propositioning my former teacher?

[LusciousLoralie]

I want to ask my tenth-grade biology teacher if I can suck his dick. I was in his class four years ago as a sophomore, when I was 16. I haven't seen him in probably three years and I'm not sure that he'll remember me.

My naughty intentions aren't completely unwarranted here. He was one of the teachers that I received preferential treatment from as a result of me shamelessly displaying my deliciously nubile breasts. (There were many times where I was coerced into staying after class so he could stare at my cleavage and disguise it as "conversation")

He's one of those men that I want though I'm not physically attracted to them at all. Middle aged married men who I know would be positively delighted to see a very voluptuous virgin get down on her knees and take their cock into her pretty pink mouth. Men who's wives don't swallow, or even let them cum in her mouth. Men who can't remember the last time they got a blow job. Men who aren't "getting any" anymore.

So what should I say? "Remember me? With the big tits? Can I suck you off during lunch?"

 

[silverwhisper]

to be honest, i'm not a fan of this idea. there aren't any single men that interest you? i mean, sure, you can make the offer and he can always say no, obviously. but i think that enabling a bad decision is a bad thing to do, myself.

i'm also really fuzzy on the reason for the appeal here. you're not sexually attracted, you already said that. it sounds to me a lot like you want to use a former authority figure in your life for a little ego gratification and maybe exploring your own sexual power.

ed

 

[operaBaritone]

Unfortunately I'm gonna have to agree with silver whisper here

Married men, I would assume, in their better moments, do not want to be propositioned by anyone, and would almost assuredly regret it later. (again, in their better moments, everyone has fantasies).

I don't mean to be mean, but your actions could do serious harm to this man's marriage... that would seem to matter to me...

I'm all for sex, sex, and more sex, but I try to at the very least hold to the Wiccan Rede, though I am not Wiccan

(A Wiccan can of course correct my rendition if I mess this up)

"If it harm none, do as you please"

Just food for thought

 

[emap]

I'm going along with him, it's a bad idea to do this.

That said though, if you are dead set on asking, go after school, nobody will think twice on you being there, you are either a student or a sister of a student. Talk to him as an old student until nobody is there then I don't know, rather up to you and the vibe you are getting, if he seems interested simply ask if he wants you on your knees. If he isn't probably best to not ask, he is married and a teacher, even past student sex can be bad for his career simply because parents flip at the smallest thingys.

 

[Eilan]

Why would you assume that he's sex-starved just because he's a middle-aged married man? (I know, I know. . .)

Maybe he's married to a former student who beat you to the punch!

 

[nipple jewelry]

All things being equal (and I love married men because there so much less drama with them, but then that is for another thread), and if you are going to do this, DO NOT IT at the school.

I guess so far my opinion is not the majority.

Find out where he has lunch, what he does for fun on the weekends (if you were his student he must have said some things in class, think back) and find him in a neutral place.

My guess he would be flattered to be asked, even if he is getting it regularly (and Eilan is right, why do you think he is not? My husband is middle-aged and gets fucked all the time.), but he would certainly not jeopardize his job for blowing his nut ONE time! Even if you offered him a facial.

Get him off campus and knock your socks off!

My nickels worth.

 

[Somehowyou]

I want to ask my tenth-grade biology teacher if I can suck his dick. I was in his class four years ago as a sophomore, when I was 16. I haven't seen him in probably three years and I'm not sure that he'll remember me.

My naughty intentions aren't completely unwarranted here. He was one of the teachers that I received preferential treatment from as a result of me shamelessly displaying my deliciously nubile breasts. (There were many times where I was coerced into staying after class so he could stare at my cleavage and disguise it as "conversation")

He's one of those men that I want though I'm not physically attracted to them at all. Middle aged married men who I know would be positively delighted to see a very voluptuous virgin get down on her knees and take their cock into her pretty pink mouth. Men who's wives don't swallow, or even let them cum in her mouth. Men who can't remember the last time they got a blow job. Men who aren't "getting any" anymore.

So what should I say? "Remember me? With the big tits? Can I suck you off during lunch?"

