Pussy Licking Techniques

[RacyWilde]

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Fellas and Felions, lets share the Fine Art of Cunnilingus.

I’ve had so many discussions (via PM admittedly) about dinning at the Y. I’ve really missed a thread where we can get real, personal and technical about the intricacies of pleasuring a women.

To tell you a secret, I have never truly been 100% satisfied by a pussy licking. Sure, there have been many times that were down right hot, but there has always been something lacking… Because of this, my pussy licking skills are a lot different to the people who have graced me. I try to include all the things that I’m missing into the experience… and I don’t think I disappoint. So, if we get together and share some of our tried and true techniques, we can inspire each other to experiment and develop a repertoire of kinky skills to make our women go wild!

Always remember: A pussy licking is not just a pussy licking!!!

So, I guess I have to be first to introduce the topic - give us grounding/direction.

The pussy hasn’t just one sensation. There are many different things to play with down there. I find that most guys just focus on the clit, the entrance and recently (it has finally become popular to add in) ass play too. But attacking the general area means a lot of individual/intimate sensations get skipped over. Each little part of the pussy can be highly sensitive. For example, I love it when my mound is bitten - hard - and when my thighs are pinched while a tongue is inside me. The stretching of the labia, both long and wide, elicits a magnitude of pleasure. Lying on my back is too passive for me, so is being tied up - I like the freedom to squirm. One time I had to maintain a pull-up in order for him to keep going - the blood and adrenaline pumping through my body mixed with desperation to hold myself up to orgasm was very rewarding.

So, have you found a technique that drives the ladies wild? Or do you have a technique you’d love to try? Have you heard about a technique on the wind? Or, what about situations, positions, other elements that enhance the pussy licking experience? Etc…

You are most welcome to share!



P.S: Just so we are clear: by now it is a given that what is someones thrill-joy is another's kill-joy.

 

[Privates1stClass]

Always remember: A pussy licking is not just a pussy licking!!!

I'd say that communication is extremely important to begin with. You've described what turns you on, but not all women react the same way. Instead of the guy having to use trial and error techniques, tell him what you like, how you like it, and where.

Then as he uses his tongue, express your pleasure with moans, sighs, and so on, to let him know he's hit the right spot(s).

Good luck!

 

[Bigspurt]

She needs to be in a comfortable position and the licker must know how to lick. Hands can supplement lips and tongue.

One of my biggest fantasies is to go to a swing party and position myself adjacent to the most appropriate piece of furniture for this activity and offer my services to any and all who wish to be pleasured.

 

[bone251]

Well, I have two things going for me that has improved my skills.
The first is that I play trombone. I improvise well and have very strong lips and tongue that have been trained to provide a delicate touch for long gigs.
The second is I have played lots of tease and orgasm denial games. When I am kept horny for long periods I become much more sensitive to the opportunities to please and have learned to listen to the pussy ask me for what she wants.
I enjoy moaning, screaming and being squirted on.
Changing the style after every orgasm she has helps. The 15th orgasm should be different from the 14th. But if something was really special 5 or 6 orgasm back then is might be good to do it again.
Also it is necessary to sit her up and let her get a drink of water when she needs it. Wait until she swallows good before making her inhale.

 

[RacyWilde]

I'd say that communication is extremely important to begin with. You've described what turns you on, but not all women react the same way. Instead of the guy having to use trial and error techniques, tell him what you like, how you like it, and where.

Then as he uses his tongue, express your pleasure with moans, sighs, and so on, to let him know he's hit the right spot(s).

Good luck!

Haha! The old 'communication' argument. Yes, we all know this. It's one of those rules you can apply to everything in society/marriage/life.

Communication is great if you are already a couple, or if you are in the habit of communicating with each other, but let's be real, not everyone has that. There are so many relationships where the sex is mundane or has dried up - it takes two to pussy lick and if one is unenthused it becomes difficult to do it, let alone strike up a conversation about it.

And not everyone is at that level of commitment in their relationship. On a hot first date walking a guy through a method takes all the fun out of fucking.

