's not necessary to have an erection or just stimulate the penis to enjoy the pleasures of anal-prostate stimulation or penetration. But now I'm sounding too medical here.

:cool:
 
yeah it does feel hot! Fingers are good but not as good as a cock at the correct angle. The thrusting is obviously more forceful, but the head of a cock is also a lot softer...


Just make sure your finger nails are trimmed (ouch) and that you use the "ball" of your finger is you know what I mean? The soft part rather than the actual tip where your nail is...its like a cross between a thrust of the finger and a carress. If he's game, 2-3 fingers can feel better because of the surface area you cover.
 
Raimondin said:
Well, it's sometimes called the man's G-Spot, although technically it might not be. Of course there are many women also enjoy anal stimulation or anal intercourse, even if they don't have a prostate, but I think this time guys have the advantage over women on this one.
There are guys who don't enjoy it and actually find it painful or irritating, so each to his own.

The prostate gland is highly sensitive and produces most of the ejaculatory fluid when orgasm occurs. And sometimes it's not necessary to have an erection or just stimulate the penis to enjoy the pleasures of anal-prostate stimulation or penetration. But now I'm sounding too medical here.

:cool:

thanks for the info...and i know women also enjoy anal, cos i'm one of them :catroar: sometimes i think i must have a prostate for how much i like anal :p ...it's just the most amazing feeling. but i digress....


Loboboy-thanks, i'll keep that in mind...now i just need to find a straight (or bi) guy who's open to it, so to speak :cool:

would still like to hear from other guys what it's like, btw. :)
 
Personally it doesn't feel like anything special to just touch it. It's not like a clitoris or something. Although I'm the only person who's touched mine, so maybe it'd be better with someone else. It doesn't actually feel good to massage it, but it makes orgasms feel better. To me, it's something that goes well with an orgasm, but an orgasm is needed. It's no good on it's own.

I like how you can ejaculate by massaging it though. But there again, I need to be on the brink of orgasm for it to work.

By the way I don't think you sound naive at all.

In fiction, I would imagine it's one of those things that's exaggerated for effect. Like cuming a gallon of cum, or everyone having a huge dick or whatnot.
 
sigsauerprinces said:
before i ask this, let me say that i know that some straight guys like anal sex in it's various forms, but i think it's much more common in the gay world, and so it's you guys that i am coming to with my questions (if you don't mind :) )

i've been reading a lot of gay porn lately...it's just hot to me, the idea of two really cute/hot guys together. anyhooo...most of these stories involve guys having their arse fingered (and fucked too of course), and there is always a line that goes like "he wiggled his fingers a bit further, and they brushed across John's prostate, sending white hot pleasure through his body, making him gasp".

so my question is-is it really that good, having your prostate touched? i mean, from these stories, you'd get the idea it's the most amazing feeling in the world. are there any guys here who didn't find it to be that pleasureable?

also, how exactly do you like it touched? cos (i'm a girl btw), i'd like someday to have a bf who was interested in exploring anal sex... :) been reading too much gay porn i suppose, but i fantasize about using my fingers on a guy and making him gasp, touching that place inside. does it hurt if you touch it too hard-is it sensitive like that, or is it more like the harder, the better?

sorry if my questions sound naive, i just really don't know the answers...and i have a few gay male friends, but none i feel close enough to ask "so anyways, what does it feel like to have your prostate massaged?" :cool:


It is my favorite type of orgasm: a prostate orgasm. Although I have never been able to get myself off this way by myself (dildo, fingers, whatever) a good top who knows how to move will get me just right. I say it is my favorite type of orgasm, because I can stay on the edge or even over the edge for quite some time. What does it feel like...it is like that wonderful feeling your dick gets just before cumming, but the feeling is coming from deeper within you. (Plus my penis doesn't get sensitive afterward, and is usually good to be touched right away :)
 
Oh, my. It can feel really good to be anally penetrated, whether by a finger or a penis. I used to be one of those guys who called themselves "rigid tops". Even back when I had a girlfriend, I was perfectly willing to butt fuck her, yet was deathly scared of anything going up my butt. My current boyfriend changed my mind on that. I've tried bottoming for him and it felt really good. I'm not saying that it's something I will do for every guy that I'm with but I love it doing it with the guy I'm with. Also, being in love with him does help, lol.
 
