Purposeful Sharing of Wife or Husband

Have you shared your spouse with another lover?

  • No I haven't, but it sounds like fun!

    Votes: 20 54.1%
  • Yes, but I wasn't there.

    Votes: 2 5.4%
  • Yes, and I was there but only watched.

    Votes: 1 2.7%
  • Yes, and I participated too!

    Votes: 11 29.7%
  • Yes, and I sucked my spouse after he or she had sex with the new lover.

    Votes: 2 5.4%
  • Yes, and we have done this many many times!

    Votes: 7 18.9%

  • Total voters
    37
  • Poll closed .

seacoastcouple

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We all have had or want to have some experience with threesomes or moresomes. Often, these are unplanned and happen while on vacation or the like. But, how many of you have actually set out to share your better half with a member of the other sex? If you did, was the event and the afterglow of the moment what you expected?
 
We have an open marriage... of sorts. I mean that we're open to a lot of different scenarios under the condition that we each know what the other is doing and full disclosure is fundamental. Having sex with other people is not a prime directive. It's just something we allow ourselves to indulge in if the moment is right. It isn't something we do very often. Most of the people we've played with have been swingers but occasionally we meet someone through friends or at work, propinquity kicks in, we develop attraction and chemistry and one or both of us will get sexually involved with them. Occasionally, it's been downright spectacular but in all honesty the reality usually doesn't match the fantasy of it. Still, though, when it's good it's great and we remain open to taking those opportunities when they come up.
 
For the sake of fairness you probably should have added the option; "No, and I wouldn't".

I'm just sayin'
 
How about playing it out as a fantasy with a few toys, but would never do it in real life.
 
seacoastcouple said:
We all have had or want to have some experience with threesomes or moresomes. ........

We have? Not me! But there's no option in the poll for those who just are not interested and never have been.
 
Rightfully so!

Thanks for pointing out our glaring omision. Sometimes, we miss the obvious.

Does anyone know how I can revise a poll that is already in place?
 
seacoastcouple said:
Thanks for pointing out our glaring omision. Sometimes, we miss the obvious.

Does anyone know how I can revise a poll that is already in place?

Why don't you click the "!" on the blue toolbar directly above the post to report the post, and ask one of the forum moderators if they can edit the poll for you. If not, perhaps you can ask if they can close the thread and let you start another poll......'Just a thought.....
 
Sex is an incredible experience. Sharing the pleasure with another partner opened us to learning new ways of satisfaction. I am the primary one to find someone to join us and it always is mutually agreed upon.
 
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