 

[RacyWilde]

She needs to be in a comfortable position and the licker must know how to lick. Hands can supplement lips and tongue.

One of my biggest fantasies is to go to a swing party and position myself adjacent to the most appropriate piece of furniture for this activity and offer my services to any and all who wish to be pleasured.

Haha! I like to argue the "comfortable position" - sometimes hanging off a cliff can add that little extra...lol.

But ooo, I like you style - scope the joint to get prime position...lol. Though, being bent over the arm of a couch, ass in the air, hair swinging to the floor is a mighty fine way to be licked out.

Well, I have two things going for me that has improved my skills.
The first is that I play trombone. I improvise well and have very strong lips and tongue that have been trained to provide a delicate touch for long gigs.
The second is I have played lots of tease and orgasm denial games. When I am kept horny for long periods I become much more sensitive to the opportunities to please and have learned to listen to the pussy ask me for what she wants.
I enjoy moaning, screaming and being squirted on.
Changing the style after every orgasm she has helps. The 15th orgasm should be different from the 14th. But if something was really special 5 or 6 orgasm back then is might be good to do it again.
Also it is necessary to sit her up and let her get a drink of water when she needs it. Wait until she swallows good before making her inhale.

I play trumpet It means I can use a blow technique...lol. But the guys who can play the didgeridoo! They can blow and suck at the same time!!!!

I know girls love to be denied...lol. I wish I was one of them. Too much teasing turns into slapping from me.

Haha! Yes, women can get parched from a pussy licking. How thoughtful of you.

One of the things that I get a sense of is that a pussy licking has turned into a major ordeal and this is possibly a problem for a lot of women. (I think that is why some women don't like it.) I know we are talking about techniques here, but that doesn't mean taking your time. Not every women can hold her attention on sex for longer than five minutes - her mind starts to wonder onto daily things. And that's not because the sex is boring, it's just that it has 'space' to do so.

 

[bone251]

I know girls love to be denied...lol. I wish I was one of them. Too much teasing turns into slapping from me.

I was referring to Me, the guy being teased and denied. Ladies should be pleased.

And when the girl turns into a rag doll from cumming so much proves no boredom.

Before I got remarried the FWB kept...........Maybe later.


Racy, Please read my new story. The girl is a trumpet player.

 

[Psychprofgal]

I have thought I was a bit different in that I don't, or won't cum this way. It is all in my head as is all enjoyment. The comment about the duration of attention/ability to focus is completely applicable. I may not get 5 minutes before 6 more mental screens open up and then it gets frustrating, for both of us. I do love the feelings and appreciate the attention and I get very aroused, but then I need to get fucked hard and fast!!!! This doesn't let him enjoy the duration as he likes to, but we find a way to accommodate each other.....I hope. Back to the question, please address all the areas, all of them.

 

[Deleted member 1655181]

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Fellas and Felions, lets share the Fine Art of Cunnilingus.

I’ve had so many discussions (via PM admittedly) about dinning at the Y. I’ve really missed a thread where we can get real, personal and technical about the intricacies of pleasuring a women.

To tell you a secret, I have never truly been 100% satisfied by a pussy licking. Sure, there have been many times that were down right hot, but there has always been something lacking… Because of this, my pussy licking skills are a lot different to the people who have graced me. I try to include all the things that I’m missing into the experience… and I don’t think I disappoint. So, if we get together and share some of our tried and true techniques, we can inspire each other to experiment and develop a repertoire of kinky skills to make our women go wild!

Always remember: A pussy licking is not just a pussy licking!!!

So, I guess I have to be first to introduce the topic - give us grounding/direction.

