Question - Am I too Old!!

[FlyisOpen]

Seriously, find myself at 60 to be still interested in and very capable of great sex. Doubt if my libido will ever fail. Problem, most women my age seem to be interested in more subtle relationships and younger woman seem to want younger men (makes sense to me) Me, I'm seeking a good sex partner who loves to be made to moan. Do you guys think I am wasting my time trying to find a f*** buddy?

 

[owlnest]

In

Unfortunately in support of your story, I was at a hay ride on Saturday... a nice looking lady was sitting next to me. So I thought I'd bring up some conversation with her...

But she seemed more interested in the 20 year old sitting next to her than me.

Never too old but certainly as one grows older the variables change... good luck finding that one woman that can take it all night!

 

[Missingmeds]

Seriously, find myself at 60 to be still interested in and very capable of great sex. Doubt if my libido will ever fail. Problem, most women my age seem to be interested in more subtle relationships and younger woman seem to want younger men (makes sense to me) Me, I'm seeking a good sex partner who loves to be made to moan. Do you guys think I am wasting my time trying to find a f*** buddy?

You are never to old for what you want...just have to spend a little time finding the right person to do it with...

 

[His_pita]

Your never too old. My man is your age and he will be getting what he wants and more. Just hang in there and be honest about what you want.

 

[FlyisOpen]

Hey, thanks for the encouragment. Looking in NJ and trying to find an interested, still turned on lady.

 

[Jaded1]

Seriously, find myself at 60 to be still interested in and very capable of great sex. Doubt if my libido will ever fail. Problem, most women my age seem to be interested in more subtle relationships and younger woman seem to want younger men (makes sense to me) Me, I'm seeking a good sex partner who loves to be made to moan. Do you guys think I am wasting my time trying to find a f*** buddy?

Hi, Flyisopen!

Well bud not being one to blow smoke up another person ass you have a much better chance of hitting powerball. I am a 61 yr old male and in better shape than many 30 yrs old. You will be everyone's best friend and a father figure to many. The thing you need to ask yourself do you really want to be a father figure or get laid. That's the truth cause Jaded1 said so!

There are many that talk the talk! But, don't walk the walk!

 

[Missingmeds]

There are many that talk the talk! But, don't walk the walk!

And that is the truth if I ever heard or seen it, spoken or typed.

 

[Guttergoddess]

I for one go for older guys....60's only 29 years older than me...not too old...assuming you can keep up with me...

 

[SamanthaSub]

Who said you were old?! 60 is not old! I love men older than me... always have. And Im not talking 2 or 3 years older, I mean 25-30 or more years old It's quite sexy if you ask me

 

[Jaded1]

And that is the truth if I ever heard or seen it, spoken or typed.

I've gotten burned to many time here on Literotica and long distance relationship don't work.

I've developed a new philosophy! If you don't hook up with in a two week period of time it ain't gonna happen! Your getting the ol'e smoke blown up your ass treatment. All your doing is stroking someone's ego. Sorry but I'm a busy man and hate having my time wasted. If you're neverous or freightened you really shouldn't be responding to those looking for r/l situations.

Sorry if I may sound a bit pissed but just came out of one those relationships and I can assure you it will NEVER NEVER happen again... No and I'm not looking for sympathy. I'm not in a nice guy mood and a lot wiser!

 

[Missingmeds]

I've gotten burned to many time here on Literotica and long distance relationship don't work.

I've developed a new philosophy! If you don't hook up with in a two week period of time it ain't gonna happen! Your getting the ol'e smoke blown up your ass treatment. All your doing is stroking someone's ego. Sorry but I'm a busy man and hate having my time wasted. If you're neverous or freightened you really shouldn't be responding to those looking for r/l situations.

Sorry if I may sound a bit pissed but just came out of one those relationships and I can assure you it will NEVER NEVER happen again... No and I'm not looking for sympathy. I'm not in a nice guy mood and a lot wiser!

It's okay Jaded, I totally understand. Maybe better than you know I totally understand. But I don't really think that it has anything to do with age, I tend to think that it has more with expectations and reality.

In other words, some of us are more real and expect more than just an ego stroking. We want the real thing and some people just don't want that.

 

[JGH]

Well said (typed) Jaded. You've certainly spoken for the "old" Southern Boy. I seem to find only the one's who want fatherly advice or a "safe" person to be with. Also, there seems to be an abundance of women who, as you pointed out, only need their ego stroked....

