Question/Curiosity...

[mssweetangelina]

As I was browsing the personals and reading ads looking for D/s connections, I wondered...

Are there men who truly consider themselves a switch? You can enjoy both ends of the spectrum, the pleasure of guiding a willing sub AND the freedom of release when you need to let a dominant female take the driver's seat?

And I'm speaking of more than a one-off situation. I'm referring to maintaining both sides in balance.

Would love to hear your thoughts and discuss via PM. Please enlighten me

 

[mssweetangelina]

A sincere thank you to those who have taken the time to indulge me with their perspectives on this topic.

It is definitely a sensual one, that speaks to more than the act of name calling.

My box is always open

 

[Smoothshavendad]

A sincere thank you to those who have taken the time to indulge me with their perspectives on this topic.

It is definitely a sensual one, that speaks to more than the act of name calling.

My box is always open

I find this post very interesting and alluring...u

 

[mssweetangelina]

Thank you smoothshavendad

 

[Youwillobey41]

Great topic

So I’m new and saw this and wanted to answer cause I more recently in last couple years I feel have fallen into this category. I’m 41 MWM and my whole life I’ve been on the dom side unfortunately I’ve only had a couple partners who let me take things even remotely close to what I really wanted but my point is inside that’s what I wanted wether I had freedom to always act on it or not but in last couple years I’ve really had a mid life crisis sexual awakening kind of and really just out of nowhere started to fantasize and picture myself on the other end of the spectrum and found myself craving someone to tie me up and plug me and face sit and degrade the shit out of me and since I’ve opened that Pandora’s box there’s been no turning back in my mind. Unfortunately my wife isn’t anywhere on the spectrum lol. So I’m pretty much forced to repress it all in life. Hence why I’m new here I’m hoping to find a partner to cyber explore this with thru messages/stories and take turns switching roles. I was close to having this all set up in reality with a past lover but it fell thru due to her husband finding our messages n pics n all and she had to back off. But to answer the question it’s not 50/50 for me I still like being in control and having a sub more but it’s like 60/40 now probly and when I’m in either mode it’s full on one way or other and I can enjoy both just as much as other.