The pussy hasn’t just one sensation. There are many different things to play with down there. I find that most guys just focus on the clit, the entrance and recently (it has finally become popular to add in) ass play too. But attacking the general area means a lot of individual/intimate sensations get skipped over. Each little part of the pussy can be highly sensitive. For example, I love it when my mound is bitten - hard - and when my thighs are pinched while a tongue is inside me. The stretching of the labia, both long and wide, elicits a magnitude of pleasure. Lying on my back is too passive for me, so is being tied up - I like the freedom to squirm. One time I had to maintain a pull-up in order for him to keep going - the blood and adrenaline pumping through my body mixed with desperation to hold myself up to orgasm was very rewarding.

So, have you found a technique that drives the ladies wild? Or do you have a technique you’d love to try? Have you heard about a technique on the wind? Or, what about situations, positions, other elements that enhance the pussy licking experience? Etc…

You are most welcome to share!



P.S: Just so we are clear: by now it is a given that what is someones thrill-joy is another's kill-joy.

Mine likes to be on her knees with me underneath. She likes for me to start by staying on her hood, but loves direct contact on clit after warming a bit. She also likes for me to lightly stimulate her urethral opening with a finger while I lick her clit.

 

[Klinkster]

There is no 'one size fits all'....even with the same wife!
What works on Tuesday, may not be what she wants on Wednesday. I'm talking about the slow & gradual lick and then finger, to the push her up against the wall and hold her up with my face!

It's all a matter of on the job training!
You have to learn what works, and go with it! Helps a lot that my wife will tell me! Part of that communication thing.

 

[crashD]

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Fellas and Felions, lets share the Fine Art of Cunnilingus.

I’ve had so many discussions (via PM admittedly) about dinning at the Y. I’ve really missed a thread where we can get real, personal and technical about the intricacies of pleasuring a women.

To tell you a secret, I have never truly been 100% satisfied by a pussy licking. Sure, there have been many times that were down right hot, but there has always been something lacking… Because of this, my pussy licking skills are a lot different to the people who have graced me. I try to include all the things that I’m missing into the experience… and I don’t think I disappoint. So, if we get together and share some of our tried and true techniques, we can inspire each other to experiment and develop a repertoire of kinky skills to make our women go wild!

Always remember: A pussy licking is not just a pussy licking!!!

So, I guess I have to be first to introduce the topic - give us grounding/direction.

The pussy hasn’t just one sensation. There are many different things to play with down there. I find that most guys just focus on the clit, the entrance and recently (it has finally become popular to add in) ass play too. But attacking the general area means a lot of individual/intimate sensations get skipped over. Each little part of the pussy can be highly sensitive. For example, I love it when my mound is bitten - hard - and when my thighs are pinched while a tongue is inside me. The stretching of the labia, both long and wide, elicits a magnitude of pleasure. Lying on my back is too passive for me, so is being tied up - I like the freedom to squirm. One time I had to maintain a pull-up in order for him to keep going - the blood and adrenaline pumping through my body mixed with desperation to hold myself up to orgasm was very rewarding.

So, have you found a technique that drives the ladies wild? Or do you have a technique you’d love to try? Have you heard about a technique on the wind? Or, what about situations, positions, other elements that enhance the pussy licking experience? Etc…

You are most welcome to share!



P.S: Just so we are clear: by now it is a given that what is someones thrill-joy is another's kill-joy.

can i sign up for lessons??

 

[Carnevil9]

According to Sam Kinnison, the secret is "the Alphabet!"

 

[HumasWanderingWeiner]

I try to not be to analytical in the whole thing. I take my queues from her reactions, I use fingers when appropriate and I know I've done my job when she grabs my head and pulls it in and says "oh fuck, I'm going to cum" and starts twisting and bucking. My mind is a computer and taking in inputs the entire time and making adjustments the entire time. An onboard computer in an engine is the best analogy I can think of.

 

[Sweetsweatymango]

Chainsawing is a technique that ladies have found enjoyable when I perform on them. Its fast, a bit rough, and fantastic.

 

[Klinkster]

I try to not be to analytical in the whole thing. I take my queues from her reactions, I use fingers when appropriate and I know I've done my job when she grabs my head and pulls it in and says "oh fuck, I'm going to cum" and starts twisting and bucking. My mind is a computer and taking in inputs the entire time and making adjustments the entire time. An onboard computer in an engine is the best analogy I can think of.