 

[Mikey56]

Boy does this strike home. I am 56 and going through the same thng. Everyone I meet wants a daddy or someone to pay for the dirnks. I would love to find a hot 50ish in Southen Calif. Seems like they are all looking for the ones in thier 30ies.

 

[fluffer12c]

Don't give up hope ....

I don't want to build up false expectations at all but gentlemen, you need to know that sometimes it does happen and things do work out.

Jaded, I speak from personal experience that the types of relationships you say don't work, can and do. That being said and knowing you don't want pity, I just want to say that I hope things do work out for you in the future with someone who is that much more in tune with you. *hugs

Flyisopen - For me, just chatting with men, I have found that those under 36 or so just don't flip my twinkie, whereas the older gentlemen just know how to communicate better and more intelligently with their life experience as their guide. So, again, I say continue your quest Don Quixote

JGH - I admit it. I LOVE to have my ego stroked. Being a "bored housewife" who feels unappreciated, unsexy, stuck in a role at times -- the gentlemen from this site who take the time to PM me and tell me that something I've posted has turned them on gives me a great feeling. It puts a smile on my face and a tingle in my pussy and helps me get on with the laundry with a lighter heart. Forgive me if that is somehow wrong.

Mikey56 - don't let yourself be taken advantage. There are plenty of gold digging girls around but the women I've chatted with on Lit seem to be pretty straight forward.

MissingMeds - I agree with you and Jaded that there are some people who want to meet in real life and others who prefer to be here and just enjoy the fantasy. Factors vary for each person depending on their current relationship, type of job they hold - if they are held up to public scrutiny, lifestyles that may be portrayed differently here and at home. That's another reason I don't agree with Jaded's 2 week rule, it's a matter of conversing with someone over time that develops trust and in some cases the desire to meet in real life.

Wishing you all the best of luck in your pursuits and kisses to flyisopen for starting this thread

 

[anondaddy]

My lil girl

I was leaving a two year nightmare that I thought would never end. A divorce, court proceedings and fighting to see my kids. I went crazy did some things I should not have done, but not what they said.


Then fter a reprieve off in my father's home country, I decided it was time to see my father's home town. I went with little in hand and nothing in mind other than to know it. Sometimes wondering how I would leave there for lack of work, lack of money.

After a days long bus rides I arrived sick and vomiting. The curves and hills were tremendous. I found a room to rent in the strange town, and rented it.


I asked around and began introducing myself to some old timers in town. Many looked at me as if they had seen a ghost. My father left here 50 years ago and never came back . There were no telephones here then. Eventually i met a lot of family in this small town, but I met one very special family member, and I have taken her in as my baby girl.

It was one of my cousins that first introduced me to her claiming she was too young for me as I was then 42 and he said that she was then 22. Well she really turned out to be 27.

She is my every dream, young thin, petite A cup. All of the things I have dreamed of in a woman and sometimes felt to perverted to admid. The truth is her body reminds me a lot of a developing young girl and I like it. I also like what it has made us into. She calls me daddy, and did so from the start. I call he my baby girl, cause she was so young innocent, and a virgin.

I protect her, clothe her feed her, keep her warm at night. But I also enjoy telling he that she must wear a short skirt sometimes, and I take off her panties and make her spend the whole day that way. I think she loves it too , but retains enough of her innocence after a year of marriage now, that it is hard for her to express.

My little girl accepted me as daddy naturally, and although I did not like her calling me daddy at first, I do like that it does feed my sexual fantasies, and makes me feel as if I am doing something taboo, and therefore more exciting.

From time to time I go out in this local tourist town with my little girl. I make her wear a semi transparent short skirt, and I creatively find ways to make her show off her body to unsuspecting men. She does not always know it is happening, but the men sure look, and sometimes the women. Most people assume she is my daughter not only for the age differnece , but for size too. She could easily pass as an underage girl

So the next time you go to a far off country on vacation and you see an older man with what may look like an underage girl, dont think the worst. KNOW the worst. You just may get a surprise peek at something that you like, like a sweet little A cup or a good long view of a bearded clam.

Also know that that little girl will give herself willingly to daddy tonight and every night.

It would be wonderful if this kind of realtionship were more accepted. I certainly works better than any I have had and will probably last a lot longer.

 

[anondaddy]

BTW, for those looking for women that would truly love an older man, if you dont mind foreign women, shoot me an email. I know where there is a whole region of abandonded single women. Brush up on your spanish because these are hot mexicanas. all the men in the region leave for the USA or the larger cities, they leave only false promises that they will return to the women.

datavoz/at/softhome·net

 

[welshbastard]

Mexican Man

I hev laft mani falsa hopes wid dee womans back hom..

