Pussy question:

[sweetviolet]

Hi, I'm new. I'm not sure this is the right place to post this but the General Board looks so harsh that I didn't want to post it there. It seems a lot friendlier in here. I'm sorry if this is wrong.

I'm slim, pretty and only 24, I get a lot of men asking me for dates but I never accept.

The problem is my pussy.
I had a baby when I was only a teenager and since then I've felt like my pussy was too ugly.
It has stretched and no matter how many Kegals I do it never seems to get any tighter. I can comfortably slide my whole hand inside and it isn't a tight fit.
Also, the "petals" at the opening were torn quite badly. They have healed into ragged clumps.

When I look at myself in the mirror I cry and I can't imagine any man wanting to touch such an ugly pussy.

I'm not sure what I'm asking here but please reply.

Violet.

 

[ag2507]

Tight is overrated

Hi, I'm new. I'm not sure this is the right place to post this but the General Board looks so harsh that I didn't want to post it there. It seems a lot friendlier in here. I'm sorry if this is wrong.

I'm slim, pretty and only 24, I get a lot of men asking me for dates but I never accept.

The problem is my pussy.
I had a baby when I was only a teenager and since then I've felt like my pussy was too ugly.
It has stretched and no matter how many Kegals I do it never seems to get any tighter. I can comfortably slide my whole hand inside and it isn't a tight fit.
Also, the "petals" at the opening were torn quite badly. They have healed into ragged clumps.

When I look at myself in the mirror I cry and I can't imagine any man wanting to touch such an ugly pussy.

I'm not sure what I'm asking here but please reply.

Violet.

First,

Pussies come in all shapes and sizes, as do cocks! In any case I find the greatest pleasure when the woman is not too tight and really relaxed. However, i suppose you've read all the stories glorifying tight pussies - well they glorify grossly large tits too and few women have those.

I do hope you are not thinking of dating just to have sex. if he's interested in you your pussy doesn't matter, you will both enjoy any pleasure you have. if he gets funny about it he probably wasn't worth dating in the first place.

Finally, I suspect you will not be satisfied by that answer. At your age you should be having regular Gyne appointments so go make one and ask the gynocologist to check everything healed properly after the birth. If you don't want to ask a man make sure you find a woman gyne. Their reassurance will go a long way and if anything needs fixed theycan arrange it.

Remember though, if the guy's into you before you pussy then any shape or size will be good for him.
A

 

[charmed1]

First,

Pussies come in all shapes and sizes, as do cocks! In any case I find the greatest pleasure when the woman is not too tight and really relaxed. However, i suppose you've read all the stories glorifying tight pussies - well they glorify grossly large tits too and few women have those.

I do hope you are not thinking of dating just to have sex. if he's interested in you your pussy doesn't matter, you will both enjoy any pleasure you have. if he gets funny about it he probably wasn't worth dating in the first place.

Finally, I suspect you will not be satisfied by that answer. At your age you should be having regular Gyne appointments so go make one and ask the gynocologist to check everything healed properly after the birth. If you don't want to ask a man make sure you find a woman gyne. Their reassurance will go a long way and if anything needs fixed theycan arrange it.

Remember though, if the guy's into you before you pussy then any shape or size will be good for him.
A

^^^Really solid advice.

Good luck Violet and Welcome to Lit

 

[sweetviolet]

Thank you for replying. I was worried people would just laugh.

The Doctor says that it isn't a medical issue, it's a vanity issue so unless I'm left a fortune in someone's will I'll never be able to afford to have it "fixed".

I've overheard men talking about ugly pussies or ones so loose they couldn't reach the sides and I'm just so scared of being laughed at and talked about.

The only man I've ever slept with, my son's father, left me after the birth. I often wonder if this was part of the reason but I guess I'll never know.

Thank you for the welcome. I'm feeling more comfortable already.

Violet

 

[BadBombshellBabe]

i don't think that guys are turned on to us only because they fantasize that we have a beautiful koochie...there are likely many things that we have going for us long before we get naked.

and who knows...maybe looking 'different' would be an erotic benefit, especially to the right guy.

 

[Hooper_X]

When I look at myself in the mirror I cry and I can't imagine any man wanting to touch such an ugly pussy.

I'm not sure what I'm asking here but please reply.

Violet.

This is something that would only occur to a woman. There is no such thing as bad pussy. If, however, this is something with which you cannot live, there is always the option of having labiaplasty and vaginoplasty.

 

[sunshine12]

heres an idea

try ice it helps tighting