Exactly!
And yes! Nothing like that body vibrating face humping orgasm!

 

[usse]

The art

The order in which one deploys their techniques is as important as the execution of them.

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Dollie

Licking me does not do much. I have a small clit . Rubbing with fingers or masturbating me is much more exciting. Maybe I haven't had a good teacher. I'm not too old to learn.

 

[HumasWanderingWeiner]

The order in which one deploys their techniques is as important as the execution of them.

Sienfeld claimed that finishing with a swirl was the way to go.

 

[Klinkster]

Licking me does not do much. I have a small clit . Rubbing with fingers or masturbating me is much more exciting. Maybe I haven't had a good teacher. I'm not too old to learn.

When my wife and I first got married, I wasn't the cunning linguist I am now. Important part, she helped in my education.
When I first went down on her, she asked me what the hell I was doing! Then she decided it wasn't bad, but wasn't quite working, so she reached down and spread herself open with both hands.
Sure worked for her! Me too!

Trial and error....if it's not doing it, try having him do something different. More pressure....less...a little sucking....

 

[Klinkster]

Licking me does not do much. I have a small clit . Rubbing with fingers or masturbating me is much more exciting. Maybe I haven't had a good teacher. I'm not too old to learn.

When my wife and I first got married, I wasn't the cunning linguist I am now. Important part, she helped in my education.
When I first went down on her, she asked me what the hell I was doing! Then she decided it wasn't bad, but wasn't quite working, so she reached down and spread herself open with both hands.
Sure worked for her! Me too!

Trial and error....if it's not doing it, try having him do something different. More pressure....less...a little sucking....just have to find the right trick(s)!

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Dollie

When my wife and I first got married, I wasn't the cunning linguist I am now. Important part, she helped in my education.
When I first went down on her, she asked me what the hell I was doing! Then she decided it wasn't bad, but wasn't quite working, so she reached down and spread herself open with both hands.
Sure worked for her! Me too!

Trial and error....if it's not doing it, try having him do something different. More pressure....less...a little sucking....just have to find the right trick(s)!

Thank you with this delicate problem. I'm actually too old for all of this sex but more active now than while middle aged. My husband just seems to slobber all over it. A few friends can turn me on but of the many who have tried just regular intercourse or fingers feels better.

 

[Klinkster]

Could be just a personal preference thing....it happens to be my wife's favorite activity, and that makes it one of mine!
My wife & I are in our 60's, so I'm not sure how old is too old yet!

 

[Nezhul]

Not my personal invention, but I forgot by now where I've heard that:

1) Spend some time on teasing and foreplay. don't just go down there - that's not exciting at all for most girls (and of course there are exceptional girls or situations).

2) teasing is a good thing for most. Break off that pussy for a second and trail kisses up her thigh, denying her the pleasure for just a few moments.

3) Diversity matters. Don't just do one and the same motion on the same areas. Suck, kiss, lick - not only the clit but around it, the labia, the inner thighs, the pubis even.
Use your fingers and hands, stick your tongue inside as if it's a dick.
Alternate the positions - missionary, doggie, sitting, face riding (both ways), 69 (both ways and on the side) - there's almost as much things for oral play as there is for sex.

4) A follow-up on everything previous - learn your woman. Each of them likes different things, but you need to be smart enough to offer her as much diversity as possible so she knows what works best.
Communicate. Find out what gets her going.

5) when going for the clit, treat it like a small dick. Make a tube out of your lips and suck on it, so it moves in and out slightly. Meet it with your tongue, not the teeth - this technique is quite powerful, I found.

6) when going for the pussy more in general - suck the labia on both sides, kiss it, lick each side of the pussy, then go for the middle. Burrow your entire face in it - don't be shy. It's the best place in the world your face can be anyway.
As mentioned above - everythign is important, even the parts that don't seem like they should be. The entire crotch can be licked for pleasure, and even the inner thighs are extremely sensitive.

