is it possible that in some people, the whole cumming amazingly thru prostate massage just doesnt work? cos i'v tried for years, and after miserable failure to get anything but a mild discomfort, its put me off and i'm disappointed cos i'm guessing i'm missing out..I'v read guides etc, had my fingers there, prety sure i'v found the gland, but all i get is the mildest of tickling sensations, which quickly turns to irritating..Am guessing a helping hand would get me there, but without this, how do i have fun???