Samuelx said:
Oh, my. It can feel really good to be anally penetrated, whether by a finger or a penis. I used to be one of those guys who called themselves "rigid tops". Even back when I had a girlfriend, I was perfectly willing to butt fuck her, yet was deathly scared of anything going up my butt. My current boyfriend changed my mind on that. I've tried bottoming for him and it felt really good. I'm not saying that it's something I will do for every guy that I'm with but I love it doing it with the guy I'm with. Also, being in love with him does help, lol.

it just sounds like it must be so amazing-to be being fucked, having that pressure on your prostate, and at the same time the person who's fucking you has a hand around your cock, stroking. i mean it's like, double the pleasure, no?

sometimes i wish i was a guy :cool:
 
Prostrate Orgasm is very different

On occasion I have had a prostrate orgasm while being done with a strapon. The angle and pace have to be just right though.

Several times I have used a vibrator or other toy that is easier to manipulate and found that perfect spot. I have found it is also very easy to do in the shower using just a slippery finger.

The orgasms are very intense and seem to start much deeper, last longer and be more forceful. It seems like I shoot much more cum, and afterwards feel absolutley drained. I have even had an orgasm this way without being erect. It is pretty wild to be shooting like a volcano without any stimulation of my cock.

The only consideration is that you have to be ready both mentally and physically. Sometimes, it is just not the thing to do.

Overall, it is an endeavor I encourage anyone even mildly curious to try. It adds much more than just variety to hot sex.
 
sigsauerprinces said:
it just sounds like it must be so amazing-to be being fucked, having that pressure on your prostate, and at the same time the person who's fucking you has a hand around your cock, stroking. i mean it's like, double the pleasure, no?

sometimes i wish i was a guy :cool:


Yes!! thats the best way...(for me) being fucked at the correct angle (so the protate is stimulated on each stroke) is hot as hell...a hand or mouth on your cock while that's happening is perfect.
 
sigsauerprinces said:
it just sounds like it must be so amazing-to be being fucked, having that pressure on your prostate, and at the same time the person who's fucking you has a hand around your cock, stroking. i mean it's like, double the pleasure, no?

sometimes i wish i was a guy :cool:


Well, lady. One of my friends growing up was a tomboy. Recently, she became a guy. I dont see her too often but we're still pals. It really doesn't surprise me that she decided to become a man. Oh, and she ( damn, I meant he ) dates men now ! Heck, he's got a profile on MySpace.
I won't tell the name, lol.
 
LoboBoy said:
Yes!! thats the best way...(for me) being fucked at the correct angle (so the protate is stimulated on each stroke) is hot as hell...a hand or mouth on your cock while that's happening is perfect.

yeah, that sounds lovely...one day, hopefully, i'll met a couple cute bi guys who won't mind me watching that (or even joining in :) )

i write my own gay porn as well-i don't know how realistic it is, since i'm a girl, but i like writing it :cool:

Samuelx-oh i don't want to be a guy that badly :) in general i like being a girl, i always have...but i have to admit i wouldn't mind switching sexes for a few days or weeks, just to see what it's like. i could never change my sex though-if that's what someone wants to do, more power to them, but it's not me.
 
sigsauerprinces said:
yeah, that sounds lovely...one day, hopefully, i'll met a couple cute bi guys who won't mind me watching that (or even joining in :) )

i write my own gay porn as well-i don't know how realistic it is, since i'm a girl, but i like writing it :cool:

Samuelx-oh i don't want to be a guy that badly :) in general i like being a girl, i always have...but i have to admit i wouldn't mind switching sexes for a few days or weeks, just to see what it's like. i could never change my sex though-if that's what someone wants to do, more power to them, but it's not me.

lol I know what you mean. I think sometimes it'd be nice to know what female double penetration feels like! If I were a girl, I’d be ruined by now! lol
 
sigsauerprinces said:
before i ask this, let me say that i know that some straight guys like anal sex in it's various forms, but i think it's much more common in the gay world, and so it's you guys that i am coming to with my questions (if you don't mind :) )

so my question is-is it really that good, having your prostate touched? i mean, from these stories, you'd get the idea it's the most amazing feeling in the world. are there any guys here who didn't find it to be that pleasureable?