F' dos batches wid da moustaches!

Viva' la America womans...dey lika de cork!!!!

 

[Inna]

Seriously, find myself at 60 to be still interested in and very capable of great sex. Doubt if my libido will ever fail. Problem, most women my age seem to be interested in more subtle relationships and younger woman seem to want younger men (makes sense to me) Me, I'm seeking a good sex partner who loves to be made to moan. Do you guys think I am wasting my time trying to find a f*** buddy?

You are only too old if you begin to think you are too old. Sexuality is a state of mind. Many men are very sexy way passed 60 yrs. Personally, I would prefer someone 20 yrs older than 20 yrs younger.

 

[JGH]

Fluffer...nothing wrong with that at all......thanks for responding.

 

[FlyisOpen]

Never expected so many replies to my query. I may be 60 but I'm at the gym working iron every morning at 6:00 am and doing long distance bike rides on weekends so stamina and strength are not a problem. Finding a woman who wants only an experienced lover seems to be the difficult component of this search. Well, let the search continue.

 

[Missingmeds]

MissingMeds - I agree with you and Jaded that there are some people who want to meet in real life and others who prefer to be here and just enjoy the fantasy. Factors vary for each person depending on their current relationship, type of job they hold - if they are held up to public scrutiny, lifestyles that may be portrayed differently here and at home. That's another reason I don't agree with Jaded's 2 week rule, it's a matter of conversing with someone over time that develops trust and in some cases the desire to meet in real life.

Wishing you all the best of luck in your pursuits and kisses to flyisopen for starting this thread

I quoted this part of your post for two reasons. The first being, that while I agree with you about the factors varying for each person, I also know that there are alot of people on Lit that will lead someone else on just for the their own pleasure.

The second is that while you are right that on occasion, the very relationships that Jaded is talking about do work, most of the time I have seen them not.

For me, I don't travel so it is either someone that is close by or not at all. I make that plain as well as the fact that I don't do cyber or phone. It is real or not at all. Yes, this limits my choices to a certain degree but at the same time I feel that complete honesty is the best way for me to go.

 

[jackfrost2112]

I’m willing to bet over the years you’ve had to have developed a finely crafted game. You most likely know more about girls than guys my age (24), plus you seem at least somewhat internet proficient, which can me a major asset to you.

No matter what you’re looking for in a relationship, you’ll never find it right away. Keep at it and you’ll find some hot little fuck bunny to call your own. Just remember man, everyone likes to fuck. Doesn’t matter what they tell you.

And as long as you take care of yourself and you lean more towards Paul Newman than Adam West, you should be all good.

 

[dixie50]

You're not...

wasting your time. Good luck!

 

[Jaded1]

Never expected so many replies to my query. I may be 60 but I'm at the gym working iron every morning at 6:00 am and doing long distance bike rides on weekends so stamina and strength are not a problem. Finding a woman who wants only an experienced lover seems to be the difficult component of this search. Well, let the search continue.

Well, FlyisOpen...

Perhaps you didn't realize that your not the only male experiencing this same question. Seems like you recieved a lot of feed back. Now you have to make a decision based on this information.

Bellow you will find a link in blue in my signature section to a thread I have started for us guys. This is NOT my thread I simply started it for us guys. You may want to drop in and say Hi...

 

[fluffer12c]

I quoted this part of your post for two reasons. The first being, that while I agree with you about the factors varying for each person, I also know that there are alot of people on Lit that will lead someone else on just for the their own pleasure.

The second is that while you are right that on occasion, the very relationships that Jaded is talking about do work, most of the time I have seen them not.

For me, I don't travel so it is either someone that is close by or not at all. I make that plain as well as the fact that I don't do cyber or phone. It is real or not at all. Yes, this limits my choices to a certain degree but at the same time I feel that complete honesty is the best way for me to go.

I totally agree with you MM that complete honesty is the way to go. Even if someone is "only" looking for a fuck buddy - why set yourself up to fail and have people be disappointed when what you show up to fuck isn't what they represented themselves to be at all!

Better to be happy in your own skin, continue to seek out those that you find attractive and be open to the possibility that the ideal lover for you is out there and trying to find you too.

Perhaps I'm too much of a romantic and not enough of a realist but I have gratefully not met too many of the people who lead others on for their own motives.