neonflux
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Queer woman? Switch? Live in/near San Francisco? Lets play, fuck and fly together!
Switch, bi-queer grrl with femme lesbian energy. I bring silliness, curiousity, exhuberance, honesty, kindness and consideration to my play and to my relationships. 50 yo, look, act and (un)dress much younger. Live in San Francisco.
I crave emotional, intellectual and spiritual intensity, all of which I have found in BDSM. As a Top, I am developing technical skills while finding myself to be both intuitive and demanding, capable of gentlly guiding a sub to challenge her limits. As a bottom, I have an extremely high tolerance for pain and am interested in pushing my boundaries in this regard.
Along with sex, which I think is one of the Goddess' great gifts, I love hiking, film/theatre, arts and music of all kinds, literature, fine dining. Am a spiritually minded Unitarian and also active in social justice / political issues.
I have a primary male partner who is vanilla, knows about and accepts me and a bi-male friend and BDSM play partner who, like me, is switch. Neither will be a part of our relationship.
My Ideal Person:
Fairly new to formal BDSM, I seek a queer woman lover who is switch, also fairly new to BDSM and would be interested in discovering our desires together. My hope is to find that "special someone" with whom I can establish a committed but non-exclusive long-term relationship.
Femme or stylish butch, lesbian or bi, pre-op (genitals) trans men and post-op trans women are all welcome. Race/ethnicity doesn't matter, but honesty and a distaste for game playing do (except in bed, of course, LOL). I enjoy a wide range of body types but like fitness in my partners. Am generally not attracted to women who are either extremely slim or heavy, although I was driven crazy by a former lover who was large, solid and beautifully proportioned. Prefer women between the ages of 40 - 55 but am open.
Please be well educated, well-read, considerate and warm, emotionally balanced, experimental and willing to challenge limits. I have a special affinity for artists, musicians and other creative types, as well as women involved in social justice and/or community organizing work.
NEXT STEP: Let's trade photos, start emailing through Lit, and if we seem to be a fit, have a meeting...
Switch, bi-queer grrl with femme lesbian energy. I bring silliness, curiousity, exhuberance, honesty, kindness and consideration to my play and to my relationships. 50 yo, look, act and (un)dress much younger. Live in San Francisco.
I crave emotional, intellectual and spiritual intensity, all of which I have found in BDSM. As a Top, I am developing technical skills while finding myself to be both intuitive and demanding, capable of gentlly guiding a sub to challenge her limits. As a bottom, I have an extremely high tolerance for pain and am interested in pushing my boundaries in this regard.
Along with sex, which I think is one of the Goddess' great gifts, I love hiking, film/theatre, arts and music of all kinds, literature, fine dining. Am a spiritually minded Unitarian and also active in social justice / political issues.
I have a primary male partner who is vanilla, knows about and accepts me and a bi-male friend and BDSM play partner who, like me, is switch. Neither will be a part of our relationship.
My Ideal Person:
Fairly new to formal BDSM, I seek a queer woman lover who is switch, also fairly new to BDSM and would be interested in discovering our desires together. My hope is to find that "special someone" with whom I can establish a committed but non-exclusive long-term relationship.
Femme or stylish butch, lesbian or bi, pre-op (genitals) trans men and post-op trans women are all welcome. Race/ethnicity doesn't matter, but honesty and a distaste for game playing do (except in bed, of course, LOL). I enjoy a wide range of body types but like fitness in my partners. Am generally not attracted to women who are either extremely slim or heavy, although I was driven crazy by a former lover who was large, solid and beautifully proportioned. Prefer women between the ages of 40 - 55 but am open.
Please be well educated, well-read, considerate and warm, emotionally balanced, experimental and willing to challenge limits. I have a special affinity for artists, musicians and other creative types, as well as women involved in social justice and/or community organizing work.
NEXT STEP: Let's trade photos, start emailing through Lit, and if we seem to be a fit, have a meeting...
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