Q 4 bi-curious or bi men OR women
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spawnofdavey
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Never told someone of same sex, but told a couple of women and they found it a turn on talking about it.
Several years ago a friend told me in front of my girlfriend at a bar he was bi. It kinda turned me on because i was bicurious at the time. I took my girlfriend to her house that night where we had sex twice. I got up the next morning and left went over to the guys house when I knocked on the door he answered it but he had picked up another guy at the bar .we had 3 man sex all day. both of them shoot a load in my ass.not bad for the first time.
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what a great surprise !!!
that sounds incredible.
that sounds incredible.
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So are you guys telling random strangers looking for a hookup, opposite sexed lovers or someone whom you hope will act on it with you? When I first started telling people with the hopes of two person orgasms, I very carefully considered my options and acted accordingly.
Maybe it's because I'm a girl and we tend not to do the random hookup thing as much as guys (but there are exceptions, of course) I never told the random stranger. I told my boyfriends (all two of them!) that I was interested in girls in the early stages of the relationship, before one became intimate. (The other one never did become intimate.) But again, I wasn't hoping that they'd be a part of it, or trying to spice things up. I was being honest and fair. When I was ready to act on my desires, I looked around at my gay and bi friends, found a few people who seemed interested and interesting, and talked to them about it.
First person passed because she doesn't like being with "seekers"; women who are straight or bi but not sure and are trying to figure things out. I can understand that. I'm not sure I'd want to be someone's experimental lover either. Truth be told, most of my non-straight friends knew I was bi before I did. But I wasn't trying to be heartless or mean. She was interested if I was looking for a relationship, but I wasn't at the time. Just friends with bennies.
Person number two was interested, but we got into the identity question. He is a transgendered man and considers himself straight. So dating a bi or gay woman wouldn't have worked for him.
Person number three was interested, but it didn't work out. We had some nice hot make out sessions but it never went any further. We're both somewhat kinked, but our kinks didn't really align well. I'm still friends with all three of them.
What finally worked was when Number Two called me and said "Hey, I have this friend I want you to meet.... I think you'd be really great together." Number Four is a fantastic Butch person. We dated for a while and are still friends. With bennies! Hy makes me see stars, and if I may toot my own horn (because hys isn't available right now
) the stars are mutual.
So that's how I did it. You may have to disengage the libido and think rationally for a bit but really, it's worth the effort.
Maybe it's because I'm a girl and we tend not to do the random hookup thing as much as guys (but there are exceptions, of course) I never told the random stranger. I told my boyfriends (all two of them!) that I was interested in girls in the early stages of the relationship, before one became intimate. (The other one never did become intimate.) But again, I wasn't hoping that they'd be a part of it, or trying to spice things up. I was being honest and fair. When I was ready to act on my desires, I looked around at my gay and bi friends, found a few people who seemed interested and interesting, and talked to them about it.
First person passed because she doesn't like being with "seekers"; women who are straight or bi but not sure and are trying to figure things out. I can understand that. I'm not sure I'd want to be someone's experimental lover either. Truth be told, most of my non-straight friends knew I was bi before I did. But I wasn't trying to be heartless or mean. She was interested if I was looking for a relationship, but I wasn't at the time. Just friends with bennies.
Person number two was interested, but we got into the identity question. He is a transgendered man and considers himself straight. So dating a bi or gay woman wouldn't have worked for him.
Person number three was interested, but it didn't work out. We had some nice hot make out sessions but it never went any further. We're both somewhat kinked, but our kinks didn't really align well. I'm still friends with all three of them.
What finally worked was when Number Two called me and said "Hey, I have this friend I want you to meet.... I think you'd be really great together." Number Four is a fantastic Butch person. We dated for a while and are still friends. With bennies! Hy makes me see stars, and if I may toot my own horn (because hys isn't available right now
) the stars are mutual. So that's how I did it. You may have to disengage the libido and think rationally for a bit but really, it's worth the effort.
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I never told, but i did it sometimes. One time I played with my cousin butt and one time I touched his hard cock through his cloths....unfortunately that is all
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