In the past i've used a rampant rabbit elite, which has a girth of 3.75 inches, but i treated myself to a rampant rabbit thruster which is 5 inches round. i have lube but am starting to get quite stressed with my little self as it doesnt seem to go 'in' whereas my previous vibe and my (slim) boyf dont have a problem... any help? im starting to think i have wasted my money!!
Q about vibrators.
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LindaL
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Well, bigger isn't always better. I toyed with larger and larger dildos (pun intended) for a time, until I realized that the larger ones were not all that fun, no matter how wet I was nor how much lube I used. Now I've got my reliable wand with a gspot stimulator, and a dildo that's about 3 and a half inches around (maybe a bit more) and that's just dandy.
So chalk it up to experience and move on to other pleasures, is my advice.
So chalk it up to experience and move on to other pleasures, is my advice.
SweetErika
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The vagina is very elastic; a baby is a hell of a lot bigger than 5" around, so you shouldn't have a big problem with this toy once you've figured out a routine that works for you.
Try using lots and lots of lube after you've played with your other toy/fingers (or maybe have sex, then use the small toy, then 3 fingers), and go very slowly. Orgasms always help relax me immensely, so you might try coming at least once before attempting penetration with the bigger toy. Make sure you're relaxed, breathing well, fantasizing (or reading a great story - whatever works for you) and don't have any time pressure.
That takes care of the physical and part of the mental. The other part is not focusing on how big it is or that you could have trouble - basically, you'll need a positive attitude. If it helps, you can think of how good you might feel once you've "conquered"/learned how to use this toy, and how it'd be a waste to give up without giving it your best shot. If you don't love it after you've figured out how to insert it, at least you can reassure yourself that you tried and learned you prefer smaller toys.
Try using lots and lots of lube after you've played with your other toy/fingers (or maybe have sex, then use the small toy, then 3 fingers), and go very slowly. Orgasms always help relax me immensely, so you might try coming at least once before attempting penetration with the bigger toy. Make sure you're relaxed, breathing well, fantasizing (or reading a great story - whatever works for you) and don't have any time pressure.
That takes care of the physical and part of the mental. The other part is not focusing on how big it is or that you could have trouble - basically, you'll need a positive attitude. If it helps, you can think of how good you might feel once you've "conquered"/learned how to use this toy, and how it'd be a waste to give up without giving it your best shot. If you don't love it after you've figured out how to insert it, at least you can reassure yourself that you tried and learned you prefer smaller toys.