I'm gonna go out on a limb here. Call him and ask him out for a coffee. Tell him some bull shit that you want to share with him your college experience and how his class helped you succeed etc.etc. or tell him you have a new text for what they are teaching now blah blah blah. This will help him rationalize for meeting with you and thats all you need. After a 30 minute conversation put your hand on his and tell him what your thinking. I'll bet anyone my paycheck you will have "your way" with him...and you won't be able to pry the smile off the lucky bastards face for a month.

 

[thirty]

I want to ask my tenth-grade biology teacher if I can suck his dick. I was in his class four years ago as a sophomore, when I was 16. I haven't seen him in probably three years and I'm not sure that he'll remember me.

My naughty intentions aren't completely unwarranted here. He was one of the teachers that I received preferential treatment from as a result of me shamelessly displaying my deliciously nubile breasts. (There were many times where I was coerced into staying after class so he could stare at my cleavage and disguise it as "conversation")

He's one of those men that I want though I'm not physically attracted to them at all. Middle aged married men who I know would be positively delighted to see a very voluptuous virgin get down on her knees and take their cock into her pretty pink mouth. Men who's wives don't swallow, or even let them cum in her mouth. Men who can't remember the last time they got a blow job. Men who aren't "getting any" anymore.

So what should I say? "Remember me? With the big tits? Can I suck you off during lunch?"

Hmmm, I would give you a A if I were your teacher.

 

[Lost_Yonder]

I'm gonna go out on a limb here. Call him and ask him out for a coffee. Tell him some bull shit that you want to share with him your college experience and how his class helped you succeed etc.etc. or tell him you have a new text for what they are teaching now blah blah blah. This will help him rationalize for meeting with you and thats all you need. After a 30 minute conversation put your hand on his and tell him what your thinking. I'll bet anyone my paycheck you will have "your way" with him...and you won't be able to pry the smile off the lucky bastards face for a month.

agreed... just be sure to share all the juicy details with us poor guys who only wish a former student would approach them with such a proposition! but if for any strange reason he turns down your offer, do keep in mind i'm available as a substitute teacher!

 

[bisexualsmoker]

So what should I say? "Remember me? With the big tits? Can I suck you off during lunch?"

That's exactly what you should say.

 

[greystardust]

1st show him some cleavage, tease, get him hot. If he is, go out on a limb and be honest, it's your prerogative.

 

[LusciousLoralie]

I'm not saying that all middle-aged married men don't have sex with their wives. I'm saying that this man in particular is the type that I believe doesn't have sex with his wife. Very much like one of my uncles and a neighbor I used to have. Maybe my sixth sense is being able to tell whether or not men are getting laid.

Plus, it's been four years. Maybe he's divorced or seperated now. I'll never know unless I ask, right?

 

[your_vice]

Have you considered that you could be putting yourself at risk? You might just want to suck his cock but that might end up not being all he wants once he's horny and reckless. This might be a power trip for you in theory but it could really backfire in practice. Then there's the risk of herpes or chlamydia. You gonna bag him up? What if he doesn't want to wear one? Once you're alone with him you're very vulnerable.

 

[culloden]

I won't tell you not to do this. But as a middle aged man myself, admittedly with a grand sex life, in the aggregate I wouldn't welcome something like this. It would be flattering, but no way would I go for it. And it would put me in an awkward position. Not only would I feel odd whenever I happened run into you, I'd have to mention it to my wife. That would put you on her shit list. Maybe you live in a big enough place where that wouldn't affect you. I don't.

 

[horgasm]

Knowing a little bit about educational law, I can see a whole host of potential problems with this. Of course, what teacher doesn't dream of getting sucked off by a 20-year old whose tits he used to stare at, but here are a few of the potential pitfalls:
1.) if it's found out, especially if he's married, you could permanently damage his career. Although it wouldn't be proven, rumors about "Mr. X fucking a former student" would become "Mr. X fucked a student" to "Mr. X fucks his students" very quickly. Jobs could be lost over this. You could potentially really screw up his life.

2.) If he lives in the town where he teaches, you'd be fucking his life around town as well. He would be known as "the teacher who fucks his students" and in 2010, if you DON'T think this would find its way to Facebook or Myspace, you're out of your mind.

3.) He might not want to do it. It sounds implausible, but it's a possibility. If he's happily married, or even if he knows he shouldn't get blown by former students, there's a good chance he won't go for it. You'd end up embarrassing yourself, not to mention degrading yourself.

