Public Cyber Sex

[hardcollege4]

Any ladies interested in having what would be a full on raunchy conversation that normally would be held in PMs over this forum for all to enjoy. I saw another thread where that happened and it was an extremely erotic read.

If you are interested or maybe have a friend that is interested please don't hesitate to send them my way.

 

[Simone808619]

Ladies, while I am not brave or exhibitionist enough to fulfill this thread, the dirty litle voyeur in
Me wants to read it. I'm sure there is a hot and willing participant!!! You would have a most attentive audience.

 

[Simone808619]

Gotta bump this thread!!! It deserves a discussion at least!! Yes I am a pussy and not an exhibitionist but I know you are out there !!! Do it for America ( ok do if for whatever country you happen to hail from)

 

[DiablosWhore]

Any ladies interested in having what would be a full on raunchy conversation that normally would be held in PMs over this forum for all to enjoy. I saw another thread where that happened and it was an extremely erotic read.

If you are interested or maybe have a friend that is interested please don't hesitate to send them my way, please do not PM for details we're gonna let it all hang out in the open.

I must be dense as hell, because I don't fully understand what this is all about? Are we suppose to post nasty, sexy, hot remarks of some kind right here on this thread .....right out here in the open where Mom and Daddy can read them? Just, like, poof, .....here it is?

 

[Blase]

Gotta bump this thread!!! It deserves a discussion at least!! Yes I am a pussy and not an exhibitionist but I know you are out there !!!

I must be dense as hell, because I don't fully understand what this is all about? Are we suppose to post nasty, sexy, hot remarks of some kind right here on this thread .....right out here in the open where Mom and Daddy can read them?

Lol, it *does* happen at times - You can find a couple examples in my Beach House thread if you're interested in seeing a fairly restrained, sensual version - but I think the OP might do well to refine his approach a little. For example, I think that asking ladies not to PM for details is a mistake. There may be some who are interested but leery of just jumping in if they haven't, so to speak, played in public before; especially when their potential partner has very little fiction posted on the board.

I don't mean to knock hardcollege4: He comes across as a good guy. But finding a partner to cyber with in public is one of those things that, once you try it, turns out to be more difficult than you might think.

My best advice to the OP or anyone else looking to partner up in public? Be female!

But failing that, make it as easy as you can for people to get to know what you're like both as a person and as a writer.

 

[hardcollege4]

Lol, it *does* happen at times - You can find a couple examples in my Beach House thread if you're interested in seeing a fairly restrained, sensual version - but I think the OP might do well to refine his approach a little. For example, I think that asking ladies not to PM for details is a mistake. There may be some who are interested but leery of just jumping in if they haven't, so to speak, played in public before; especially when their potential partner has very little fiction posted on the board.

I don't mean to knock hardcollege4: He comes across as a good guy. But finding a partner to cyber with in public is one of those things that, once you try it, turns out to be more difficult than you might think.

My best advice to the OP or anyone else looking to partner up in public? Be female!

But failing that, make it as easy as you can for people to get to know what you're like both as a person and as a writer.

Thank you for the advice, I edited the part about pming. I just didn't want to sound contradictory trying to keep things public and then asking for a PM.

If this works great! If it doesn't it doesn't but there's thousands of personal messages where guys are asking for PMs. I've tried it and the success rate is very low

 

[Blase]

If this works great! If it doesn't it doesn't but there's thousands of personal messages where guys are asking for PMs. I've tried it and the success rate is very low

And guess what? Getting women to PM you is much easier than getting them to play in public with you.

The advice I'd give to guys seeking either is essentially the same, though. It's also the same advice that one sees repeated time and again when someone posts a "Help! How do I get women to talk to me?!" thread: Post on the boards. Don't let all (or even most) of your posts be personal ads or entries in game threads; look for or start threads about subjects that interest you and then speak up when you have something relevant and interesting to add to the discussion.

I once had a conversation about this with a prominent female Lit member. One of the things she said to me, quite off-handedly, was "You haven't been on the site all that much". I did a bit of a double-take when I heard that - At the time, I had about a thousand posts! (Currently, I'm closer to two-thousand.) She was right, though: As active as these boards are, posts (and even whole threads) tend to "sink" quickly, and people here may not know you as well as you think they do.

Let me ask you something: Can you think of a few posters who are favorites of yours? You probably can, and if I asked you to pick two and tell me why they were favorites, I'll bet you'd say something like "She's fun and flirty," or "She's really smart and doesn't let people take themselves too seriously".

Actually, I'm guessing a bit, there, because I don't really know what your favorite personality traits are, but here's what I think you wouldn't say; something along the lines of "She's a favorite because she's 22, with a pretty face and a smokin' figure!" I don't think you'd say that because, if all you wanted was something to leer at, you wouldn't have started a thread like this in the first place. Your profile and what I've seen of your posts show a smart guy who wants to be engaged intellectually as well as sexually.

So, let me follow my question above with another: Did most of your favorite Lit members become favorites instantly, or would it be more accurate to say that they usually became favorites as you encountered them on the boards a few times and their individual personalities started to emerge...?