Prostrate massage, newbie

[djkeev]

So, we are aging, my Wife has health and energy issues, but the sex drive remains.
Her desire to please has waned. That's the curse of aging I guess,

I recently discovered Prostrate Massage and the erotic feelings that come with it.

I've done it twice now, masturbated, the first time with a small powered dildo of my Wifes and then again with an NJoy wand.

The powered Dildo was pleasurable but I felt it was almost bruising.
I oozed precum, a feeling that I had to Pee and finished myself off with a hand job.

Next I used the small end of the NJoy Wand.
Once I got the small bulb of the wand into my rectum, the "pop" and immediate suction of the wand in was amazing! I quickly discovered what felt good as I moved it about.
I soon had to Poop, Pee and Cum!
So confusing!

I oozed a LOT of precum without an erection and the feelings were wonderful!
I must admit that the oozing almost felt like peeing, but it wasn't Pee at all. Rather is was a clearish very slippery excretion.
But never did I have anything close to the toe curling screaming whole body orgasm that I've read about.
It was pleasurable and I plan to try again but I've not experienced anything that was WOW!

Any tips?
Is this a learned pleasure?
The urge to poop and pee? What should I do differently?

DJ

 

[bitslinger]

I recently discovered Prostrate Massage and the erotic feelings that come with it.

First things first, the gland is called the "prostate". "prostrate" means something unrelated.

The powered Dildo was pleasurable but I felt it was almost bruising.

The prostate is a delicate gland. The powered dildo may have bruised it.

It was pleasurable and I plan to try again but I've not experienced anything that was WOW! Any tips? Is this a learned pleasure?

There seems to be only a small number of people who claim to get the big orgasms. Most people seem to report exactly your experience - it feels good, but isn't really all that. I enjoy the feeling, but rarely feel anything remotely orgasmic.

The urge to poop and pee? What should I do differently?

Don't eat a big meal before playing. Use the bathroom first. If you haven't gone in a while, the toy will definitely stimulate the need to go. For poop, wait a while after going before inserting the toy to minimize the mess.

For me, peeing first is a double-edged sword. Since the toy is pressing the prostate against your bladder, it is going to make you feel like you need to pee. In my experience, having some pee in the bladder helps give some resistance to the toy and feels good. Peeing before I start makes it much harder to get that good feeling and cum out. Too full of a bladder just feels uncomfortable and distracting. You'll have to find what works for you.

My best experiences come from stroking the toy across my prostate gland, rather than mashing the toy against it. It takes longer, but feels better and I can get a lot more cum flowing if I can work the seminal vesicles with the toy.

It's also very easy to massage the prostate gland from outside by pressing the toy into the "taint".

In the end, I think it all comes down to being patient and experimenting with what you like and how your body responds.

 

[FL30]

there are several threads that deal with prostate massage already.

You'll have to go through a couple of pages to find them though so don't be lazy.

 

[bitslinger]

there are several threads that deal with prostate massage already.

You'll have to go through a couple of pages to find them though so don't be lazy.

People are free to post their own questions.

 

[djkeev]

Thank You Bitslinger for the defense.....

I must admit I was taken aback by the harsh initial replies!

Spelling error! Admittedly Followed by some good advice.......

Then the old I ain't gonna help ya! Use the search!
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Ok, yes..... I mis-spelled, please accept my apologies for my error. I'll be aware of this.

And Yes, I searched and read every thread here-in I could find.
I felt that my particular first hand experience wasn't addressed in any of them.
Hence this post.

Anyway, thanks for the advice I did get, I'll continue to muddle along with this new sexual venture.