Question for bi men: Are you a top or a bottom?

[Jack_in_black]

I have an ass fetish. I love having anal sex with women and would rather have them sit on my face and smoother me with their butt then receive a blowjob. But with men it's a complete opposite. The thought of a man sitting on my face is a turn off and I don't really fantasize about fucking men's asses either.

The thing I really want is to be sodomized. I haven't had a chance to try it yet but I have played with my ass using a vibrator and it feels amazing. If I lived in a big city instead of a homophobic little town I would be down at a gay bar right now looking for a big strong man to take me home and make me his bitch.

Just wondering if any other bisexuals feel the same way.

 

[gagginforit]

Same here. Love cock. Would love to get fucked, but there's no way I'd want to go anywhere near a guy's ass.

 

[robbie_boy1]

i am a bottom. I don't see how being a bottom means you have to eat male ass perhaps i am missing something.

i too adore women and each and every single parts of their bodies. Eating male ass is nothing i crave but i did it a time or two in mixed company with the mrs present. I didn't die from it but we all need to be safe as well. Remember you are what you eat....lol

 

[Jander1]

I have never had anything bigger than my own finger in my ass though would like to try to work up to a cock!

 

[zhounder]

its funny, as I get older (45 now) I want a cock in my ass more and more. the first time I took a cock up my ass I was 17 and it was OK but I would rather suck or be sucked. Now I want to suck fuck and be fucked. My ultimate though is when I get a huge load on my face. yum!

 

[evi1monkey]

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[bi_asian_guy]

*****

 

[azsaguaro]

Definitely a bottom where sex with men is concerned. I prefer sucking a cock to having mine sucked and would much rather have one up my ass than mine up another man's ass.

On the other hand, when it's sex with a woman, I'm all for my cock in her ass. Or my tongue during foreplay. Or my fingers while I'm fucking her pussy.

And sure, she can fuck my ass with a strap-on, but it's not nearly as enjoyable as a real cock.

 

[ilike2try]

Put me in the bottom column

I've taken a guy in my ass a couple of times... three actually. The third time was the charm, and he said I was a natural. I've not really had any desire to fuck a guy... except, of course, in his mouth.

 

[Prime]

Well, I am totally bi, if i'm fucking someone, i'd rather it be a girl, so when i'm with a guy, i'd really rather be the one getting fucked.

although, i have been a top for a guy before, and it was fun, i'd just rather do that with a girl

 

[BDSM_Slave]

Bi sexual

I love being a top. I mean totally making the other guy your bitch and seeing him get hard from pounding him in the ass...total turn on.

 

[boi6969]

I'm bi and when it's male-female I can be either the submissive type and cater to her every desire or I can be the strong take charge "let her service me" type. It's how ever it plays out. As for man-on-man, that's totally different. There's no way i could ever be anything but an absolutely submissive little slutty bottom, to be used as my lover or lovers desire. The thought of ever being a top is something I could never bring myself to even think of.

 

[Hitchiker69]

Both ways

I will never eat a guys ass, but I've enjoyed having mine eaten.
I go either way when it comes to ass fucking, it all depends on the guy, the mood, how assertive he is, etc. I started off as a top, and considered myself a straight who occaisionaly fucked gay guys. Then I got more comfortable being naked in bed with guys, so I 'experimented' ...fondling, sucking, and eventually letting a guy fuck my ass.
It's hot, having a hunk on top of me, with a big hard cock reaming my ass.
My dream date would be to both of us share; we switch off...both taking turns at being fucker/fuckee.

 

[reg_roch]

I once had a guy tell me that he could give me an orgasm by fucking me in the ass. Since then I've had a major thing for hung guys because I keep imagining them fucking the cum out of me... the whole ass eating thing I could never do, but I think I would fuck a hot cd/tv/ts no problem.

Of course... if some guy mashed his face against my ass and jammed his tongue up there while stroking me... I'd probrably shoot a load on contact.

 

[evi1monkey]

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[bi_asian_guy]

*****

 

[Bicuriousone]

Do It All

I really love licking and deep probeing my wifes ass. Also anal sex is a real turn-on for me. As for doing it with a guy I think that I could really get into it. Be it oral or slipping my dick into it. I would love to experience all of the factors in bisexual sex. Giving and recieving both oral and anal.

 

[none2_none2]

I think all this goes to show that sexuality runs the full spectrum of desires. I may be gay, but I just don't crave cock. They are great to watch cum, cum smells good, and pre-cum tastes good. However, I have no desire to have a cock in me (hand, ass). Likewise, I can jack a guy for a while, but if he doesn't get off pretty soon, my hand tires stroking him.

Now on the other hand a nice ass drives me crazy. Nice to me is one that is clean, not flabby and not boney. Likewise, I prefer hairy, but smooth is ok if the guy is muscular/handsome. There is also something wonderful about tan lines, but that is just a plus. Having a lilly white ass surrounded by tan lines always made me think that the guy was giving me his virginity as it implies modesty to me.

Anyway, luckily my man is just perfect for me. He doesn't mind that I'm not cock-centric, and that instead I crave ass. He is very manly, muscular and he a really beefy, hairy ass that is JUST FOR ME!!! I couldn't comprehend anthing in this world being more satisfying than being with my guy. Sometimes I wish I could get off when he goes down on me, but lollipop sex doesn't have the edge that anal does. Oral is just foreplay. As for rimming, as long as he is clean, I don't mind it. There is nothing like getting your man in the mood to get fucked by rimming first. Plus I have found that saliva is actually one of the most natural lubes.

 

[springerx0]

Married male here and I only bottom and am on sub side with men

 

[springerx0]

47 yo mm I only bottom with men. I like not having to take control as the bottom . I was always dom with women, I find being a sub bottom to be a turn on. Had some of the best sex in my life with a good top.

 

[dikhntr]

I am a bottom with a well hung man and yes I will eat his ass too.

 

[south_florida_bicur]

bottom

even though I am still bi curious I consider myself a bottom.

I love the feel of a toy in my butt and can't wait to feel the real thing.

The weird thing is I have fucked women in their arse but I don't want to fuck a guy in his arse. That make any sense?

 

[Bill3250]

I'm a bottom. Face down with my ass raised to be fucked. On my back for a sixty-nine: Having a woman rub her pussy against my mouth or having a man fuck his cock into my mouth, my throat. Or best of all, being very anal, I'd rim either one

 

[jvillcouple]

I'll go either way. With my little experience, we've generally taken turns fucking. I think the kinky fun is being on the bottom and getting fucked. Here again, I don't have that much experience, but I think it takes practice to be a good top.

As far as ass licking. . . as long as we take a shower together before. . .it's great!!!

 

[none2_none2]

...Here again, I don't have that much experience, but I think it takes practice to be a good top...

Guys tend to have this idea that a guy knows how to please another guy. That is not necessarily the truth. Whether anal, oral, getting or giving, the more you are interested helps probably more than experience or even having the same equipment. For both the top and the bottom, that interest shows itself best by adapting to what the other person wants/needs. That is about as simple as I can explain it from my years of craving and enjoying other guy's asses.