7) change positions after a time. Or even let her suck cock / fuck her a bit, and then go for the pussy again. This will help men calm down a bit and be ready for more fucking.

8) words make a difference. A lot of women are insecure about receiving oral sex, and telling them how good they taste (and smell) and how much you enjoy that - helps a ton.
If it's a new girlfriend, before going down slowly move down to her nether regions and hiss her around it (thighs, lower belly). Tell her how that she smells divine down there and how you can't wait to taste her.
Some need that, some don't, but it's not a big deal to say.

9) don't touch it with dry things. Lick any fingers/toys before putting them anywhere near the pussy and especially the clit. It's not pleasant for most girls when your hands are dry.

10) It's an odd thing but if you got your fingers covered in her juices, ask if she wants to taste herself. If she says "no", just suck on them yourself with an expression of enjoying it.
It's a fun side-game I like. It's hot if she agrees.

11) Listen to her and watch her. If she says something - that's important. If she, say, tries to rub her clit - reach out and do it for her, or pay the clit more attention. Watch how she does it - the rhythm, the motion - and use it to do the same with fingers or tongue. If she keeps playing with her boobs/nipples - try to reach out and help her with that, if it's possible.
Everything's better when done by someone else.

There. This is what came to mind at this hour.
All in all, I think everything is so personal that you can't really put it down to rules or techniques.

 

[MrRetro]

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Fellas and Felions, lets share the Fine Art of Cunnilingus.

I’ve had so many discussions (via PM admittedly) about dinning at the Y. I’ve really missed a thread where we can get real, personal and technical about the intricacies of pleasuring a women.

To tell you a secret, I have never truly been 100% satisfied by a pussy licking. Sure, there have been many times that were down right hot, but there has always been something lacking… Because of this, my pussy licking skills are a lot different to the people who have graced me. I try to include all the things that I’m missing into the experience… and I don’t think I disappoint. So, if we get together and share some of our tried and true techniques, we can inspire each other to experiment and develop a repertoire of kinky skills to make our women go wild!

Always remember: A pussy licking is not just a pussy licking!!!

So, I guess I have to be first to introduce the topic - give us grounding/direction.

The pussy hasn’t just one sensation. There are many different things to play with down there. I find that most guys just focus on the clit, the entrance and recently (it has finally become popular to add in) ass play too. But attacking the general area means a lot of individual/intimate sensations get skipped over. Each little part of the pussy can be highly sensitive. For example, I love it when my mound is bitten - hard - and when my thighs are pinched while a tongue is inside me. The stretching of the labia, both long and wide, elicits a magnitude of pleasure. Lying on my back is too passive for me, so is being tied up - I like the freedom to squirm. One time I had to maintain a pull-up in order for him to keep going - the blood and adrenaline pumping through my body mixed with desperation to hold myself up to orgasm was very rewarding.

So, have you found a technique that drives the ladies wild? Or do you have a technique you’d love to try? Have you heard about a technique on the wind? Or, what about situations, positions, other elements that enhance the pussy licking experience? Etc…

You are most welcome to share!



P.S: Just so we are clear: by now it is a given that what is someones thrill-joy is another's kill-joy.

I find one needs to be quite observant of the woman whilst exploring her most sensitive spots.. Obviously, not all women are the same and not all want the same, indeed some don't enjoy the feeling of a moist tongue down there at all..

I have found that first and foremost, a woman needs to know just how much I enjoy having my mouth and tongue on her pussy.. I then go exploring while gazing up at her, trying my best to gauge what feels just good and what feels Óh God' amazing.. Not all women enjoy a tongue around their entrance and very few enjoy a wandering tongue on their rosebud, some like it soft and some like it firm.. A little trial and error under close scrutiny goes a long way..

I do find I tend to moan and sigh quite a lot, especially if I am really into her and enjoying myself.. This seems to make some women feel good.. I have also had some positive results from drinking a hot cup of tea whilst licking her, making my tongue extra warm..

 

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