4.) If this ever happens, DO NOT do it ANYWHERE NEAR the school, OR at a place where anyone from the school could potentially find out. See #1 for my thinking here.

5.) You're 20, and a virgin, and you want to suck your old teacher's dick. Isn't there someone your own age you would want to be with? Couldn't you find a guy (or guys) who are much less trouble for YOU?

6.) There could be legal concerns. While it's not illegal for a teacher to be with a former student, your pursuit could lead to stalking and/or harassment charges. Admittedly unlikely that it will go that far, but if he says no, no means no.

 

[XXXlindanXXX]

One of my former teachers from my junior year admitted to being attracted to me. He's teaching in a different state now and hasn't been my teacher for many years. The only thing that held him back from pursuing me was he didn't want to risk his career. I must admit it was flattering. We even talk on a regular basis. I did have a little bit of a school girl crush on him as well. That being said, I wouldn't attempt anything with him. I'm afraid there would be too many complications if we did.

 

[Sunndance07]

Send him an email, saying you are still thinking of him and want to see him again....would like to meet for a drink. Give your phone number too.
Let it happen naturally.

 

[midwestyankee]

You could consider behaving like an adult and accepting this fantasy for what it is and then move on to other and finer pursuits.

 

[hornymwm40]

Don't you now wish you had fucked him in high school. When i was in hs my girlfriend's best friend was fucking one of the football coaches. I think my gf and I were the only ones that knew. We even all did it in the same room a couple of times. Pretty hot at the time.

 

[dionysus75]

I don't see the big deal in trying to fullfil a fantasy. You're excited to get down on your knees and sucking him off. He was excited looking at your big cleavage. Sounds like a good match. I think the importa
nt thing is to be smooth about it. I think dressing sexy (low cut top) and dropping by saying you were with a younger friend and thought you'd say hello to old teacher you appreciated might get thing to start easily and offer him a way to not go forward if he's not interested. I think lots of you guys are way to serious!! Relax, we only live once...

 

[midwestyankee]

I don't see the big deal in trying to fullfil a fantasy. You're excited to get down on your knees and sucking him off. He was excited looking at your big cleavage. Sounds like a good match. I think the importa
nt thing is to be smooth about it. I think dressing sexy (low cut top) and dropping by saying you were with a younger friend and thought you'd say hello to old teacher you appreciated might get thing to start easily and offer him a way to not go forward if he's not interested. I think lots of you guys are way to serious!! Relax, we only live once...

And so does this former teacher only live once. So the prospect of ruining that one life for her fantasy means nothing to you?

 

[LusciousLoralie]

He already knows what he should and shouldn't do. If he agrees to it and something happens, it certainly won't be all my fault. Plus I'm not planning a rape. He can say no and that will be the end of it. This isn't a Lifetime movie; I'm not going to kill him and his whole family if he rejects me.

If his marriage is ruined just because I suck him off one time then there are obviously a lot of other preexisting issues between them.

Send him an email, saying you are still thinking of him and want to see him again....would like to meet for a drink. Give your phone number too.
Let it happen naturally.

This is the least I can do to be somewhat subtle about it.

Don't you now wish you had fucked him in high school? When I was in hs, my girlfriend's best friend was fucking one of the football coaches.

I do not wish I'd fucked him in while I was still in high school. Sexual intercourse with a 16-year-old is soooo much worse and illegal in general rather than a blowjob from a 20-year-old. Although, I do wish that I was more provocative with him and that I was as sexually adventurous then as I am now.

That reminds me of Coach Carr in "Mean Girls" and those two asian chicks fighting over him.

 

[jokerwild01]

Take it from a former teacher, leave it alone. The games you played in the classroom were enough for him to fantasize about when he is with his wife. If you were to interrupt the fantasy and bring it into reality the fantasy is gone but replaced with getting caught, getting a disease, getting rejected or being disappointed. I've had students like you. And, yes, I enjoyed every minute of it. And if one was to proposition me like that... there is this one that I would really have a hard time saying no to. But my recommendation is to leave it in the classroom where it has been and don't risk being put in detention.

 

[dionysus75]

why would his life be ruined againm she's not his student anymore. what are you guys obsessing about?

 

[jello_man]

She is an adult now and so is he. They have their own choices to make.