Proof that nice guys never get the woman - even feminists don't want them!

[LJ_Reloaded]

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/soloish/wp/2016/09/13/im-a-feminist-whos-attracted-to-manly-men/

Within minutes of meeting my Bumble date at a bike race, he demanded that I take off my sunglasses so he could see my eyes. I obliged. In the two hours we were together, he proceeded to put his hand firmly on my butt, pretending to usher me through a crowd. He also did not ask before reaching over to rub my shoulders, as though he had a right to touch my body.

As a feminist writer, I understand that these behaviors denote male entitlement and indicate that he might not respect women. And yet, I was turned on. I have always been attracted to dominant men.

I have intermittently been dating online for over two years, and I have dated all kinds of men: those in white-collar jobs and blue-collar ones; white men; dark men; young men; older men; tall men; short men; men who lie about their relationship status. But what hasn’t wavered, is that, as a “traditionally feminine” woman, I end up being attracted to the men who come off as “traditionally masculine.”

Feminists say they hate bad boys but lo and behold they get turned on by bad boys.

From what I’ve glimpsed in dating these 30- to 45-year-old men, most of them seemed to be just as confused as I am. They try to be progressive when it comes to gender roles but don’t have a clear blueprint of how to proceed.

No fucking shit. Feminists howl all day about how traditionally masculine men are misogynist terrorist pigs and we can't even fucking sit on a train without being harassed for "manspreading" but yet what gets women's panties wet? Bad boys.

No, not all women are hypocrites, but it is completely impossible to tell the ones who are from the ones who aren't. No one can ever know whether the woman they're interacting with is going to be someone who wants a traditionally masculine guy or someone who wants a better sort of man.

If you're a gentleman you risk being seen as weak and then getting rejected. If you're a bad boy then you risk getting your ass kicked or going to jail.

A nice guy who takes the safe route is the least desirable with women. Tread in fear of violating her boundaries and you'll always lose to some bonehead who doesn't care about boundaries. Always.

Case in point, look at Donald Trump and all his female admirers. Bad boy lays, nice guy pays for kids that ain't his. Which is why I was never a fucking nice guy.

 

[Queersetti]

It is somehow comforting that no matter how long a lit break I take, when I come back, you're exactly as crazy as when I left.

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

It is somehow comforting that no matter how long a lit break I take, when I come back, you're exactly as crazy as when I left.

Coming from you that's high praise indeed.

 

[Lancecastor]

No one can ever know whether the woman they're interacting with is going to be someone who wants a traditionally masculine guy or someone who wants a better sort of man.

What do you mean, "a better sort of man"?

You just finished saying women prefer dominant men (which is true).

Why should you or anyone be judging what women want?

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Denny

I'm so confused. I've had very little experience dating. I was a nice guy (kid) yet ended up with the girl of my dreams.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

What do you mean, "a better sort of man"?

You just finished saying women prefer dominant men (which is true).

Why should you or anyone be judging what women want?

They judge men for what they want, so it goes both ways.

Women are always screaming about how men only want bitches and there's no good men around and all the good men are taken...