Pussy Eating Question?

[Guest]

OK..I feel kinda stupid asking this..but i am very inexperienced with men..and i am wondering what I am supposed to do while my man is eating me out for a better comfort level for myself...How do i get to a comfort level where i dont feel weird with someone down there..or that i have to do something with myself while he is eating me out..I want to be able to just get into it and enjoy it...PLEASE HELP ME!!!

 

[red_rose]

Do shots first.



Sorry.

Umm... You could just lay back and play with your nipples. Just enjoy yourself.

 

[Unclebill]

Just relax, cooperate and enjoy it!

 

[Laurel]

You can run your fingers through his hair, close your eyes, and concentrate on the pleasure.

Then, when you're more comfortable, you can run your fingers through his hair with your eyes OPEN and enjoy the sensations AND the view.

 

[penguindance]

 

[amelia]

be encouraging....make sure to look into his eyes...

yum..

 

[koalabear]

Just don't read the paper.......

 

[QuickDuck]

be encouraging....make sure to look into his eyes...

yum..

Thats if he is looking up

 

[penguindance]

 

[Private Vasquez]

Think about baseball and sing showtunes. It's very relaxing.

 

[Starfish]

Seriously, I know what you mean. This is NOTHING to be embarassed about.

This is a good way to solve the problem... have him suck you off from hovering over you, with his lower body (hips) up by your torso, but have his legs off to one side of you. He will be eating you out upside down, but this makes for some totally awesome clit latheing.

What this does is this will give you totally clear access to his cock with your hands, so you can stroke it, and tease it, and have something to do. You'll find that his eating you will become more pleasurable to you if you have something you are getting hot over, like seeing his cock swell up at the tip as you lightly caress him. His efforts will be even more intensified by your pleasuring him too.

Trust me, you'll be swept away, cumming feircly and having a blast before you know it.... if you just have some cock in your hand to play with.

 

[Ravenloft]

Starfish, im no innocent, but DAMN your words make me smile and blush furiously. Is... Is that natural? *Giggling*

 

[Guest]

PLEASE HELP ME!!!

I tend to close my eyes and allow my psyche to float into the physical sensations he's giving me. I have the most intense orgasms that way.

Moon

 

[T.H. Oughts]

If you are enjoying it then tell him during the event. If you enjoy a certain area there and he dose not touch that place much then guide his head in that direction. Or say, "yeah baby, just a bit higher/lower or to the left or right, in the end he is there to pleasure you also.

 

[registered "^^"]

Amen.

 

[SweetNSassy]

I agree with everthing you guys are saying...You have to find what works for you....and these are great ideas to start with..

I like to lay there and think about my fantasies or talk dirty to the person...it also helps to have a pillow or covers to grab onto if you are feeling like you want to do something....Just lay there and enjoy the licking......

Sassy

 

[Mister Happy]

I could tell you, but I feel a demonstation would be more effective...

 

[SweetNSassy]

BUMP I want to hear some more responses too!

 

[pipercatt]

Well, I missed it the first time around, but Starfishies response is my favorite too. One, it gives me something to focus on , and I don't worry about if I am taking too long to cum, or any of the other myriad of things I tend to worry about. Two, he's enjoying what you are doing, and that spurs him on to do more wonderful things to you.

Mutual satisfaction is a beautiful thing.

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

Communication and encouragement is what I seek from a woman while giving her oral sex - I want to know when and if what I am doing is what she wants, and if it is then I want to know that she appreciates it by her giving me encouragement - which can be as simple as moans, whatever you do do not get frustrated when he doesn't do it quite right, give him gentle encouragement. As to technique, different woman have different needs - there are general rules, but everyone is a little different in what works for them.

As to how you can learn to relax and enjoy it - I think the women here have given some good advice, although I would add that mood is very important, so therefore slow and relaxed foreplay such as kissing, hugging and fondling can be a big factor in setting the mood - take your time and don't have him dive right in. If you can't relax, and you don't mind, a glass or two of wine can help relax your inhibitions - but not much more than that as alcohol can deaden your senses too.

Also, you don't have to have oral sex to orgasm. Sex is supposed to be about having fun - not just orgasms. Take your time, try lots of different things in different sequences. Maybe some foreplay, then oral sex, then some intercourse, then some oral sex again, then some intercourse. Take your time and don't follow a formula - some ofthe best sex I have had was just playing around like kids exploring different things - we went for 4 hours before we had orgasms, and then had some more fun before getting up and going out for some breakfast. It was all very relaxed and enjoyable.

 

[PacificBlue]

Also, you don't have to have oral sex to orgasm. Sex is supposed to be about having fun - not just orgasms. Take your time, try lots of different things in different sequences. Maybe some foreplay, then oral sex, then some intercourse, then some oral sex again, then some intercourse. Take your time and don't follow a formula - some ofthe best sex I have had was just playing around like kids exploring different things - we went for 4 hours before we had orgasms, and then had some more fun before getting up and going out for some breakfast. It was all very relaxed and enjoyable.

Wow! *attempting to breath*