also, how exactly do you like it touched? cos (i'm a girl btw), i'd like someday to have a bf who was interested in exploring anal sex... :) been reading too much gay porn i suppose, but i fantasize about using my fingers on a guy and making him gasp, touching that place inside. does it hurt if you touch it too hard-is it sensitive like that, or is it more like the harder, the better?

sorry if my questions sound naive, i just really don't know the answers...and i have a few gay male friends, but none i feel close enough to ask "so anyways, what does it feel like to have your prostate massaged?" :cool:

I'm not a gay guy, but I have a bi husband. Anal play and protrate stimulation are definately a part of our sex lives. He describes it as having his penis stroked from the inside.

It was a little tricky to learn to do properly, because he'd really not had it done satisfactorily by the guys he dated before he met me, so he wasn't sure what to expect. Luckily, he had a male friend who gave us a lot of advice. We learned not all men react the same, We have a another gay friend who actually finds it painful to have his prostrate stimulated very much -- it's great until it's horrible, he says, and it's horribly pretty fast and sudden. So, it's very much a matter of experimentation and what makes him happy. We've spent a lot of time figuring out just how to make it pleasurable -- at first, he was very tense about it, even though it was his idea, and I was nervous about "doing it wrong". Best thing is to just relax and communicate a lot. Sometimes it's just all about the stroking, sometimes it's about pounding it, and sometimes it's just steady pressure that does the trick.

Because I lack my own home grown penis (and we've yet to find a third who is interestedin / interests both of us -- we decided it would be better to share should we wander that way) I have a lovely collection of dildos and vibrators that we incorporate into play, which has the advantage of suiting whatever mood he has. I've also read some of the more informative books on anal play/intercourse

For me, it's rather empowering to be able to please my husband this way. He worries that I don't "get anything" out of it, whereas every time we play this way I get a huge rush from just watching him. I love his ass, I love playing with it, I love making him crazy every way I can, and I REALLY enjoy how much HE enjoys it. It's a complete win-win as far as I'm concerned (and if I wear him out before I'm done, there's always the Hitachi -- he loves to watch me, too).

Yeah, there are times I feel very insecure about our sex life because I'm a woman, not a man, and I can't "give him what he wants". He's been accused of using me as a cover to live a straight life and a host of other things. But after 12 years together, he says that it isn't my genitalila he married, but me (although he really loves the boobies). We both have a fantasy of a MMF encounter one day, but until then, we've got a box of toys, a weil honed ability to talk to each other, and a lot of love.
 
LoboBoy said:
lol I know what you mean. I think sometimes it'd be nice to know what female double penetration feels like! If I were a girl, I’d be ruined by now! lol

double penetration feels really intense....you know i hadn't looked at it that way, but you're right-i guess there are things we girls can do, that you boys can't as well. although to throw it back to you, i've always wondered what it must feel like to be a guy, and fuck another guy AS you yourself are being fucked....

malachinteink-that was a lovely post :rose: it sounds like you and your husband have a great relationship. no relationship is perfect all the time, but as long as two people are open and talk to eachother, i think most things can be worked out. the last bf i had was just straight as an arrow, i definately want my next to be a bit more on the bi side...there's just something to be said for a guy who isn't afraid to explore his "girly" side :)
 
sigsauerprinces said:
although to throw it back to you, i've always wondered what it must feel like to be a guy, and fuck another guy AS you yourself are being fucked....

Weeeeell :) I have had my ass fucked while fucking a woman a couple times. It's a little wierd getting the timing right ...only one of us can pound away with abandon...one has to be a bit more restrained to stay "in". It was a pretty big turn on for all of us. Hard to say what was the horniest bit...the feel of it of the thought of it while it was happening :)

It felt ...complete, if that makes sense?
 
LoboBoy said:
Weeeeell :) I have had my ass fucked while fucking a woman a couple times. It's a little wierd getting the timing right ...only one of us can pound away with abandon...one has to be a bit more restrained to stay "in". It was a pretty big turn on for all of us. Hard to say what was the horniest bit...the feel of it of the thought of it while it was happening :)

It felt ...complete, if that makes sense?


yeah, it does make sense...and i know what you mean about the thought of it being hot-you know what they say-the most important sex organ is the mind :) that does sound hot though :catroar:
 
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