Public Apology II

[Bobtoad777]

Nicole,

I am sorry I lashed out at you please forgive me the things I said were said in a fit of anger and built up frustration of reading posts by 'shut up', 'fuck off', 'patryn' and when you finally siad something the thick shell I though I had was not enough and rumbled around me. I know that is not a good excuse but it is the best that I can offer up. I don't expect your forgiveness cause I truely do not deserve it. But I did want to offer up an apology.

Naked Hunny,

I am sorry for doing whatever I have done to you all i was trying to do was have a fun game of cat and mouse chasing each other through the threads, playfully jabbing back and forth. Some where that went astray. About my comments and the 14 year old girl I do not wish her any harm, I was merely angry after reading what she had done and the results incurred. I thought the way I had said it people would have seen that it was said in a toungue and cheek manner, but again as usual people took what I said and screwed it al around.

ps. there reason i am on so much this past week is cause my seasonal job ended and when I went for UI, they refused me on account of my education {3 years bible college}, thats what they told me. When I appealed they refused again on grounds I was being in subordanant{sp?}. Then after that I was refused a job at a gas station as a gas jockey because of my education even though i had 4 years experince pumping gas at a Shell station, wihth numerous awards for my service. But finally i got some work starting tommorrow Tuesday I now have some more work coming up so I will not be on here as often as I seem to be now.

An apology goes out to everybody who deserves one.

[Edited by bobtoad777 on 09-04-2000 at 01:01 PM]

 

[Patryn]

Oh no, bobtoad hates me because he doesn't like what I had to say. I think I'm going to crawl in a hole, never to be seen or heard from again.

Bob, just a pointer. It's the net...take it at face value. If you think you're being harrassed, take a look at what people are saying. Maybe you need to re-evaluate whatever they're talking about, in this case posting too much. Just a thought.

 

[Bobtoad777]

Don't recall anywhere in that psot saying I hated anyone. Just merely pointing out the straws that broke me.

And if people are going to get mad at the ammount of posts they should check out everybodys posting numbers. Yesterday nevers, rosebuds, killermuffins and others numbers of posts were comperable to mine own, yet no one seemed too upset by them, and they had just as many oneliner, nonsense posts as I did. That is why I felt as if being descriminating against, when friends{lit family} get applause and a stranger{me} comes along and does the exact same thing is hypocritical.

[Edited by bobtoad777 on 09-04-2000 at 12:43 PM]

 

[Rosebud]

now wait a minute...I have been on here alot longer than you have hon...look again at my join date...

 

[Bobtoad777]

See the defensive stance you took when the number of post you made were mentioned? Am I not allowed to get defensive as well when 2874 people get on my ass over the same thing? I suppose not because like everybody told me already I am not supposed to have the rights of everybody else.

 

[Guest]

If you read my post, you'll find I never insulted anyone - in fact I said I loved everyone and was sorry about what the other anon. type said.
Not that it matters.
I believe bobtoad has convinced himself that we're all after him and now he's going the guilt route. Luckily, I had an honorary Jewish mother so I'm immune to that sort of thing.

Not that it matters.

 

[Bobtoad777]

I am sorry Fudge Youse Guys I thought you were one in the same as the unregistered guest that had started the whole anti-bobtoad party. I again apologize to you.

 

[Rosebud]

no i took offense because you lashed out at me for no reason other than to take the topic of your overposting (as other people say) and trying to put it on others...Yes i post alot and most have no meaning but to flirt and post funny pics...but you know how I feel if people don't like it??? http://www.pics4fun.com/anigifs/fuckyou.gif

It is Laurels and Manus board and if the others don't like my post they don't have to read them...it isn't going to make me cry...I know there are alot of people who have told me they like them and one of them happens to be Laurel...so Bob toad, get over it and keep posting whatever and whenever you want...If you all don't like it then don't read it...damn i am so tired of saying this...

 

[Cheyenne]

Hey, Rosebud. Just for the record- I like all your funny pix, too. I always look where you have posted to see what outrageous thing you've found to include this time. I'm not usually disappointed, either. Keep em coming.

 

[Rosebud]

thanks cheyenne...you have mail hon....and this is for you..http://www.send4fun.com/IMAGES/flowers/yellowflower2.gif

 

[Cheyenne]

Very cool, thanks Rosebud! You have mail, too!

 

[Nicole]

Okay Bob ...

I didn't ask for an apology because basically I didn't deserve one. I do know some of the things that are going on in your life (after the event mind you), and I'm sorry for all that your currently feeling.

Bob I just want you to be able to go out and find someone to love and have them love you back ... it's the best medicine.

I wish you luck with your new job and I hope that the thick shell that you once had comes back.

NOW about Rosebud ... she doesn't need me to stick up for her but I wanted to say this about Rosebud.

Rosebud may post a lot but, Rosebud goes into two, three threads and does most of her posting in those particular threads, Threads that are made for what she does the best ... Flirting and placing Gifs up. When she does venture into other threads and answers, she answers through experience, not because she wants something to do. We all love what Rosebud does, she's cool and she didn't deserve what was said.

Again I know Rosebud does NOT need me to say that but I wanted too.

Bob I do truly wish you the best of luck, and I really don't want you to leave, just calm down, which I think your understanding now

Take Care Bob

P.S. Thanks for the apology but I didn't deserve one. I'm sorry to you also, please accept my apology.

 

[Never]

I do post too much and most of it's meaningless. Yet I've never had one mean e-mail or a thread dedicated to disliking me, why?

 

[Bobtoad777]

Never,

It's because you are family, and I am outsider. You been to those family reunions where one guy or gal has married someone not up to the rest of the families standards. Well that unwanted in the reunion, that is the position I fill here. And that Never is why I get a hate flame dedicated to me and you do not.

 

[Bobtoad777]

Nicole,

you deserve an apology because it took all the anger that i had last night and focused it solely in your direction. That is why I apologized to you, if anybody is undeserving of your apology it is me cause really you never did anything wrong in the first place.

 

[SeXy ReDHeD]

AAAHHH!!!!

Bobtoad~

Okay, here goes. I've never had any interaction with you, but I've read your posts and everyone's comments about/to you, and I agree with them. You just post too damn much. If you want to last on the BB, you gotta suck it up and listen to their advice.

 

[Nicole]

Listen to me ...

Firstly I want a smile okay see it can be done.

Secondly, lets forget it and work on getting that Thick skin back.

Thirdly, you NEED to have fun in your life, if that means coming here, then you do that. Try to have fun.

Bob I'm truly sorry for all that you are feeling, I added to that and I feel bad about that. I really wasn't trying to come across the way that you took it.

Want a story about Miss High and Mighty Nicole??? (LOL)

Last week wasn't my best week, I thought that the man I love was avoiding me when he wasn't and I subconsciously knew that. I even went to the point of telling him that we maybe needed a break, which was truly the last thing that I wanted. I was having troubles with my Parents and felt very unwanted all around. I hadn't cum in over two weeks and felt very tense indeed, THAT was my point. Everyone needs to relax, Umm ... cumming helps. I know that Masturbation helps that but (and your not alone here) We all need physical touch ... that was the point I was at last week, and being in an online relationship doesn't help that point much. I eventually came, (why Am I telling you this), and I felt 110% better for it, I calmed down and now all is fine.

What I was trying to say is that you are coming to a Porn site and seeing how others are dealing with their sex lives, sometimes that doesn't help at all. I want you to put your computer down and try to find at least someone in the real world that you can sit with and look in the eye, see their reactions to you, you can't do that from sitting there reading your computer screen.

Bob I talk out of experience, like I said to you, I am in an online relationship, Yes I am more than happy and people will never know just how happy he makes me, but I do crave that physical with him and I still have to wait a long time before either of us have that.

By all means come to the Board, come to the Net, but try to get out and find that person just for you, it is hard work on both parties going through a long distance online relationship, because I know he feels it too. Bob I just want you to be happy, like I do everyone in the world.

Good Luck Bob

 

[Skitten]

You first need to take a chill pill and chill out a little.
People don't like you positing that is fine that is their business. But you need to take the heat if you are going to
post meaningless ones. It is fine if that is what you want to do, but don't come wining when you don't like what others have to say.

And as for Rosebud she always makes us smile no matter what
Love the pics.

 

[sweetcyanide]

Hey bobtoad, I feel sorry for you...you seem like one of those guys who always has his foot in his mouth.

I know the feeling

 

[Bobtoad777]

SeXy ReDHeD,

Talk to the hand cause BobToad aint listening to trash any more.

sweetcyanide,

Thank you

Nicole,

Thank you.

Skitten,

Chillin

 

[KillerMuffin]

Grow up a little will ya?

Look Bob, we all fuck up, it's part of life. Don't dwell on it.

In case you never bothered to notice, I am as rampant a poster as you have ever been. Worse actually. The difference is that I really could care less what people who don't like me think of me.

The people here either like me or they don't. I don't pander to them, I don't try to suck up to them, I don't call them fuckhead meanie doodieheads when they hurt my feelings, I don't apologize and blame myself for every little wrong on the BB, I just blithely continue on my merry way enjoying my life. Those on the BB are more than welcome to enjoy with me. If not, the scroll bar works well for skimming past my blitherings.

Yes, it feels good when the so-called higher ups in BB's social heirarchy, like DCL, Nicole (you are such a sweetie), Wizzie/Skitten, Laurel, Lasher and of course, myself (I'm just kidding!!!! I'm not that conceited, not yet anyway.), pay attention to you and your threads. No doubt they will when you pose interesting points. You do not have to ask them to respond, thats pandering to them. You don't have to flatter outrageously to get them to pay attention to you, they will like you for who you are no matter what you say. You don't have to apologize every time your feelings are hurt by something cruel someone on the board has said, or take the blame for every little thing that seems to be going wrong. It won't make us like you any more.

You do not have to behave in a certain way to make people like you Bob, they either will or not, and thats all there is to it. You will be accepted on your own merits Bob, not by being flattering or apologetic. We tease you because you are easy to tease. Tease us back, it's okay, really. I rather prefer it. Be proud of yourself and who you are and don't worry about who like you or accepts you.

In the end, you're the person you have to face in the mirror. You're the person who has to like you. Not a single one of us matters in that moment. And that is one of the most important moments there is. If you don't like yourself, no one else will.

Banter with us, grow some dignity, be proud of yourself, develop your strengths and cope with your weaknesses. Don't pander, don't apologize unless it's legitimate, and don't martyr yourself to make us like you. It won't work.

Now I'm gonna go find out what thread Never is hanging on and go chase her around the couch. Toodles.

 

[Bonnie Wee Lassie]

Ok I read half way and had enough! Bob why the hell do you care so much. Who cares who likes you and who doesn't. Stop brown nosing it and you will gain more respect on this board. And as for those people who bitch about how many times you post or start threads. Take a look at how many times they post in a week and I am sure it is more than you. So who gives a shit anyways! I like you bob but just stop sucking up already.

 

[Bobtoad777]

Bonnie Wee Lassie,

Can't I at least suck up to you

 

[Bonnie Wee Lassie]

Isn't that a womans job?? LOL

OMG did I say that out load?

 

[Bobtoad777]

Bonnie Wee Lassie,

Well if you insist